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I can understand that it was still hard for her to make a 5some with her sister at 8am

October 20th 2015,

I decided to stop working this afternoon because my boss pissed me off (I’m in my office but I am not working). I’m on edge so I just made the decision to quit this job at the end of the tax period (next spring).

I will then have a good experience in cabinet on my CV and will be able to do my internship of 3 years of chartered-accounting in a cabinet a little more class, not in a scraper thing with a whimsical boss.

This time, the complaint is that I arrived at 2:15pm instead of 2pm (I had fallen asleep… as often between midday and two o’clock). I explained that I left at 12:50am instead of 12:30am but this bastard told me that this is not a reason… in addition, his niece arrives at 9:30am instead of 8:30am and 2:45pm instead of 2:00pm but he never tells her anything. DOUBLE STANDARDS ! Two strategies are open to me now: ignoring what he has just told me or sticking to the opening hours, leaving at the official closing hours and not doing any unpaid overtime anymore. He pissed me off so much that I have again pain in the chest (stress). And last night, he had so pissed me off that I clenched my teeth during my sleep: this morning I have a broken one… fuck…

In short, I will take advantage of this right that I just granted myself to tell you briefly the last 2 weeks of pick-up. I did not have time before, I was too tired and there was no FuckClose anyway.

Fail n ° 1

Saturday two weeks ago (October 10th), I spent the night in an Erasmus party with my friends and a girl named Alison. Then, she wanted to go to another bar, the one I call “the sauna” because it is always 50°C warm even when it is very cold outside. On the way between the Erasmus-Bar and the Sauna, we heard noise: a private party in an apartment! So we went there after simply asking through the window “Can we come?”. It was fun to go there like that (and it’s always easier to be invited when there is a girl in the group)!

We stayed there for 1h then we left. On the way, I tried to open all the doors of the halls of the buildings to warm the chick inside. There’s one that I managed to open (it was not locked I just had to push): I touched her breasts, buttocks and pussy in it.

Then, arriving the other bar, she began to booze and to dance. Personally, I neither drink nor dance. We were really in TOTAL shifting. But she still kissed me. I asked her all night long to come to my place but there was no way… and she always asked me to stay with her longer in the Sauna. I felt like a pigeon even if I paid nothing because I was losing precious hours of sleep.

I got tons of tests like:
“You’re sex-starving to death, don’t you?”
“You slept with 177 girls? Honestly, it’s not so much »
“I do not know if you will get me to orgasm I have doubts”
“I already have sex-friends so why would I need you?” ”
“Chuck Bass, I would fuck him on first date”
“You have long nails, don’t you? Ah no you don’t…”
It pissed me off ! So I spanked her ass a few times for the road.

At 5am, the metros had resumed so I left by telling her “sorry I feel too much like a gap-filler with whom you spend the night but are not interested in, in fact”. The next day, I received a message on FB “are you pouting?
– no, why ?
– what you said last night. I was in the mood to party yesterday
– OK when you are in the mood to party in halls of buildings, tell me
– I’ll even let you show me yours if you want now that it’s not the first date”

Fail # 2

Last Wednesday, October 14th, a girl from Adopteunpuceau came to my house. We had agreed for a glass of wine and a massage. Once installed, she told me that she was kidding for the massage and that she was not at all tactile “I hate being touched”. She said she never sleeps on the first night. She said that I should wait for her to feel like it.

I told her (for the challenge) that the day she would like, I would resist just for fun. She replied that we, the guys, had no will. I digged a little: she only knew 3 men in her life, so she has virtually zero experience and has not orgasmed for more than six months. She was, in short, frightening. She was so stressed that she was talking at full speed and all the time.

We discussed the sexual positions she would like us to do next time, she even drew them on a paper (a diagram) and then let me see her buttocks and underwear… but without touching. Nothing happened : I have been bad when I let her impose this frame.

I said that for the next date, we would play a strip poker. I explained the rules to her and she said “OK”. But I did not feel it. The next day, I sent “what color are your underwear today?” But I did not receive any answer. In short, apparently she has rationalized after and prefers to give up on it. Or she was crushed on the way home. No seriously, I did not understand where I messed up but I can tell her she missed something. This is how to err on the side of caution… So I have spoiled two dates since I’m in Lyon… which makes me a success rate of about 90%. In fact it’s like in Aix, except that I meet more girls.

Fail n ° 3

The following Friday, I had to receive at my house a pretty foreign student coming from Abu Dhabi whom I had approached to FB. A pretty little one. At the time said, a text “sorry I am too tired and I have to charge my phone
– kiss my ass “. I do not regret my answer: in general, who had flaked will flake.

