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I had a very nice game last night

September 20th 2015,

 

I do not usually write when it’s just to tell kisscloses (because it counts for nothing) but I will make an exception because I had a very nice game last night.

 

1/ But before, let’s debrief the medicine party on Friday:

I went there with my friend who will be called The Gentile Giant. He’s cool. He kissed 2 chicks and danced with/warmed a third one. The one he almost fucked is a girl from the Student Union who was tending the bar and who deserved a dick. They arranged an appointement at 3 o’clock in front of the club to fuck but she did not come. Another cock probably came first. They do not hesitate to play on several pictures, the girls, don’t be naive.

Me, I kissed a girl approached with a “hi, where are you going?
– I’m looking for my friends
– have you already kissed an accountant?
– no
– do you want to try ?
– (no answer).” She maintened my eye contact and then lowered her eyes: kiss, no dodge.

Then: I pushed her against a wall, French kisses and fiddling with her breasts. Then, I took her number. I took her phone and sent a message with “hi, what day are you coming over to give me a massage, my beautiful accountant?”

There was also Mister MacBoules at the party (another member of the LAIR of mutual help of Lyon). He is cool but was with his buddies so we did not see him much. However, at one point he came to us “hey guys, I have interactions that last but it does not work”. I replied « you wear a nice blouse so ask them if they have already kissed a gynecologist. » He made only one try of this opener and: kiss! He could not believe it, it was funny !!! After that, he was all excited. Now he is launched…

 

2/ Yesterday, Saturday evening:

All the LAIR got cold feet but I went out nevertheless with the Gentile Giant who is incidentally my neighbor… which is practical. So, we take the subway together, it saves me from losing myself.

We were a bit tired because we had gone swimming 1 km during the afternoon. But well : no excuses to do not pick-up! When you want a thing in life, you have to give yourself the means, and he understood that, so he’s a interesting, I appreciate him.

We made a few openers without great success (except having fun when hearing the reactions of some chicks) in a bar. Then I let myself go, and a genius pick-up happened : “ahhhhhh do you recognize me?
– (disbelieving look)
– yeahhhh we made love last week
– ah yessssss it was you
– yeah, why did not you call me back ? Two orgasms that was not enough?
– yes it was good but it was up to you to call me!
– yeah I know I’m an asshole but you like it!” Then her friends came to join her so I introduced my wing: “ahhhh yes then did you recover from the orgy with my buddy last week?
– (laughs)”

After, I took the girl’s hand (a really hot girl as I like, thin with a pretty face). We spoke a little more seriously even though it is difficult with me. She told me that she recognized us because we had approached them on the street, something like two weeks ago. I did not remember and I confessed to her. Yet, she was devilishly hot.

I proposed to go have a drink, to isolate her, she answered “OK”. She took a “sex on the beach”, I took a glass of water. I asked her if there was a hidden message in the name of her cocktail, she said yes. Funny, this girl !

Well, after she wanted me to taste her cocktail: “do you trust me? Do you want to taste?” There, I did not answer and kissed her instead.

Then, we talked about gender relations (exciting topic for everyone): “if you like the guy, can he approach you no matter how and it’ll work or does the quality of the opener matters?
– ahhhh no it matters anyway
– did you like ours?
– ah yes very original and I like the guys who tease me like you do… too nice guys are boring.
– ok sweetie.”

Then I gave her my number and I sent a text message to myself with her phone “what day of the week are you going to cook me pancakes at your place, handsome boy?” Except that I made a mistake in the number and that I sent it to my father (it was my number before) from her phone. Well, doesn’t matter, he rarely reads his texts.

I caught up and gave her my real number. She found it a little weird but well. Then we Frenchkissed a lot. I learned that she is studying to become a real estate agent. So I asked her to come and estimate the value of my apartment next week, she said OK. We’ll see if it happens. I told her I had a hot shower so we could have a “sex under the shower”.

Then, the Gentile Giant wanted to go testing a club of Lyon (we are in a period when we test them all) with two girls that he met at his school. So I left my little darling. I said goodbye to her girlfriends too, because I’m a polite boy. And because I need their downfall to fuck their friend.

 

3/ It was a nice club  :

In addition, we were surrounded by 5 hotties (the 2 friends of the Giant and their friends).

I approached after a few minutes while I was casually leaning on the bar, watching them waddling like bitches.

There was a short brunette, typically a South American girl (very fuckable) that passed in front of me. Without leaving my bar, I said to her : “who are you looking for?
– yé né coumprendo pa
– who r u looking for?
– my friend
– I am your friend
– haha yes you are
– so listen to me, you should pickup a guy tonight!
– you, for example?
– me or another guy
– So I’ll find another guy”… and she stayed in front of me. I kissed her: first a shy kiss and then something warmer with her tongue in my mouth.

Seen from the outside, one would have really said that she had thrown herself on me like a sex-stared. It was probably fun to watch it. It all took a few minutes.

I let her go: I thought to warm her (like my lunch) later, bring her home and make her orgasm in a French way. Except that she got caught by other guys on the dancefloor and warmed them too. Too bad, I have not been realistic enough to score the goal again. It have to push the night interactions to the end. I did not even caress her pussy…

The Giant Gentile also kissed a girl in the club. His level is improving but he really needs to fuck. He really sees it as a progress since before neither he kissed nor fucked when he went out. Except that kissing chicks is not awesome… I would like him to bang at least one chick per month (that would be a very good start for a beginner).

Well, it’s a bit of my responsibility to train him since I accepted this role, to pass on my knowledge to this LAIR. On the other hand, if it was easy everyone would do it… but if he does not get discouraged, I think he will succeed, this Giant.

 

4/ Today it was shitty sore throat and deslagging based on infusion/honey/lemon :

We have fun in Lyon.

