Month: September 2015

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Can seduction be taught?

The problem

I assume that most people have no idea how to deal with the other sex. They are unable to understand each other. So I tell myself that it could be a good thing to explain seduction.

However, claiming to 100% control the workings of seduction and to transmit this knowledge seems to me boastful, disconnected from reality and unhealthy for the guru as for the student. I speak of guru in this case because I think there are several schools that claim they get the knowledge and that competitors are zero … but the truth is that each holds part of the truth. Mystery, Ross Jeffries, Cajun, DeAngelo, etc. : OK. There is truth in what they say. But there’s also the commercial crap. And every time is claimed to be able to seduce THE women (and not SOME women) this is wrong. Even worse when they pretend that if it does not work it is because the student has done something that he should not (it may be true but it could have screwed up even if he had ollowed the method to the letter). Otherwise explain me why these alleged universal seducers do not make out with beautiful women important, rich, famous, etc. instead of merely cute waitresses.

Indeed, we must have the humility to realize that:
– What works for the coach may not work for all students;
– What worked in the past won’t necessarily work in the future;
– The stories past, present and future of the protagonists will influence the interaction;
– All girls are similar and different;
– According to the moment, the same girl will suck you or will reject you;
– As you are constantly changing, your level is not regular from one day to the next one;
– Because there are so many things we do know nor control down here now it might be time to recognize it. BUT THIS IS NOT A PROBLEM.
– Because we do not bathe twice in the same river …

The thing is that a small variation in the experimental protocol can dramatically change the result of the interaction. One drop too much in the potion (or one less drop) can turn you into ogre or dwarf when it was supposed to turn you into a prince charming. Do you understand the metaphor?

With humans it is even more difficult than physics and chemistry: situations, contexts, attitudes of people are never the same. 1 electron = 1 electron. But in seduction: one woman is not equal to another. The equation changes every time, not just the unknown. It is therefore a drama to pretend extrapolating our experiences across all women or all situations, etc. Especially since we ourselves have studied on small experimental sample (human-sized).

However, I agree that there are fundamental things that really work to make you stay ahead in the context. The first thing you must understand is that seduction is statistics, this is what I explain well in The (inconvenient) truth about gender relations. So if you think filling yourself with theory before going on the field will guarantee you invincibility or confer a degree allowing you to give lessons to others: you are sinking your index finger in the eye up to your anus.

For the money (or because they really believe in it but then they are stupid), “how to seduce ALL THE women” is what want to teach you most of my colleagues. They will supposedly teach you how to seduce THIS girl. All that is bullshit for suckers. So no, I do not teach seduction! I’m not God, and I do not think one single person on this planet can boast to have found the magic potion allowing to fuck any girl, anywhere, anytime.

Anyway, I think that seduction cannot be considered indiscriminately as a collective sport. There’s some coaches that really do it for the love of art. Most do it to take your money. They have no interest in really teaching you how to pickup chicks or there would be less women for them. What I mean is that we must think carefully who listening the advice from in the seduction community. The women have understood that better than us, and they realistically rely more on their friends to extract them from the clutches of a weirdo than to conquer a stud.

The solution

Now that we have laid the foundations of the problems, we must recognize that some guys are doing well with the game. What background do they have? It is those who are open and adaptable. Indeed, when one is stuck in a failure scenario or on a stereotyped behavior … he does not open enough in terms of empathy, creativity and authenticity.

My role is to show you that I am rejected too, but I totally changed my mind over this. And with a good state of mind: I forget the faimures, the field of possibilities opens up and I can score goals in any position like Jean-Pierre Papin.

So you have to unlearn the crap that some put in your head and learn from your real life experiences on the field. Otherwise, you will all your life seek advice from so-called “experts” on seduction forums (who are actually virgins geeks full of theory and who love giving lessons but who do not do much on the field ). There is always a way to get something concrete from your experiences, I mean, something more than “it works” or “it does not work.” This is what I want to teach you.

My role is to help apprentices PUA to unlearn their misconceptions and break some bad habits. I have to remove the stones that fell in the middle of the road. Crappy stuff like “I am worth nothing”, “it is impossible to kiss a girl tonight because XXX”, “others are better or have more rights than me”, “I cannot hit on this hottie because XXX “,”it is not correct to approach her like that “etc. Freed from this glass prison and from the fear of what other procrastinators think (and women who do not always right), my Padawans can enjoy the delights of the action and originality. And succeed!

Although I love cum kicks in anthills, I must remind you that like all good learning: the seduction / pickup / the game (call it what you want) is something you learn on the long term. It is not enough to read a math manual for the level of a doctoral student. But you can cook well by following a cake recipe to the letter, though that does not make you a pastry.

I hope with this blog make you want to venture out of your comfort zone. Make you wonder more often “and why not in fact?” and then acting accordingly. Please beware of comfort, routine and lack of initiative. Inaction is your biggest enemy in seduction.

What I currently observe

The men are on their side in herds, empting pints of beer. The women wonder if a guy will have big balls enough the balls to come and approach them before the bar closed. When a guy does, it is often that he drank enough to dare, but the chicks do not necessarily like alcoholics who are crap. They are wary and there’s a tense between the two sexes.