The same day, a 40-year-old woman from Clermont Ferrand passing through Lyon for the night offered me a libertine plan on Adopte. Except that there were no pictures on her profile. I asked some by mail and she sent me pictures where I could not see her face. She challenged me “if you’re curious and adventurous, come at 10:30pm in front of the cinema of Bellecour, my film will be finished and I will get out
– kiss my ass “. Seriously, it was a fucking plan, no? So, I watched Breaking Bad until midnight and I fell asleep in front of the show.

Fail # 4

Last Saturday, we went out in my favorite bar with Chromosome Y and Mr. McBoules who bought a very classy jacket… so now he looks like Harry Roselmack. There was also a friend-wingman from Aix who was passing through Lyon.

He is so tall this guy (2 meters) that when girls dance on the tables, he can talk to them right in the eyes. It was with this observation that I opened a set of two. One began to answer us by laughing and there I heard a strong accent from Toulouse that I recognized “tell me you were there one month ago with a hat, right?
– oh yeah I knew that I had recognized you bastard you made fun of me all the night.”

Indeed, I had incarnated the whole evening my favorite character : I named the Spanish Fabricio Juliano (who speaks with a pretty strong accent). I had a good laugh with her but I had to leave very quickly because one of my friends was outside and could not come in the bar. So, I had done nothing with her. But when I saw her, I got on the table, I took her BEAUTIFUL face in my hands (seriously she is very beautiful), said hello and gave her a smack on her mouth right after. She did not slap me nor anything, her lips had a texture of a delicacy and a very pleasant sweetness. However, she told me “stop your bullshit now I have a boyfriend and I’m serious
– OK, well, that’s already something taken on life!”

I went down and told her “now I’m at the right height to kiss your breasts!” Between us, I think I will never fuck her but a kiss is always a pleasure even if I forced fate. Pushy game power !

Fail n ° 5

The most beautiful of the fails, I think.

Around 4am, with my buddys we decided to propose an after to some chicks in the street. We found a group of 4 girls. I approached with “well so ???!” And one of the girls of the group echoed me “well what then ???!” We talked to them and they were looking for something to do, just like us. Once at my place home, I tried to launch the strip card game but two of the chicks were reluctant. They wanted to play another game!

We then made another game (the liar) but the two pains in the ass cheated to don’t lose when they played (they handed cards in the package). To top it off, they did not make wages nor take off clothes when they lost. The worst part is that they made shitty remarks like “if we organize a diner for stupid people we’ll have to invite him” because I did not care about what they said. I took it a bit badly, especially since I had kindly made pasta for everyone because they were hungry. So I was very cold with them, especially with the one that was very ugly (the nastiest by the way) probably because she felt bad in her skin (there must be a causal link). “Well, we empty our bucket and we leave,” said the two pains in the ass. FINALLY !

My friend of Aix took the opportunity to leave too because he had fallen asleep on my bed in the meantime. It was probably 7am at that time! We finally played the strip card game with the two cool girls!

Two teams: I was with one of the two blond girls, and Chromosome Y + Harry Roselmack with the other blonde girl. By the way, I did not specify but they were two sisters. Thanks to the game, we undressed them and we undressed. Then we made pledges to kiss them, it was cool. When we were all five under the duvet fiddling after kissing, one of the two sisters went crazy “SORRY BUT IT’S TOO WEIRD COME ON CAMILLE WE LEAVE”! She jumped out of bed and got dressed. It put a damper. Her twin sister was as hot as the embers. She also masturbated MacBoules in a photomaton on the way back, according to what he told me (I’m happy for my padawan).

I would have liked that Chromosome Y could finally fuck a girl (that’s my virgin padawan) ! But otherwise, I did not find them very sexy so I have no big regrets. At the moment, I would have liked to have sex, that’s for sure, but hey… I can conceive that it was still hard for her to make a 5some with her sister at 8am. The trick is that she has spoiled the joy of everyone (and maybe even her own) and that it broke the mood. Ahlala, when you freak out, what bullshit don’t you do! It could have been a great memory for everyone! There was nevertheless a good dynamic and I did not find that we had a bad game…

The bottom line is that I really have to find how to put the heating in my apartment (the thermostat is very complicated). It’s frozing a little!

If I summarize: at work it’s not fun (the only thing I like in the office anyway is flirting with the secretary and talking with my work colleague who is as obsessed as me), the chicks it doesn’t work much, the cardiologist is a pot of glue and Virginie breaks my balls because she finds that I forsake her. She does not understand that with my job and everything, I do not want to spend the WE at her place with her mother, her sister and she while I have an apartment well wedged in Lyon and she is in holidays.

There are still positive things in my life: I just finished an ebook entitled “The awesome lover’s manual“ which is a good sell for the moment and I am preparing with Snipe an interview of 1h30 that will explain the Game well as it should (for once). We’re going to do a featuring like rappers! Wesh!