May the God of the Game be with us!

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How to react in case of rejection ?

react rejection

rejection If you want to learn pick up and meet a lot of women, you must accept to undergo a lot of rejections. Because there is no foolproof method to seduce all girls, not even dark seduction (this branch of the game based on hypnosis, NLP and manipulation in general).

Yes, we still are rejected even when we fucked 215 chicks. Why ? Because we can not please everyone… on the other hand, where everything is played, it is that when we are liked by girls we like, we must be able to provoke chance and conclude.

 

Constructive beliefs

Many guys approach in underwater mode, discreetly and indirectly, so as not to feel bad in case of rejection. It is a very bad idea: it is not what will help them to progress. In addition, it just communicates that they do not have the balls to assume their interest, which is a hard sell. Accepting the reality of the rejection and overcoming the fear of rejection is the solution that makes it possible to harden off, take good life lessons and develop your social intelligence.

Besides, the rejection is not necessarily something unpleasant. It’s like everything, it depends on our reality, how we see things. A rake can and should make us proud, because it means that we have taken action, which is a big step towards success. You should prefer a fail to not approaching, because being rejected means you have overcome all the excuses that guys usually invent to try nothing!

We read a lot on the Internet that when we are rejected, it is not we who are rejected but the image that we give when we approach. And so, if we take rakes is that we must have a bad game. It makes sense but it’s stupid. This is only partly true in part but it makes it possible to guilt guys and make them buy 3000 € a week coachings… then this legend persists. To remain sane, it is absolutely necessary to rationalize the thing and to understand that the problem can come from the woman who was approached. If she lacks of sociability skills, you have nothing to do with her. She could be in a hurry, in a couple and faithful, ill-bred, tired, annoyed by the 10 weirdos ones that came before you, lesbian … or just too closed-minded. Anyway, it is not you that she rejects but your proposal : it does not mean that you have necessarily badly approached her or that she finds you too ugly, it is just that she is not interested.

Your self-esteem should therefore not diminish with rejection (because it is not a fail). On the other hand, it should grow with success, which will make you in a sens invincible. “If it works so much better, if not I dont give a shit”: with such a state of mind, we are immediately more confident and relaxed. This means that you have to get away from the look of the others: if you need their opinion to prove that you are great, you have not yet acquired the good mindset.

 

The definition of the « rake »

What is a rake? Again, it depends on your reality. I personally take very few rakes but there are girls who do not give me their phone number or do not want to kiss me in a club. Because, for me, a rake : it would be a chick I really want, in whom I invested time and energy (even money), who I thought I could fuck but who in fact does not want me. A rake would be a rejection from a girl I do care about, in fact. I take one a year, something like that …

And for you, is a rake a sweetie left swipe on Tinder? A girl who does not want to give you her number? A girl who does not want to kiss you? One that does not want to sleep with you? One that tells you « go away asshole » ? Or worse, one that puts you in the friendzone? Choose a reality that helps you thrive…

 

How to react ?

It is never pleasant to be rejected, especially when you have the best intentions in the world. So, to keep up with time, you have to detach yourself a bit from the result and be casual.

In a respectful interaction, we must not be affected by (social, tactile or sexual) rejection, not feel hurt, and especially we must not be mad at the girl (never insult).

On the other hand, if we approach respectfully but the chick is disrespectful (for some, going out and playing the bitch, it’s funny): here I am sorry but we have the right to laugh (anyway we always have the right to laugh because the Game is a game), even to make fun of her and to troll her. It’s better to react like that than to accumulate frustration and beat the homeless like the guys in the movie Confession d’un dragueur.

What I’m saying is not easy to apply for a beginner and I’m sorry (if it was easy everybody would do that). But one must have a good philosophy of life to don’t go mad: be humble, strive to remain positive, just go and dare. If your wingman (pick-up teammate) dared to approach but was rejected, do not hesitate to encourage him, do not make fun of him. We, the players, should be in solidarity with each other.

You have to approcach a lot, it’s important because the results of social gatherings are statistical. The anxiety of approach will always be a bit there, but the first approaches (the warm up) allow to disinhibit… everything is based on a momentum : you can be a God with the women for one night but it does not mean you will be magic the other days.

Once warm, you become a Sith Knight of the pick-up (not a Jedi because I guess they are virgins!) It’s adrenaline that should keep you alive, soldier! You must love the challenge. Above all, talk to the chicks who seem to be inaccessible to you. Sometimes, in the night, I turn into Dark Vicious, my evil double, and I approach girls in any way. « Did you go out tonight to find a guy ? » ; « Wanna kiss me, sweetie ? »… once I even succeeded with a chick while amusing myself to imitate Mr. Merdocu. It’s TRUE! When I see a truly hot girl and my inner little voice tells me “give up, she is too beautiful for you”, I force myself to go there and to be very direct. I do not necessarily go so it works, I go there just to go, and I am very pleasantly surprised when I fuck hotties. Read my books Diary of a French PUA to find out more.

That makes it possible to understand that the game in an open environment (street, bar, Internet) is like playing in a free casino: you have everything to gain and nothing to lose. The key is to have fun by sorting between the interested girls and the others. If possible, you should like the process (the pick-up) as much as the results (the KC, the FC)! In any case, the approach must remain associated with positive emotions: you should be excited to go out, not frightened… but because one is more often rejected than sucked, one often forgets that the game is not just a succession of rakes. So, above all, never lose sight of the fact that it is not the 10 girls who put you in a rake that are important… but the girl you are going to romantically fuck doggy style. And keep in mind that sometimes even with the best game in the world you wouldn’t succeed with a girl, and sometimes with an average game you can pick-up chicks (but statistically it’s more profitable to have a good game). Never give up!