In the everyday life, flirting and sexual tension are present in all our interactions … but are not socially accepted. We live among a mass of coward hypocrites. One might say that if women observe that men dare not approach, they could help us in one way or another to take the plunge. But no. On the contrary: when a guy clumsily dare they look at him as a UFO and cut him any desire to make his balls regrow. But this attitude, despite what one might think, does not make them happy so far: in front of the wilderness of their emotional life, they wonder if they have become ugly. And watch TV at home alone. Or take a cat.

People have difficulty admitting that everything depends on chance, and statistics. That’s why some are offended when approached in the street: “It could very well be another you would have approached instead of me”, they say to me sometimes. I’m sorry but even those who seek a soul mate: you choose from a panel in your immediate environment. So if instead of studying in Aix you had studied in Lyon, the panel and the environment would have been different. Your soul mate would have probably been too. QED. “Yes but it is you I approached … is it fate?”

I know quite a few people who eventually resign themselves to a default relationship. It’s sad. I hope you’ll avoid that.

Many women admit they would like to enjoy their celibacy/youth and dare to live steamy nights with beautiful strangers. But they do not take the plunge because their conditioning and their previous experiences have left their bad memories tinged with guilt and shame. During their old times, they realize that it was the good time and that it was stupid to do so.

And then women claim seeking for spontaneity and authenticity in men. We, the PUA, we are willing to offer them as our learning taught us: but that’s not why people who are offered this gift can recognize and accept it. Everyone is suspicious of everyone now. I find it sad but I cannot prove them wrong.

Gender equality is a good thing, I think, in general. But in seduction, that creates confusion. Each sex should have its role in seduction… but how to explain it to men and women heard on loope since they are young that woman = man! In practice, men are more likely to take risks and better tolerate rejection. While women have more empathy and understand body language better than men. From this, it’s up to us!

Feminists have also done a good job in cutting our balls. There’s even guys who look at you like it is wrong when you APPROACH girls… and then they return with their boyfriends. They make fun of you when you APPROACH but do not have the balls to do it!

With some advice from a good coach and a small makeover, any not ugly girl could learn to get her hands on one or more interesting men. Just by playing her cards better than others. By judiciously sending invitations to the approach for example. A large majority of men can not in fact refuse the advances of a not ugly woman because sexual diversity is less dangerous for a man than for a woman. And because they are substantially all sex-starved. From this observation, it’s up to you, ladies!

Some tell me “I would rather want to be loved for what I am rather than for my physical appearance / cash. “I often reply “I dunno : when you fall from a ladder, this is the law of gravity that rules. Well, when you pickup you must accept to follow the laws of sexual attraction.” It’s as simple as that. Then, I’m not saying you will have to pay stuff for bitches, but rather you will learn how to seduce these girls (who are beautiful enough to make out with footballers) through your alpha personality and your originality.

I really have a lot of female readers, almost more than male readers … so I’m happy. I have the impression of building a bridge, in my scale, between men and women. And between people and themselves. It’s very rewarding.

I think that despite what you might think when you see a girl being approached 30 times in a club: they also are in difficulty. So we have a chance. A chance to get out all together. Beautiful women are not nymphs who master all the keys of seduction. They’re just human as we are. From this, game is on!

I would certainly have been talking about a lot of other stuff but if I write too long texts that discourages some illiterate readers so I will stop here. :p

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What a girl says, she does not necessarily mean it

This text is a bonus in my Diary of a French PUA 2

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I had a good night,I’m drinking some tea and prepares a marriage proposal for Lola Le Lann. Suffice to say that I’m in good conditions to lay this little misogynistic text: What a girl says she does not necessarily thinks it. I give you her few funny examples of the famous “logic princesses” (which only makes sense for them and which is responsible for the fact that they drive us crazy sometimes).

1) I met this chick for the first time at a friend’s in Marseille. We drank, we went out and I warmed her in a club. Then we got back to Aix in train. In the station, she confessed to me still living with her parents and so I could not come at her place. I have proposed to go at my place or in a hotel but “I am not that kind of girl who will sleep anywhere with a guy met that same evening.” Instead, we made love in the lobby of a building that remained open. I even buried the condom in a flower pot faded (it gave them back the force).

2) I had invited this girl over but she was menstruating. We thus caressed each other a little, just for fun. I invited her again one week later to finish the job, she came and we did it. She decided to spend the night with me but complained of not having a change of clothes to go to work the next day because “I did not expect to sleep with you nor to spend the night here …” And my ass is some chicken, chick?

3) I had invited the girl to eat at my apartment one night. She refused, claiming having an evening with friends. She made a counterproposal: the same day but at noon, it was OK. We spent the afternoon together and fucked on digestion. Height of height, we stayed together the whole afternoon and she spent the night with me. What happened this party with her friends? “I had not really one, but if I had come in the evening, I came to sleep with you…”

4) I had pick up this girl in college. She had given me her Facebook and had made it clear that she had no phone so no number. I slept with her a few times at home before being invited to her place. I saw I-phone loading there she apparently never takes with her or hides deeply in her bag. I asked her why she had lied to me and she said “it is dangerous: there are plenty of people that cannot be trusted, so my friends have advised me not to give my number to guys because we do not know what can happen if we fall on a psychopath.” So: she lets a guy she barely knows making love to her, she spends the night with me at the first date and even asks me to slap her during sex but was not confident enough to give me herphone number because her friends told her to be careful of strangers. It is the pot calling the kettle back! I guess I’m gonna buy candy and distribute it at the exit of college …