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If these chicks were guys, they wouldn’t have sex

If these chicks were guys, they wouldn't have sexSeptember 16th 2016,

On Monday evening, I received a message on Adopteunmec, coming from a girl who had read my description and wanted to meet me: « Finally a good description… I appreciate your point of view and I can even tell you that I read your entire profile 😉 relevant »

I checked her measurements: 1m70, 60kg, sporty, beautiful face … OK! I replied: « Yes but it’s too bad that you live so far
– I assure you that it is not very far… It is sure that we’re not neighbor but well
– Ah it’s okay then! But I have no car here, so you will have to come to me <3 »

She does not live in Lyon but in the countryside outside the city (about 20km).

“I hate engulfing in Lyon but I can eventually make an effort for you
– You will be rewarded then if you like massages or wine
– And if I like both of them? ;
– When would you be ready to come?”
– When you have a niche, I will manage with my schedule.”

Everything was done very quickly, and that’s cool. We agreed to meet up at my place last night around 8:30 pm.

That same day, I believed in a flake: “I slept badly… long live coffee: D
– are you still coming tonight, miss Caffeine?
– Of course I’m coming, I have only one word ;)”

At that time, she really pleased me. It changes from those chicks that procrastinate. I know what happens in the head of these chicks: it excites them in theory but in practice the stress goes up then they get cold feet. It is a shame to do not be able to master and to show so much cowardice. I stumbled upon two like this in a week. One came talking to me to invite me for sex in the week and then, on the appointed day, desappeared of the dating site. Another drew me, we agreed to see each other tonight in a public place before going home so she can see that I am not an old mustache. She really insisted on the public place and I said OK. But last night she sent me a crazy story « yeah I aborted a few months ago and my ex that I dumbed for it came to see me in college today it has moved me I’m lost I’ll spend a few days with my family so we won’t meet up I’m sorry ». Fortunately I don’t take them too seriously before I am sure. In short, I do not give a fuck, I leave them with their demons, I have enough problems with mine. I tell myself that they will come back the day they’ll know what they want (that is to say, probably never)!

So, the reliable girl came wih her car and I did not even cook something. I offered her a simple glass of this wine that I had bought this weekend. She had a low neckline that I stared at openly, pretending to read what was written on her t-shirt. It was written “SURF” but she does not surf. Her thing is fitness. She left her guy in May, a 35 years old dude whereas she is 22, who was apparently her trainer in pastry. She has not done much sexually since that day and that’s why she needed a PUA.

After 5-10 minutes of conversation, while sh was still drinking this divine brew, I positioned myself behind her, while continuing the conversation just like if nothing had happened. I stuck to her, caressed her neck, her breasts, went under her t-shirt. Then I subitly stopped and sat down in front of her, talking to her normally. When she took an outrageous start, I told her that her shyness was cute and that I am shy too… but she did not believe me. Yet it is the case! Just no more sexually thanks to a personal development work !!! In short, we laughed regularly because of my bad faith.

I repeated this riding several times until opening her jeans and fingering her while talking to her about the rain and the good weather. She said she found it very destabilizing but awfully exciting. Afterwards I told her, “It’s time for the massage”. She got up, I guided her by the hand on my bed.

I undressed her (I put her in string/bra) and told her to adopt the position of massage while kissing her belly and going down. It ended with a pussy licking, this story. By finally zaping the step of the massage.

After a moment, her vagina and her stomach (I had a hand on both) were spasmed and contracted… then she breathed a long sigh. To test the ground I said, “Are you going to come soon?
– you lost me…” Usually chicks answer “but I just did ?!”

So, I persevered but it did not make her feel anything any more. I did not understand. I went to massage her, to rest my tongue, then I took this opportunity to undress her completely and licked her again. This time I was at the foot of the bed but lying between her legs. It was nicer except that I almost toppled the pot of massage oil with my feet.

After a moment she made the same thing : big contraction, a long sigh, caught my head. I said “FUCK BUT WHY DON’T YOU JUST RELAX AND COME”. It made her burst out laughing.

I asked her to explain what was so funny. After saying “you”, she developped : it was the second time she enjoyed, “when I say that you lost me, it is in the good sense of the term…” Fucking expression !

Then she shook me and I fucked her. She almost orgasmed again and I could have held back my ejaculation but I did not give a shit and I was tired so I finished in about ten minutes. We just made the amazone position, the lotus and the missionary with the legs up. I thanked her for having entrusted me with her so firm breasts and her hot buttocks… we are not savages. In addition, she had pretty little nipples it was very pleasant, I played with all the evening long.

We connected together on Adopte before she left and I showed her the messages of the other girls who write me more or less sexual stuff and everything then who do not assume. Or those who super match with me (send me a super like) but do not send a message. Fuck, if these chicks were guys, they would not have sex… She said to me: “You have to know what you want in life. I knew what I wanted tonight. And I got it.”

Last anecdote: she is very hot even if she is a pastry cook. And when I told her “I fucking gotta lose 3kg of fat”… she made fun of me. She told me that I should rather take 7kg, but muscle. Like what, everything is a matter of point of view.

Finally, around 00:40, I received a text message: “well arrived
– ah super good night then!
– You too”

May the God of the Game be with us all!

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Sexualization and kinesthetic escalation (kinos)

kino escalation

I recently devoted a 140-page book to sexualization and how to avoid the Friendzone. Here’s the link if you want more details.

Today, we are particularly interested in kinesthetic escalation (kino escalation), which is an important stage of sexualization and helps to avoid the FZ.

 

Definition

The term kino comes from the community of seduction and designates touching. The word escalation refers to the steps involved in creating a sexual connection with a girl.

The so-called “kino escalation” corresponds to the physical escalation of the kinos with a woman, from the first touch on the shoulder (for example) to the finger into her pussy.

 

The concept

Kinesthetic escalation has the advantage of making you more concrete in the eyes of the girl. As soon as a contact (even a simple touch) is made between two bodies, they become more familiar. Numerous studies have shown that contact makes people who touch us more sympathetic and make us more likely to trust them, to want to please them.

In fact, touch (in the broad sense) can turn her on, which would also increase your chances of fucking her. Basically, even if she does not like you more than that, touching helps creating sexual tension and can make her want to kiss you.

Finally, it must be understood that each touch is a test in itself, which allows you to appreciate the progress of your game at any moment: calibrate, adapt to her reactions.

 

Sexual anxiety

Some guys have trouble with the idea of touching a girl. But touch is paramount in your seduction game if you want to kiss a girl and take her to bed (not to sleep). One of the keys to success in seduction is thus to overcome this sexual anxiety.

The best is to physically escalate quickly, to be fixed on what you can expect from such girl. If after 30 minutes she is not receptive to your tests… she won’t probably be more receptive 2 hours later. In such a case, you should save time and energy by attacking another target.

 

How to touch her?

You must touch a girl you have just met in a progressive way because any contact with a person makes you enter her privacy. To better visualize the idea, imagine that an appropriate contact is equivalent to knocking on the door of the girl’s apartment, while a touch made too early on an area of her body more intimate (breasts, buttocks , pussy) is similar to pushing her door.

You should use kinos as soon as possible, from the beginning of the interaction. This helps to make her understand that you are someone touchy and so it won’t sound weird when you’ll initiate new touches a little later. Your first kinos should be on non-intimate body areas: hands, arms, back, hips and shoulders. Finally, they must be fast, light and intermittent so as not to be too pressing.

There is kino and kino. Some touchs will show her that she attracts you. This will then correspond to a sign of interest sent from you. These are the ones to be mastered. For example, when you meet a girl, shake her hand when you introduce yourself. And when you remove it, gently slide your fingers over the palm of her hand.

Assume each of your touchs so that the girl does not feel any discomfort that could make her feel uncomfortable (because of the contagion of emotions). Stay relaxed and make your touch feel like something natural. Put your hand on her body with slow and short movements. So you will also communicate that you are confident.

But for me, the real escalation (the real challenge) begins when you assume to caress her. When you take real initiatives. For example, stroking her hand, back or thigh. You can do this nonchalantly by talking about something else or you can reassure her so that the touch passes better if dared.

You must see if she is comfortable with your touchs: does she leave her thigh against yours? Does she let you stroke her hand without removing it?

If you see that she is comfortable, receptive (and the best it’s when she touchs you as an answer), go! Depending on the context, you can kiss her on the cheek, neck, etc. You can even totally turn her on!

 

If she is not comfortable

Stop or interrupt the contact yourself, if possible. Then, restart by reassuring her and/or dismantling her resistances. Dredramatize the thing and try to understand what is blocking her. If it’s just stress, make her understand that what she feels is actually sexual tension.

When it starts to get hot, women are “programmed” to give signs of resistance. It is a reaction to avoid feeling “easy girl”. So if for a test, you go up your finger along her thighs and suddenly remove it, she will feel a disappointment or even a lack but will not object because the touch has disappeared (and so much better because she will not be thought of as a whore who gets fiddled). So it is better to do and to interrupt … then to start again, rather than go there without moderation.

 

The massage

It is a technique of seduction very classic, but diabolically effective. Few women refuse a massage and it has the advantage of exciting them. It is also relatively okay to offer a massage to a woman but she knows implicitly, if she accepts, what to expect. I always fucked a woman I had massaged. On the other hand, few have massaged me in return: it is better to do it yourself because often, the chicks are too shy to massage. You have to know what you want! 😉

Do not forget that it will be all the same be up to you to provoke your chance by making this massage “slip” … 😉

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What I am going to say is very unhealthy

September 12th 2015,

I finally found a LAIR in Lyon, which is a nice one, in addition. They are cool and are younger than me: next to them, I seem to be 22 years old. So I found the fountain of youth.

There are two guys that I took especially under my wing. Because they are really friendly and motivated. One is a virgin (22 years old) so he is a big challenge for the PUA that I am and the other lives near my home so it is convenient to walk back home in the dark of the night (in addition he is a sturdy so I feel safe). So we often go out together.

Last week, I initiated them to crash & burn. Result : Chromosome Y who had KissClosed only one girl in his life has kissed 4 since that night. And the sturdy giant also kissed one girl. For my part, I tasted the tongue of a cute blonde in a bar. But nothing more (I did not fuck her). That’s why I say I have not enough impact, there’s too much waste in my game right now. I really have to find fields where I feel more comfortable.

I have not yet practiced SPU in Lyon… and I have no excuse because here, unlike Aix, there is plenty to do. I swear on the holy bible (The Game of Neil Strauss) that I will move my ass and fuck a girl picked up in the street this year.

Last night I went out with them again. I initiated him to fast seduction this time.

Just before putting my nose out, a chick of my age met on Adopte (she will be called CPE because she is a CPE in a boarding school – I must have a problem with authority because it turns me on). She had sent me a text message “do you have got something planned tonight because I want to visit you ?
– yeah I go out with friends, we can meet up tomorrow if you want to
– ok tomorrow I go to a bradery with a friend but I can come after”.

It is certain that if I was home doing nothing, I would have fucked her last night. But I went out with my friends instead: I’m not a sex-starving dude and then it made her respect me to see that I don’t put her on a pedestal just because she has a pussy.

This afternoon, on the other hand, her visit was a good thing because I was home watching Girls. Seriously I am watching season 1 and there are one or two funny characters that I like then I have fun watching this. And then, this kind of show allows me to better enter the mind of the chicks.