5) I asked a friend living in Lyon if I could sleep at her place, overnight. She said she first had to ask permission from her boyfriend who would not be there. She added that she would feel guilty if she did not talk about it and many other stupid things about no breaking trust in her couple. It was OK for him. There, she offered me a disgusting deep-frozen pancake and sucked me. Before leaving the next day I have left a note to thank her for orgasm and attempted poisoning. I hope her guy will never read it…

Moral: if a girl resists once but that was we were good enough, it’s just a matter of principle or to piss you off. Do not give up but show determination. On the other hand, there is denial and REFUSAL: do not turn into clumsy insisting because you think she tests you while in factyou screwed up or she absolutely doesn’t like us (it happens – even if they would stand to gain by having sex with a respectful PUA and they would like it but they do not always realize it).

I do not think that girls resist better than us the sexual tension. Like a beautiful girl drives us crazy, I think that when she likes a guy : if he puts the pressure on the person with the ball he is often going to score the goal.

All this to say that we cannot really trust the first come girl, even if she is cute and even if we want to believe her, it is sad and that breaks the trust between men and women. It is necessary to know it to don’t count on them too fast all the same. That breaks my heart to say that but most of the girls are not reliable. Then I know guys out there who react by not being reliable neither. Or it is the opposite, it is women who protect themselves. In brief, it is the girl whose astrological sign is “snake” which died the tail.

For me the problem it is not even that the girls have only a mouth but nothing behind. It is that most of people generally have just a mouth and there’s nothing behind…

Game for you, according to your values !

#FabriceJulien, author of indecent texts but full of love

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30 little lessons on the gender relations

lessons of seduction

This text is a bonus in my Diary of a French PUA 2

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It’s been a while since I publish only adventures. It is time to take stock and draw some lessons. Here are thus 30 little lessons on the gender relations :

1) Think for yourself. This is the basis of the database but if you let yourself be influenced by Pierre, Paul and Jacques, you will gonowhere.

Then it goes through there to don’t be a sheep. Did you know ? Only 5% of people are innovators, 95% others are only vulgar followers devoid of reflection and critical thinking… Good pathetic sheep that graze on transgenic pasture that society orders them to swallow. What category of person do you think is more attractive? According to this logic, only 5% of players will become a good day.

2) In the same vein, we do not care about critics on our way of life.

Seriously, what acritical person says or does with more or less bad faithusually reveals more onthe fears of this person than on yours. Do not take at face value the crap one throws in your face, be strong, confident in your opinions and travel the world by realizing that most people are idiots and that their opinion does not even deserve to be considered by someone like you. Live for you and detach yourself from the eyes of those who are prisoners of their (wrong) limiting beliefs. Have fun, that’s all what is important, not the others! I would also like to tell to the hot girls to don’t get big-headed too much for that because with time faces wrinkle and breasts fall. And to the guys to score when they have the opportunity because the girls are a often weather vanes.

3) Seduction is everywhere.

It governs our lives, our wallets, our well-being … Its laws obeys to emotions and not to logic. They have hardly changed for centuries, they remained independent of race or culture of the country since the true “Game” speaks directly to the instinct of a girl, bypassing the “reason”(but this is to be qualified in the practice because that it is the official propaganda of Mystery). Remember: The seduction can make you become an accomplished man, a simple friend, a lover, a husband, a lover and even a god … But also, an enemy, a prey and a corpse. As with any weapon, be careful when you use it! It can work against you. I’ve already paid the price.

4) Attraction isn’t a choice :

David DeAngelo speaks better than me about it but you might as well seduce Swedish chicks who largely deserves their rank 10/10 as well you can fall in love unfortunately with a50 yearsold women (I’m exaggerating). These are the vagaries of life… “The heart has its reasons of which reason knows nothing.”As would say Roger Dodger ” sex is everywhere “. As would say my office co-worker: do not listen to these hypocrites because the whole world is governed by the 0 and the 1 with the 1 which makes comings and goings in the buckle of the 0.

5) Between doggystyle and fantasize, choose.

By definition, we cannot fantasize about the girl with whom we sleep. At best, we can rethink about chicks we had sex with by jerking off.

6) We only have one life.

Any good psychiatrist will tell you CARPE DIEM must be/become your philosophy to be happy and enjoy your time on Earth.But not just any old way,all the same. Always weigh the pros and cons and assume that there will be a tomorrow.Living the present moment: yes. Committing suicide in the everyday life: no.

7) Errors are sometimes good.

Of course we can learn from it (it is well known) but what you are probably less aware is that they can prevent us from big stupid mistakes. Of course, we did not manage to sleep with this girl, but maybe she had AIDS or something. Maybe our lucky stars in fact have saved us from something much worse than missing a pussy that seemed open to our cock.

8) A relationship is built in stages:

If your Game foundations are fragile, the building formed by this girl climbing on your cock can collapse at any time (hello, it’s a metaphor – think about it).

9) The adventure is around the corner:

leave home and be sociable. The life of a man flourished through human interaction. I know that it can make you be thought of as a strange guy but at least you will be yourself not like those who wear masks hoping to look “normal”. I am proud to be different.

10) The peacocking theory claims that, as this bird spreads its colorful tail to attract females, the man who wants to attract girls should stand out from the competition.

There is however a gap that can form between cultures: Sex before marriage, arranged marriages, etc … However, the science of pickup is universal and peacocking (standing out rather than blending in, being enough confident to assume wearing accessories, embodying a more exciting lifestyle than the one girls are used) seems to operate in all cultures. But not necessarily with the most tight-ass peoplenor with the most manipulated by society, and it’s not a problem, they are not the target.THE KEYWORD OF AN UNINHIBITED AND EFFECTIVE GAME IS: ASSUME! It is not because most of people assume(accept) nothing and invent excuses that we have to do the same thing! Assume yourself for God’s sake! Let’s show the example together if we want that things change and that the world becomes less hypocritical!

11) Girls love it is said that it is not in their habits to give up to the sex appeal.

But in fact, they just want us to imagine that it is not in their habits. Question of reputation and everything… They are not programmed like us in terms of responses to temptation. Again, culture, education received, and her models can influence her behavior (it’s like kissing a girl: for some it means something important, for others it’s like if they were buying their bread, it’s just casual like that).

12) The unknown is more attractive than boredom.

The main border that separates us from the adventure is anxiety (approachanxiety as well as sexualanxiety).Beating it releases a sometimes unsuspected potential. It always comes back there, talking to people and being sexual must become your second nature…

13) The obstacles tenfold desire:

provided that there is hope and that the attraction is already felt. Indeed, persisting when it’s over equals losingyour time and self-esteem.

14) True strength is emotional trickery, because the brain dominates the body.

15) You are what you perceive.

At least in the eyes of people who do not really know you. And how many people can you say that you really know? In my opinion, it can be counted on the fingers of one hand. So I am a genius for some, a dangerous monster for others! Also, certain days, I am really a God on the field, others I’m not that awesome. That is why it is necessary to see on the length-term.

16) We do not sell off our respect.

Including by giving money or by making too many efforts for a girl to get sexual favors (which are not even guaranteed).

17) The feminine sexual appetite, when one manages to unleash it, is much more voracious than that the appetite of man.

18) The character of a woman (and yours too btw) is certainly influenced by her intellectual level and plastic but also by past events in her life including her childhood.

So if you look like her father she loved, she will instantly have a crush on you. Similarly, if her father beat her, you can be as handsome as Ryan Gosling, she will hate you if you look like him. It’s just an example.

19) Hope for the best, prepare for the worst.

You never know what a girl can book us but we always remain optimistic without being blinded. Stepping back on situations and on yourself avoids a lot of disappointments.

20) An obstacle is not really important when you’re motivated to overcome it.

They make me laugh the girls who say “yeah I like you but we cannot meet for X or Y reasons” because in fact they want to keep us below the elbow. When you really want someone, you can. Beware of bitches who most of the time just seek to be desired by many.They probably will never do anything more than what it takes to maintain your flame. Your “Game” if he gets this result, probably wasn’t good enough … Again, the problem may also come from the chick and her broom in the ass, from her lack of internal strength (will to overcome social pressure) or from her deep fears. If it does not cost you much to maintain contact with such a chick you can, when in doubt, but do not invest much. And those who got cold feet once will probably get cold feet all the time thus do not take them too seriously after the first flake. The thing is girls often secretly want but do not manage to dare thus they blame you because it is easier to youmake feel guilty: but it is not always your fault when it doesn’t work… you will notice it when you will be sure that you have good Game. The not confident girls want guarantees before having sex or whatever because they know that it would be better for you with another girl but they don’t want you to know it.

21) It is better to avoid drugs and alcohol abuse to have a clear mind to better “Game”.

Most people who use these substances are unhappy people who fill a void. But the seducer is supposed to be comfortable. Another thing: if you do not know why you drink, or if you get drunk because “it feels good” or “to do like the others’, then refer to 1), stupid asshole ;).

22) Emotions = reason. In seduction, we must reach to offside logic of the girl.

She must live a moment out of time with you. And as far as possible, do not regret it after.

23) The sex spectrum can fit men and women in stereotypical roles.

Man seeking pleasure, woman fleeing pain. The fear experienced by men when they approach a girl, women feel it when they give in to the penis of n asshole. To be invented : the condoms that would protect from STDs, babies, and feelings. Indeed, the “fair sex” can say what it wants,they suffer more after orgasm before depending on who she falls on. If we can speak of suffering. It is also the role of the PUA to be nice with the babes oncefucked. Love women do not hate them, PLZ !I know that the border is fine.

24) Love without trust does not lead anywhere.

Can it even exist? Jealousy shattering confidence and lack of trust breaking love. If you are too jealous and you care too much about the girl, do not show it, grit your teeth and hold on. There is much more to lose than to win.

25) Wait at least three months before saying “I love you” even if you instantly feel you would like to grow old with this girl.

The opposite would be tantamount to a “Ted Mosby,” as Barney would say. Look on the internet if you’re not a fan of the show !;) The girls can also reveal big defects on the length-term they succeed in hiding at the beginning with the aim of catching you in their cobweb.

26) Couple Relationships: when it’s not working it’s not.