What I am going to say is very unhealthy but you’re used to it now : the CPE looks like my cousin, the one who is general practitioner. She also is one head taller than me. And she’s cool. So I had every reason to honor her.

When I arrived home at about 6 pm she asked where she could pee, directly. In my toilets, there’s a book about Feng shui so she asked me if I practiced. I told her “that and many other things” while approaching her and placing my hands on the bottom of her back. Then, I went up, to caress her neck and breasts. She ended up kissing me so much the sexual tension was superior to her belief that it is the man who has to take the first step. She could not handle more, she was very excited.

I kissed her in the neck, she took off my t-shirt, I removed her top, opened her high-waisted pants and put my fingers in her panties. We knew each other for 20 minutes when she orgasmed, standing, for the first time.

She was still trembling when she sat on my bed. She started to jerk me but she has a too tight grip, it hurt me. So, I swung her on the bed and licked her. It was long, I would say 30 minutes, until she came one more time.

After, I got up and she straightened up on the edge of the bed… to suck me. I think that when we lick women, we show that we love their bodies, and they are more likely to suck us to return the same. A lot told me that they do not “usually suck the first night” but they did it after a good cunnilingus. Well, I came kinda quickly.

Small hug and glass of water to recover before the second round.

After I fucked her again in missio/doggy style while she touched herself at the same time (she knows well her body) and she enjoyed for the third time. After the orgasm, she told me she had contractions and formication everywhere. With my usual delicacy, I answered “yeah, it’s because I fucked you very hard!
– I admit, 3 orgasms in 1h30 for a first time, it’s crazy.”

I sweated a lot and she also went to shower. I found her sexy with a towel around the waist… so I took a picture. Eh shit: I activated the flash, fortunately she did not understand anything!

After, we talked a bit: she loves animals, has traveled a lot and has visited many zoos around the world. There is an animal that has marked her mind this summer: a lizard with two heads, whose name I forgot… I thought that with two heads, I could lick two girls at the same time! It would be awesome.

Otherwise, I also see again the cardiologist of last time: I pricked her blouse to make a picture and recorded her while I licked her. You can listen to it here (not available anymore). That made me laugh. It’s a bit bordeline, but I hope she will not be hurt.

On the other hand, I really hope she does not want more than an improved friendship because I find her a little sticky. That said, I still have chest pain so she checked me and told me my heart was fine. So it’s just stress, it reassured me.

In the section “less cool things”: Virginie currently makes me a crisis of nervous because she finds that I do not respond fast enough to her texting (it is true that sometimes I answer the next morning to something she sent me at 5pm, but well…) The long distance relationship thus begins badly! But please, understand me : I’m very tired in the evening and quite busy too. And then my phone is in silent mode all the time.

At work, it’s OK. But at the moment I am at the reception because the secretary has resigned… and it’s boring because behind me there is the office of the niece of the boss who watches everything I do. And as soon as I do anything other than counting: I’m entitled to a shitty comment. I call her the eye of Moscow, this asshole. So I can not pick up nor go on Facebook during business hours and that’s really not cool…

About the CPE, she has already sent me a text to meet up again. Maybe I’ll see her again, maybe not. We’ll see.

Kisses. May the God of the Game be with you!

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What women call feeling

A part of the “feeling” between two people corresponds to the unconscious communication between them. You can increase the number of people with whom you have a feeling by improving your body language and by studying interpersonal communication.

But it’s not just about that.

The exact definition of the feeling is “the way one feels this or that situation”. Because the “feeling” is what a person feels, it depends largely on his/her state of mind (by definition). So, a part of a pick up depends on the mindset of the target.

I have met, as you know, many girls on the Internet. And many of these women wanted to know if there would be “a feeling between us” before coming to my place to make love. In fact, I understand what they meant: they wondered if they would have the intuition that it would be good in bed with me. But I think this is (in a sense) a bad selection criterion. I will explain why.

 

A question of context

It must be understood that there are situations where a girl will feel the “feeling” with a guy and others where she won’t… with this same guy.

For example, if you go on a first “walking” date with a chick during which you stay one meter from each other all along… this is being little conducive to touch, and thus you have very little chances to have a good “feeling”. A date around a drink would probably be more opportune, especially because you could look at her in the eyes.

But, no matter what kind of dating, it’s often up to us (men) to do the work, to touch the girls and that kind of thing… to make sure there’s a feeling. So that they have the impression that “it goes well” between us.

In fact, it’s boring. When you think about it, most of the chicks are a bit waiting for it to fall down from the sky. And if they are a little stressed by the fact of having date: they will be uncomfortable, which will prevent this famous “feeling” to pass.

Because it is necessary to realize that if the girl does not know how to manage her stress, it will be very easy and very tempting for her to take refuge behind the excuse “we have no feeling” so as not to leave her comfort zone. Then, she will complain to her girlfriends that online dating sucks… when in fact, it is she, who sucks.

I think that at one time or another, if chicks want to orgasm, they have to put some good will into it.

 

A short story

I remember a date with a girl who wanted to see if there would be a “feeling” between us or not. Online, we decided to go to my house to have a drink but at the last moment in face to face, she demanded to go elsewhere to see if I was not a psychopath who wanted to murder her. Well, if I were a killer, I would not have told her anyway. It’s stupid but so true…

So, I was just out to pick her up and get her to go to my house. I had no money with me nor anything at all. Unprepared, I insisted that she come to my house, like if it was normal (in fact, it is). But she replied “if that’s what you want, I’m leaving, we’re done.” It creates a chill. It was only her second date with Tinder in her whole life and she yet wanted to do things in her own way, to dictate her rules.