No need to try one thousand times with the same person. I do not want to communicate fatalism or other bad stuff, just realism. It broke, it will break. 99% of the time.

27) The desire causes suffering.

Because if we do not care about a princess, we will not suffer because of her. But if the desire, the attraction, is sincere then it is over. You will be eaten, whatever the sauce. It’s better to know it and enjoy the present moment.

28) You never win alone.

The thread that connects us to reality is not thick… who will take care of us if it broke? This is the question I ask myself when I fuck without a condom. Damn, if I get AIDS or whatever, I’ll never game again in my life. Renouncingall the wonders offered by the “Game” for ten minutes of pleasure? Ridiculous, really need to protect us. Without condoms, it is certainly best. But without STDs it is even better.

29) If there is no love, there will be hope.

If you want a girl to forget about you, give her no hope. Otherwise, she will hang on for a long time by believing that you play to a silly game and it will be boring. Conversely, learn how to recognize when a girl gives you hope for not bothering to break your heart and when you really have a chance with her. Again this is not an exact science. Refer to 20)Think in terms of investment at time and energy for a result in term of pleasure and satisfaction.

30) A relationship without cooperation is doomed to failure.

If on the other hand, you want your relationship to work with this girl, be ready to make concessions (even if you do not drink alcohol).

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I love you now

I love you nowThis text is a bonus in my Diary of a French PUA 2

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Sometimes we make crazy things, we are very afraid but it’s still one of the best memories of our lives.

I encourage you to break this glass prison that is fear because it is behind fear that crazy experiments are located.

Sometimes some people will do for you, or will push you to do so, but it is rare, knowing that humans have a natural tendency to procrastination. Then do not always take the easy way out. Also know that more time is running, more people are anxious and afraid. I speak about French people in general. I am going to try to motivate you …

Remember though that: the one who does not make a step forward makes a step back.

That day, I was a bit bored so I went alone to the mall “Plan de Campagne” hoping I could find some new girls with who I could go out (because all my friends were sick or in a couple or pissed me off).

I wandered for a while in the shelves of different stores without finding the courage to approach. I was resigned to fail when I saw a pretty saleswoman who took her break who was open. There were no many people so we could talk easily, it was a good thing. Opener : you cannot look at me this way and not talk to me.

I made to her a lot of bad jokes and I teased her and everything. She said she worked a lot and I told her that too much work and no fun makes Jack a sad sire. She said I was the coolest customer of the day. “But I’m not a customer” actually. It was true because I had bought nothing. I asked her if she was damn bored all day long to see the bimbos and the riffraff who populate abundantly Marseille since Gaston Deferre buying things clearly over their waysin cash with the drug money.

She said yes, but one must earn some money and that jealousy and malicious gossip are useless. That the most mattering was that she leads her boat legally. So I said a “I love you now” for fun and to try something I read in The Game ; and she came in my game. I felt that I had tamed her in two seconds then I asked her to close her eyes “why, you’ll sting me something?
– Awww no, trust me, I’m in love with you, you know so trust me.“She was playful and understood my special humor so she did … and I kissed her. Well, it was not the coolest kiss in the universe because:
1) the situation was not very appropriate
2) I was psychologically ready to get slapped so I was a little defensive
3) I felt the eyes of the people around us in the “what the fuck?” mode (or I was paranoid).

“Do you often do stuff like that?
– Every time I fall in love.
– And do you often fall in love?
– Shut up.” I let her regain some composure and she told me cool stuff like “it is the most surprising thing that ever happened to me since I work here except when a customer has crapped in a radius and that the guard was showed us the video in a loop.” So I have promised to come back. I never did.

It’s so beautiful to break the everyday of people this way. If I could, I would do it as a job. But for that, would need that I earn enough money to live…

So buy my ebooks, babies.

#Fabrice Julien, author of indecent texts

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Oral orgasm while blowing

This text is a bonus in my Diary of a French PUA 2

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Read on a blog for girls: a quack coach teaches that women who want to seduce a man must cook good things. I laughed out loud when I realized that women do not understand men more than lambda men understand women.

Seriously, if you’re hungry, you go to the restaurant. But, to leave us a huge impression, a girl shouldgive us the best blowjob of our lives. We will then remember her until our last breath. If I am single and a chick lets me know she is good and is motivated to make me a demonstration : I run after her all night long… and if she is really good in addition : she shouldn’t worry, I will call her back the next day. Finally, I think that to better understand the gender relations, we should just accept our respective simplicity.Do not see that as a defect.

After this “appetizer,” I must tell you the incredible story that happened to me. Why was this girl different? She offered me via my blog something more than just a fuck, rather a sexually and very rewarding educational experience.

Indeed, she studied Tantrafor years and found a way to orgasm deeply in her mouth just by sucking cocks (which just goes to show that it is in the head all this, this is why some people manage to enjoy during the sleep). Moreover, her behaviour projected sex and orgasms. Girls like that, it is not common. Maybe just by eatingbananas, she can enjoy.

Between “scary” and “exciting,” my heart swung. But because I am a positive guy, I decided to focus on the exciting side of the case. If I summarize the concept, she offered me (the most naturally) to bring me into another dimension by playing with the muscles of her throat during an oral intercourse. I would have nothing else to do than lending my cock.