I do not know why I accepted (the principle of coherence probably since I had left my house – too bad, there was a good movie on TV). So we went for a “stroll”. But she was simply there, killing my initiatives and redirecting the conversation on asexual subjects.

The worst thing was that she allowed herself to judge a lot of stuff, for example, she told me that only riffraff pick up in the street. Another example: she said she was on Tinder “just for fun” but that my profile had caught her attention but that usually she only met people in parties.

I’m pissed off by this reductive mindset so I did not make any effort and wanted to go home after 30 minutes… even if she was not ugly. It finally lasted 1h30… for nothing. She, just like me, did not want to fuck. Even if we had talked a lot about sex on Tinder.

Yet, if she had come over to drink a tea with me, we could have raised the sexual tension in a place where our impulses could have been unhindered.

It plays, in fact, the intimate place : she could have let herself go and be the bitch she claimed to be on Tinder instead of playing the tight-ass. For my part, I have not been oversexed either, but, in my defense, she left me no chance to be. It makes me laugh, the chicks who would like a guy to kiss them against a wall and fuck them wildly but who keep their distance and send no signal when there is a sex beast in front of them.

Finally, if we had fucked together, I would probably have made her orgasm like she rarely enjoyed in her life (see The awesome lover’s manual), which would have dropped the last barriers of intimacy.

Then, we could really have talked about everything and nothing in a fluid way, without stupid little game. And everyone would have been a winner. We must stop believing that if we do not have much to say before sex, we will have nothing to say afterwards and that the fuck will be bad because we will have no complicity. In fact, sex is an effective way to create a connection with someone.

Instead, it was a lose-lose scenario. Everyone was disappointed. So maybe she did not like me IRL while she liked my pictures (everything is possible)… but in this case, she should have said it directly. We would have saved a lot of time and energy. Even though, finally, this little digestive stroll made me feel good (thanks to it, I slept like a baby after)!

It reminds me of an episode of Sex & The City where Carrie had a sexfriend with whom sex was extraordinary. One day she decided to invite him to the restaurant to do “non-sexual” things and see if a more serious relationship could be envisaged with him. But it turned out that this guy was as boring as rain outside the bed : they had no other complicity than sexual complicity. And yet, she orgasmed like never before with him. So, should she have missed these moments of ecstasy if they had gone on an hypothetical first date at the restaurant ?

In my life, it happened regularly that the chicks who have come to my place to have sex directly are tense, crossed arms, and so on. But as soon as I began to approach to warm them, something lit up in them. And it remained activated after sex. Yet, if we had a drink in a bar with them instead of meeting up at home, I’m not sure I would not have gone back home alone.

Last point, some needed to drink alcohol to feel comfortable enough to do what they really wanted to do in fact. Of course, when you’re drunk, the feeling usually goes much better. But, frankly, we need to know ourselves and control ourselves so that we do not need to resort to those kinds of things that cause health problems.

The conclusion is that “intuition” is a good criterion for those who know themselves a minimum, who assume and who know how to manage their stress. For the others, it’s crap. Finally, I do not throw the stone at them, if they were not torn between the desire to orgasm freely and this fucking social pressure (and by the pressure that they put on themselves on their own)… we would not be in this situation !

Good luck, kinky boys!

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Friendzone & Sexualization

I recently asked for my newsletter readers this question: to improve your game, what product do you feel the need?

They were more than 60% to need a product explaining how to sexualize their interactions and how not to fall into the Friendzone. This seems to be a widespread problem!

So I hope to help many people with my new ebook…

Most girls you date stop answering you after?

Have you given up sleeping with a woman and claimed to be a respectful, gallant or “hard to get” man… while you were in reality just too nervous to make the first move?

Have you ruined your chances with a woman because you did not dare to take action (eg, kissing her) at the right time?

Has a girl you would have liked to fuck already said :
“You know, I love you much… but just as a friend…”
“You’re a great guy, you deserve a great girl… but it will not be me…”
“I do not want to spoil this beautiful friendship between us…”
“You’re like a brother to me…”
Or other crap like that?

First, know that, me too, I’ve liked several girls who just saw me as a friend, I know how frustrating this is. Besides, I tell you dandy personal anecdotes in this book.

Before, women did not consider me as a future potential boyfriend but as a nice guy, just like the many others they meet every day.

Before, when I met a girl who was interested in me, when I felt there was a way to go further with her, I was wasting it, because of my lack of confidence and because I did not dare sexualization (I did not even know how to do that).

The good news is that all this stuff can be learned through the game… and that learning is fun!

Now, I waste no time and fuck more than 45 girls per year while many of my fellow unfortunately live a hard sexual frustration (I knew this feeling).

I wish to communicate my experience and my knowledge through my book.

With this ebook (135 pages), you will:

*understand why girls often consider you as « just » a buddy (and how not to end up in this kind of situation);

*understand how to be manly and sexual without being thought of as a pervert;

*how you can sexualize without being vulgar or needy;

*discover the verbal and non-verbal sexualization;

*discover how I start my kinesthetic escalation when I’m alone with a girl (at my place or her home) to sleep with her (works about 9 times out of 10);

*discover the concept of sexual humor;

*understand how to avoid falling into the Friendzone;

*understand that there is no need to hide your intentions to sleep with a girl;

*learn how to seduce a girl who is in your social circle without having to tell her your feelings;

*beef up your game of seduction;

*and many other things, so I invite you to discover my free ebook excerpt before purchasing, so you will get a more precise idea of the content.

This guide is an immediately downloadable ebook and your investment is only €29  HT.

You can order without any apprehension or embarrassment. Your personal information will never be given (nor sold) to anyone. This purchase is completely confidential… and your credit card statement will state “SM Conseil”. 100% discreet!

Just after ordering on the secure form of 1TPE (my partner for several years, this platform is 100% reliable), you will have access to a private interface and will be able to immediately download the English version and the French version of the ebook and then start reading !

The advantage of digital products is that you do not have to pay abusive transport costs (plus it is environmentally friendly)…

« I want to learn sexualization, overcome my sexual anxieties, learn how to assume and let express my manhood to finally become that confident man who attracts women… »

It’s your turn !

Sincerely,

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Procrastination and avoidance strategies

Procrastination and avoidance strategiesProcrastination is the tendency to systematically postpone certain actions, an activity, a particular task. The procrastinator can not “go to work”… especially when it does not provide instant gratification.

But being a “chronically late person” does not mean doing nothing. Rather, the subject can do a lot of things (go shopping, a spring cleaning, repainting the shutters and calling his grandmother) as long as these things are not related to a really problematic task for him.

At the end of the day, the procrastinator says he finally has not advanced much in his project… But it does not matter, because tomorrow he will do it seriously, he promised.

 

Who is concerned ?

Anyone can be subject to procrastinatation, for one reason or another. I give you examples: adults eager to learn by themselves but leaving their books gathering dust, students losing their time on Youtube instead of revising, people who want to diet or quit smoking and who always promise to do it the next day, etc.

 

The causes :

Studies have shown that there is a connection between procrastination and: anxiety, perfectionism (fear of your own judgment or the one of others), low self-esteem, boredom, apathy and impulsivity.

Some perfectionists are therefore affected by procrastination. Since they can not bring themselves to make an average job and since a perfect job takes time and effort, they prefer to avoid the task. Procrastination is often related to fear of failure.

Others say they are “overwhelmed” and do not know where to start. This may be the case in seduction because of the mass of available information. I’ve prepared a plan for you to make it easier : click this link to see it.

We can also see in procrastination a fear of success, or rather an unconscious fear of change, a fear of breaking a vicious circle (a void is left). The feeling you have to be (very well) prepared before doing things can be another reason for procrastination.

According to the psychologist Walter Mischel from Stanford University, who conducted experiments in the 1960s, procrastination is a phenomenon mainly due to a lack of learning of self-control, of our own desires. But, he said, and some other scholars after him, we can learn it quickly and well. It’s encouraging !

 

Excuses :

If you’re a procrastinator, you always find a good excuse to justify your behavior. You turn around the bush but it is just a self-deceit. Excuses are divided into three types:
– Lack of time and other non-renewable resources ;
– Lack of money and other renewable resources;
– Lack of personal talent, stuff like “I do not feel capable.”

Those that are found most often when you pick up with guys are :

“I will not approach a girl until all the conditions are not met. There are too many people around. I’m not out for that. This is not the right place. I did not go to the hairdresser. And I do not have the level to succeed so why trying? “

“There’s too much noise in this club, I will approach in a party when we can hear each other…”

“I’m not feeling really warm tonight, next week it will get better. I’m not in the mood.”

 “I’m in high school, once in college I’ll move my ass.” And once in college, “I will start after my exams, now, I’m too busy! “

“I’m only 16 years old, it’s hard to approach girls at my age, when I’ll be 18 I will feel more comfortable to do so.” At 19, “I do not feel very good right now, we will see that later.”

“This girl is walking too fast, I will approach the next one. In addition, she is not hot enough, I’m not motivated enough. And she does not look nice, I guess she’s a superficial rich girl, anyway.”

Since there is no admissible reason not to act here, we can conclude that these are just excuses of cowards. And it turns out that this is indeed 99% of the time the case! I don’t give a damn what you plan to do in the future. I want to see action now. Because an initiative worth 1000 words.

 

The concept of avoidance strategy:

Avoidance is a behavior which consists of avoiding what would confront you with your anguish. We have to realize that most people live in a glass prison.

Avoidance strategies through such excuses make you still feel a vague unease behind your bad faith. While a saving efforts would help you improve your well-being. Otherwise, I would not piss you off with that.

However, if you do not make the effort, you will try to find an excuse for keeping internal consistency and justifying your inaction. And it can last long…

But I don’t know if there is really a good time to get out of your comfort zone. To start a better life. I guess that the perfect time is now… Make a decision, let’s say… tonight, not next year. And try to stick to it!

If you do not succeed, do not be discouraged; you are probably the most severe judge of yourself… then why don’t you think possible for you what you think is possible for another one? Be patient and sympathize with yourself! And try again!

I often meet girls who want to realize their fantasies (like threesomes) and that are seductive as the prospect is distant but get cold feet at the last moment under muddy excuses. “I have a little stomach ache tonight so I do not come”: it is a normal reaction because it stresses them, going out of their comfort zone, but we must see beyond that! Then know that to live exceptional things, you must deserve them a little, by daring for example! The worst is « I want it to happen in a spontaneous way » : fuck you, everything does not fall from the sky.

 

The solutions :

If you are not able to stand back, never forget that whether you act or not, time will pass anyway. This is a real constraint so use it wisely. So you need to review your priorities and analyze what really blocks you! It’s not when you’ll be 60 that you will fuck young girls! Select the most important things, the ones that will give you the most well-being. Finding a girlfriend (or several) and having a regular sexual activity, is it important to you? How important ? See for yourself (without bad faith). Tackle what will make a real difference in your life, and go after things.

Then, realize when you procrastinate or use a strategy of avoidance and know how to recognize when these excuses (and your little inner voice) work for you or against you. Shut it up when it’s against you. Set yourself achievable goals (you need a bit of discipline): at first, it will not be fucking four new girls a week. But approaching three girls a week, for example. Change your thinking, put stuff in perspective, change the words you put on things and try to be positive. Think of the feeling of satisfaction, of the immense pleasure it will bring you to finally have this thing DONE! Even if you’ll probably have to work hard at the beginning (it’s not easy). Prove that you have some character, some will!