It was interesting me in the scientific sense of the word, like an explorer. As Christopher Columbus discovering America, I set sail for the unknown(s). I was going to explore the legendary world of Tantra. The one that makes so many people fantasize. Much ado about nothing or there are really crazy things in those old customs?

Rendez-vous halfway between our places, in a hotel.We created a link with a drink before she swallows me in the intimacy of her bedroom. Without this, transgressing sex magic does not affect me. I more need, I think, that it fits with the girl as a form of approval and mutual attraction than doing some stupid dry humping against her body. When it came to “sex”, she took matters in hand like a queen so I obeyed her as one obeysa nurse. It’s exciting as when they “take things in hand.” For me, sex is the man’s responsibility. However, reversing roles sometimes is enjoyable (and relaxing).

She lay on her back and leaned her head over the edge of the bed: funny but unorthodox technique. I had never seen such a thing.With her hands on my butt, it was her who hold the reins of this session. After a while I traveled. The euphoria invaded my body. I understood the meaning of life, why we are on Earth and everything (but I forgot in the meantime)… I was thinking of a super ugly Lama so I don’t come, quickly, to extend the session. My anxieties were veeeeeery away at that time. Shestarted moaning like if sheenjoyed it even more than me (and maybe she did).On the other hand, the return to reality was hard after that.

Her performance finished, she smoked a cigarette. I drank a caramel tea and offered her some BN. I like all the blowjobs but then frankly it was magical.

Maybe I could one day, me too, enjoy by making a cunnilingus (licking a pussy).

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Is it possible to stay one month without ejac ?

Is it possible to stay one month without ejac This text is a bonus in my Diary of a French PUA 2

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The game, if I can call it a game, was to do not ejaculate during one entire month. I was thinking I was going to succeed easy-peasy because at the momentI was in a slump, but when I took this fucking decision, I think I pissed off the whole universe because that is apparently not my mission in this world: I strangely received plenty of calls … including a lot of girls that I had stored in the folder “Mission aborted” for ages and who suddenly came back tempting me.Like if a higher power was telling me “you just had a really dumb idea so I will make you regret : they will all want to blow you …”

And, indeed, it was harder and harder every day. After one week, a simple kiss in a club was enough to make me hard all night. I tried to give orgasm to girlfriends who pressured me on the phone but fuck, it excited me too, what a torture! Anyway, they enjoyed, perhaps even more than usually because I focused on their pleasure and not at all on mine. I’ve licked a lot of pussies too without asking anything in return.

After fifteen days, I decided to have sex for good … but to firmly hold on. It was hard, very hard, if you know what I mean. As if I wanted to stop smoking when people are smoking a cigarette in front of me: you must have a strong motivation to succeed. Must say that it is a habit ingrained in me, satisfying my impulses … I admit that I have more or less jerked off on average once a day since I was born (with a girl or with my personal girlfriend ie my hand.) So here we are, I’m a kind of cum-addict and I wanted to wean myself.

At one point I had the idea to train myself to enjoy without ejaculating some great masters of Tantra like are able to do. I have not been able to orgasm, but I have not finished either … phew (I stopped just before) … So, this session of sex rather put me in shape me instead of tiring me. Once is not custom. So I repeated the experiment with others girls.

With that said, the fact that I did not finish in doggy style disrupted more than one “YOU DON’T WANT ME, HUH, WHAT’S WRONG ? WHY THEN ARE YOU FUCKING ME ASSHOLE !” Women are just too accustomed to the fact we ejaculate, they feel guilty or disgusting when it doesn’t happen.

I admit, I lost a lot of fuckfriends during this period. A real massacre: but I am very stubborn (it’s not my fault it’s in my DNA)! Must say that I gave back to my semen its sanctity, making it rare and it was not nothing. After twenty days, I did not even have pain in the balls anymore when sitting down. I could dominate me, control me, and stay away from girls. The hard part was probably behind me (no, I have not tried to get sodomized).

So I resumed my seduction activities on the well known social network that begins with Face and finish with Suckerberglapute. I talked to this girl, a cute brunette. We warmed each other, like before I started this little challenge. Understand, I have never met this chick though she lives in the same city than me … Because she talked a lot but did nothing in fact (like many cause it allows them to stay in their comfort zone while feeling desired), it remained a fantasy relationship (so much the better because that’s what I needed at that time).

She said “come for me on Skype and we’ll meet up.” I said “no”. I resisted a little and then I said OK after the 24th day. We did never meet up after that, she was just a biatch who had challenged herself :I won’t let me trap so easily again, besides “you deceive me once shame on you, you deceive me twice shame on me“. It’s the hormones that disrupted my judgment, I guess, fuck. Needs to precise that she had assets !!!

But I do not care, because I shared something sexual with her in a way… I saw her naked, and everything (on the webcam). Finally, it’s different, I know, but … Understand me, when I don’t fuck, I approach and when I don’t approach I imagine naughty things. The girls that I want and I cannot get in real life, I’ll fuck them in my head. You are now warned, ladies !!!

In some ways I am addicted and proud of it.

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Really a shitty idea

This text is a bonus in my Diary of a French PUA 2

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Do you know this nice little story written by Haruki Murakami?

Once upon a time a man and a woman made eye contact in the street and immediately felt something rare. They miraculously found the courage to speak to each other and spend very pleasant almost magical hours together. Everything was perfect except … they wanted to test the Destin, otherwise there would be no story.