With regard to dare approaching a girl :
– At the beginning, be in the game rather than the stake. It will save you from too much stress.
– Do not try to make perfect approaches (who cares ? It puts too much pressure and then who can judge you anyway?)
– Keep it simple: one idea per sentence, do not try to be TOO original, just try to do…!

Anyway BRAVO for reading this article until the end, for not having postponed the reading. It shows that you feel that something is wrong and you want to change it. This is a very noble goal, wanting to move your ass.

So, sign up for a seduction forum to meet players from your city, sign up for Tinder to meet girls easily and start reading my blog to improve yourself in seduction! Courage, it’s worth it!

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Kinky medical visit at my place

Kinky medical visit at my placeI fucked a doctor

September 3th 2015,

Hi chickens,

I am just back from holidays with the cock tanned thanks to nudist beaches. Just kidding, there’s no nudist beaches around Aix-en-Provence. But I have the mark of the jersey, really… I look as stupid as those who go to ski and come back with a white stripe around the eyes (except that, me, it is on the cock).

Sunday, back to Lyon. My parents drove me there. Bad idea: more than 5 hours road to drive 300 km… On the way, I decided to weigh the pros and cons: I concluded to stay registered on Adopteunmec. I have a salary now and I earn a little bit too thanks to my blog so I took the €29  per month formula to have access (limited to 10 likes per day) to women of the region.

For those who’ve read my ebook about online dating : I used the same profile as the one I gave as an example but, at the end, I added a bonus “speed seduction” text. Between Tinder and Adopte, I am ready to have a good sex life in Lyon. In addition, I have decided to train a small group to the Game… so we will go out I guess (well not too much because with my job I will only have my WE free).

Monday I fucked your mother and your sister: they liked it. Just kidding ! No, it was just the resumption of work. With a fucking heat wave, still at least 35°C. Lyon is a city as hot as Emily Ratajkowski (I do to her what she wants even if I prefer her in Blurred Lines than in We Are Your Friends).

Tuesday, compulsory medical visit. I peed in a pot: nothing to report. The doctor listened to my heart and taken the heart tension: 80 bpm and 12.7! So things are going well. I am reassured. For corrected vision: 12/12. She made me do a lot of movements also to see if I functioned well (she has strangely not tried to make my dick get up). Here I am, a real war machine ready for action !!!

No, seriously, we talked about life and death, all these metaphysical anguish: she told me that except not being fat, being physically active but not too much, doing less than 45 hours of work per week and eating healthy, you could not do much more to try to control the uncontrollable. Her philosophy of life is to put the odds on our side but to do not take a headache with all that! I liked it! I’ll try to do like this…

Wednesday, ie yesterday, I met a cardiologist I talk to since early August. I  made come at my place directly. At first she was a bit hesitant and full of principles but after the excitement won and made both of us save time. This is a girl that I approached on Adopte and I speed-seduced. She is in 6th year of medicine and has a cardiology background. I’m scared to know that they are only paid €250/month for doing the same work as graduate doctors.

I have sent several texts of speed seduction (I give them in my ebook). And I’ve even written a new one, just for her. She was very excited by my pen: she sent me sexy pictures of her, one only in underwear under her white coat with stethoscope !!! On her profile, was written “no sex friend” but I don’t care. It’s been a long time since I don’t give a shit about what women write on their profile to try to save her reputation.

Personally, I have been frank. I told her the truth. She said it suited her because I am honest and respectful (and we would use condoms). No need to lie to chicks to fuck them. I have an ethical and I’m proud of it !!! It was the moral lesson of the day.

So, before me, she had slept with only 7 guys in her life including 2 very long relationships. But she was eager to meet me. At 8pm, she brought white wine and homemade bounties (a vegan version of the stuff because she is vegetarian). It was a good thing that she invests so much in this sex session!

She said she was afraid of not pleasing me, etc. So, the girls also have anxieties. Yet she is quite sexy, really thin. Beautiful face with green eyes.

Once home, she wanted to fuck me directly but I dodged it. Damn, she wanted me to fuck her directly, she clung to me and everything. The poor girl had not fucked for 5 months and masturbated regularly… except that I am a civilized man.

After a quarter hour, I stroked her clit and fingered her : it was funny because to struggle, she was trying to catch my dick but has difficulty to open my Efficience belt… while I made fun of her because of it (nicely).

Then I thrown her on the bed and have licked her until orgasm. Then I got up, she sat on the edge of the bed facing me with her head up to my cock. I have shown her how to open this belt, the mechanism has passionated her. Then she sucked me and I fucked her. She then straddled me first and I fucked her doggy style and she orgasmed again. Note that she sucks very well. I finally removed the condom and finished in her mouth. She really wanted to make me happy!

We ate a bit to recover. Then we took a shower together. I sat down in the shower and licked her. She went crazy, and had another orgasm. Then she knelt and sucked me again. It was very good, especially with the water over us : her flowing makeup gave her a really sexy side.

She wanted to sleep at my place after that. She’s nice so no problem… What pissed me off a little bit on the other hand it’s that she is not really a good kisser (for my taste) and is VERY sticky even TOO MUCH (she always wants to take me hand or a cuddle while we don’t really know each other). On the other hand, she is OK to come with me to the swimming pool during the week so that’s cool!

Minute positive: she told me she found me beautiful, intelligent, friendly and a good lover. Awww, it’s nice! Handsome : I dunno, it depends on taste, I guess. Intelligent: if we rely on my IQ, kinda intelligent yes. Nice: it depends. Good lover : I’ve already been told so it should not be wrong. My advantage is, I have a wise face and a look that hide a very pronounced naughty side.

May the God of the Game be with us!