So they thought that if they are really made for each other, Destiny that made them meet once will make them meet twice. They thus left each other with no way to get back in touch with the other, thinking that if they meet again by chance, then they will get married and live together for the rest of their days blah blahblah. Really a shitty idea, if you want my opinion,but well let’s say it’s cute.

So far, this is all very romantic … but reality catched up with them: they didn’t find each other again. Years went by and everyone took other lovers … They then met again in the street but unfortunately did not recognize. True story.

The morality is that love is hanging by a thread, you have to seize your chance. This is also on this premise that street pick up isbased : this girl will disappear forever in Aix’s streets unless you find the courage to speak to her, and then, maybe it will be the beginning of the story of awhile life (or even just one night which is already better than nothing when you know how life can be hard). Who knows ?

All that to say that I met THIS girl some time ago in a bar. It was truly symbiotic and reciprocal between us, we hardly could believe it, it was impressive. Much in common, troubling coincidences, etc.

That same night, we did not sleep together nor anything, saying to each other that if we met again, we put together in couple because it seemed to us too good to be true. Except that the city in which I live is not so big: so one day, we met again.

Except that when she saw me again, weeks later in a bar, well, you might say I had my tongue in the throat of another girl. “You’re really like the others …
– So will you forgive my behavior because I am a Man? Or did you expect I’m better than my peers?
– Both, I think. ”

The thing is that we slept together but it was crap. Well, it was not awesome from my point of view. She also slept elsewhere in the meantime : so they are always readyfor morality but the truth is men and women are equal. They’re maybe worse than us.

Indeed, she told me she had a boyfriend, but not with herone true love, and that it was better that way. Because even if we got along really well, she did not feel comfortable with another man the himin her bed. That perhaps simply afraid her after all, to get into something else.

Me too, actually.

I’ll call Hafid. Back on the field.For better or for worse. I prefer the worse, btw.

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Have you already acceded to an inaccessible girl?

This text is a bonus in my Diary of a French PUA 2

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Have you ever met an”inaccessible”girl? The kind of somewhat haughty princess because she knows she’s hot, the kind that guys seem to annoy because getting what she wants from them is too easy for her, the kind who makes no effort to be friendly. Alice falls into this category. She is tall, brunette with blue eyes, quite lovely breasts and legs … I don’t wanna talk about it :I do not want to be held responsible for a wave of depression over the south of France! A perfectly flat stomach, a natural and beautiful mouth and a skin of an incredible purity. The kind that when she enters a room, the guys shut up their mouths to better stare at her: it’s like those girls in magazines, except that she is not photoshopped, HER.

Hafid had met her by doing some SPU the university of letters and had invited us all to a late aperitif in one of my favorite bars in the old town. In the eyes of the sexbomb, I was just aninhabitnt of Aix like the others (neither tall enough nor handsome enough nor rich enough to seduce her with my passive assets only)… I really had to try to change that.

I tried to include her in the conversation because she played it distant with the group, and I confess that she looked not really interested by naughty boy I am (that’s an understatement): “if women are more attracted to power, money and social status so why would they rather sleep with Guillaume Canetthan with François Hollande?
– Because Hollande, he isfat and ugly. “shehad responded casually without further explore the issue. I should have guessed that… after all, she is too good to bother to think or to developher answer. My goal was just to move the discussion on her, so I seized the opportunity to start a private conversation with Alice. We talked a bit about her: she wants to be a model, 18 years old, new in town, in a relationship with a rich 26 years dude.

This kind of girl is described as “inaccessible” because she is not connected to reality, at least not to the reality of Mr. and Mrs. Everybody. A sort of wall separates her from the problems of ordinary people. Then, I must say she makes no effort to bridge the gap: no unnecessary smiles, do not feed the conversation, not much culture, btw. Only one asset : I have already bangedhot girls but there she is another level. Here it’s the kind that if you touch her you’re blessed by the gods. If I fuck her I will have the right to self-proclaim PUA me for life.

2:00 in the morning, Hafid and his girlfriend offered us an after in their loft. OK, I accepted and she did too (the other people present at the bar: we let them go home). Once in his den, Hafidou left me alone for a moment with his girlfriend and my target. I do not really know what happened to the girls I guess they were quite drunk because we quickly came to talk about three-persons-massage. So I introduced the famous synchronized massage by two people on one. My target had nothing against (must be said that the currentHafid’sgirlfriend is not totally straight). We started to work on my target with my friend’s girlfriend.

Litlle by little, we started pawing her breasts, licking her nipples, to undress more and more. Warning: this kind of bomb does not give she receives. Must say for her defense that she did not have much to do to be a quality partner, thanks to her perfect body. What challenges the theory of the Game …

I removed her soaked panties. Meanwhile, Hafid joined us. So here, we made a foursome in their now famous temple of debauchery inAix… Morality : it has good sides to live with a girlfriend when she’s a swinger. The partys skins at Hafid miss, by the way.

At the moment, I was there, penetrating this feminine perfection and I said to myself “fuck but I cannot believe it is she blind or what? How could it happen? “After beating, Alice has told us a” I had never done something like that …
– Ah, and then?
– That was cool. ” A more developed response from her would have surprised me.

In the end, the experience was average but we don’t care. It was at least one experience worthy of the name, and I’m still fucking hard when I think again about her naked. It turned me on to see her hands on my body, my tongue against her tongue, her mouth around my cock, her mane in my fist and her buttocks making back and forth against my pubis. It excited me less when it was up toHafid, haha!We had to make a foursome, plus they hadto drink several beers at the bar, we had to be two players and a bisexual to get there… to convince her to sleep with us.

NB : I have still not fucked Hafid’s girl. I don’t wanna risk our friendship even I suppose we’re over that. I respect you too much dude.

Besides, when a girl rejects me, I look back on some hotties with whom I had an intimacy (like her or Marylou, the Audrey Hepburn look-alike) and I say to myself “you do not know what you’ve just missed girl.” I do not even insult the killjoy in my head anymore, because I know my value then I do not care much, that’s it. Too bad for her.

And so much the better for the next one to whom I will devote my talent instead … <3

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Explosive mixture

two sisters in my bedThis text is a bonus in my Diary of a French PUA 2

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Two sisters in the same bed, mission impossible? Even for Tom Cruise? We will see…

The young hedonistic

All wet, Pauline (one of the sisters) goes out of the pool of her parents. If you want my opinion, they have a wealthy father who used his status to marry a hottie … Hottie who made two daughters models then divorced because he was never home, reaching a beautiful pension she enjoys in this very moment under the sun with a young gigolo. Results: two hotties a little bit weak in their head, more or less left to themselves trying to fill a void by adopting an extreme approach to sexuality to try to interest a little bit daddy (even in a negative way) … without success. Luckily, our paths crossed when she contacted me via my blogwith a so shitty opener that if it was you who used it the girls would not even look at you before sending you to Hell, so “who’s your daddy”?

My air was filled with a strong smell of chlorine when she suddenly glued to me. The more I spent my hands almosteverywhere on her naked shoulders, on her muscled stomach by her cardio and her hip of young woman, the more we wanted each other. I love girls like her who take advantage of their 20 years by intensely and freely living the moment. No judgment, just fun. It is also my creed. So I guided her to her room (not easy when you’re mouth to mouth, in addition she closed her eyes). I violently thrown her on the bed, and it made her laugh: but a teasing and female juvenile laugh tickled my ears as I went down to kiss her swimsuit bottom. She stayed lying down, staring at me as claiming for more … even if she already knew the outcome.

What did this pretty blonde expected from me, basically I do not know. Maybe she was looking for a form of acceptance? After all, I was in her eyes, her “beautiful favorite writer” (I quote) … Maybe she was trying to getmore mature? Why do chicks look for it while it’s just a trap made by adults to try to make us become one day as miserable than them? Maybe she was just libertine, and only wanted to give, take and enjoy. In any case, it was the same thing for me.Anyway, this is the kind of answers I’ll never get, unfortunately.

The former – nun

Alexandra sweating, arched and bit her lower lip. She was sexy and wild, what an explosive mixture… Well, it was really exciting to watch her. An explosive mixture that filled my test tube of mad scientist. That said, it took a while for the preliminary to warm her at this point so I was very proud. She is on meme, trembling a little. Totally clenched, she clung to the sheets, like if she was afraid of losing balance. Oh, I’m not a bull at the Feria de Nîmes (even if I’m a bull in bed) !!!

A cute little metro ticket conceal her nudity … she had not tamed yet. She asked me to be “soft” I guess it’s what a girl alwayswish for her first time (I cannot imagine a “fuck me hard, I’m a virgin“). She had pushed away all her various suitors because she saw in them bounty hunters like BobaFett seeking reward after screwing Princess Leia with his lightsaber (but my favorite character remains Chewbacca). Everything must be perfect, she should be able to think about it again on her death bed and say it was really perfect.I had to prove I was a good choice. THE GOOD CHOICE. It put on me a sigh of pressure, but it went well eventually. Must say, I begin to know how.

It is also an experience that marked me in terms of understanding: I remember she sought her own gaze in the mirror of her room when she made me get in her. It happened between her pussy and her mind, so I closed my eyes and I left them together, being only a man-object at that moment.

Which one to choose? Why should I choose?

Pauline slept with 32 guys: I was not much to her eyes, while I was the total sexual story of Alexandra. I should not break her heart … I should not propose a 3some with her sister. Damned, it tempts me! It is impossible anyway, she chose a guy with a conscience … Consciousness that ordered me to don’t spoil the reputation of men in her eyes (others will do that for me, I have no doubt about that but the first impression is important). Thus leaving the place ready for the next seducer who would cross herdestiny. And yes, we are supposed to be united, us as men. I say “supposed” because some make me ashamed and are not supportivein my back. In short, there is not only female solidarity that is fucked up, eh!

So, I did not really have a choice, this is the hedonistic nympho who suffered. But that night, as I fell asleep with her sister, Pauline fucked an ex … A dirty drug dealer, a big asshole, but I had nothing to say … She chose to punish me, punish her sister , punish her dad and punish herself. One stone four shots, plus I think he was stone (no I’m kidding). There’s nothing worse than a girl with a broken heart who seeks revenge. It’s going to fuck all-out in this room if she destroys the bed, but I do not want to be held responsible.

Take cover.