Come back of the mojo:

The principle of the cooked dish is that we cook it then we just have to put it to warm to eat it. It is a bit similar with Alison, the girl met in front of the bar during the Erasmus party. She came home last night with a bottle of white wine. Polite, this girl! And funny too, we had a good time.

After a while, I fingered her + caressing her clit under my table. She was close to orgasm so she was hot and took off her top. We went to the bed. I licked her. She is not an easy-to-orgasm but I ended up getting there. In fact, it was not a bad thing to wait a little in fact, it raised sexual desire. I admit I masturbated by thinking of her in the meantime… I told her, by the way.

Then she dropped me. She came over me and started rubbing. Without conviction, she asked “do you have condoms?
– Yes”. But she stayed there, with her pussy against my erect cock. I told her “you’re playing a dangerous game
– Yes
– do you take the pill?
– no”. So I put on a condom, I’m proud of myself to have resisted… it was hard.

I fucked her and… second orgasm. She could not handle more, the little thirty. I had warned her anyway that she would enjoy, I do not see why it surprised her so much… In any case, I liked her body without fat and firm breasts. She has nice tits (I was addicted to her boobs like to an anti-stress ball). In addition, her face made me think of a love of my youth so it helped me to fantasize, I admit.

It’s my second FC this month and I have 10 days left to fuck two more girls. Big challenge if I want to stick to the statistics I hold since I’m in Lyon (1FC / week on average)!

May the God of the Game be with me!

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The prizing to seduce

prizing
Image : Gordo

The prize is the award in the sense of “the prize at the end of a competition”.

In the community of seduction, prizing is a very criticized concept because it is misunderstood (like many things).

However, your attention please: prizing is not a beginner exercise, but an advanced concept that must be used with caution at the risk of burning your wings.

The definition of prizing

Prizing is a game approach that involves reversing the roles and making the girl see you as a “challenge”. The purpose of prizing is to do not put women on a pedestal. It is a concept popularized by Swinggcat in his ebook “Real World Seduction”.

The trick, in my opinion, is to consider yourself as the equal of a woman in an interaction: show her that you like her, but at the same time, show her that she likes you too. Even consider yourself slightly above her if you are a sportsman, healthy, who has a good diploma and who is not stupid while she is a little girl who enjoys the money of her dad and who is a little fat. I’m exaggerating, but it’s for you to understand better.

It may sound stupid, but it must be understood that most men live in a reality where the woman is the price. This is why there are many sex-starving men but few sex-starving women : a woman who wants to have sex can, in the absolute, easily find a cock to jump on.

I know women do not like me to say that so I will explain my point of view:
– women can register for free on most dating sites, because if there are women, men are willing to pay to come and try their luck;
– in a club, it is common to offer the champagne to the women to make them come, because they will bring the men… who are ready to pay;
– a woman not very beautiful will always find the way to be picked up by a guy if she goes out in a bar, while an average man who does not move his ass will return alone ;
– When I match on Tinder with my girl account, I have practically 1 like every time I put a heart… but when I do it with my own account I have 2 or 3 likes every 50 hearts.

Becoming the prize in your head serves to avoid being constantly needy and seeking approval. And many guys need such rehabilitation because, yeah, if you’re not a popular guy, you usually live in sexual misery (unless you have a good game).

A solid inner game

Know that seduction is like a sport: without a good mind you have nothing. Now the mind, the inner game, is the key to success in seduction. If you have a solid inner game, you will succeed. If you do not have one, the game can help you acquire one.

Many guys have a feeling of inferiority towards girls that they find attractive. So know that contrary to popular belief, prizing is not about wanting to make her believe that you are the prize, but to understand it yourself, that you are a prize.

Prizing means esteem and respect. It is a match for value. It is to think that one deserves to be treated in a respectful way and to refuse any abject behavior. This is a totally different approach to most guys who constantly try to prove that they are up to the girl they try to pick up and who lick her ass.

Unlike many politically correct coaches, I’m not against using techniques like negs or prizing. These coaches reject all that is “technical” by saying that if you use techniques it is that you are a weak one who is not confident. In fact, they are a bit right, but your confidence will not come out of nowhere: it takes success to gain confidence… and the techniques will allow you to have these first successes, then you will become more “natural”.

The goal of the game is to develop an inner game such that everything you do today by considering it as “techniques” is actually no more than the expression of your alpha personality! You must become confident enough to think that girls want to sleep with you and that they will only have this privilege if they meet your expectations.

Basically, I agree if you want to use techniques at the beginning, but I want you to be genuine in the long run. I want you to become a better yourself compared to today! The real goal of the game is that self-confidence settles in you and that everything I teach you appears natural: it will be much more effective than all the techniques combined (except the technique of the GHB in her drink).

 

Sexual prizing

Personally, I’ve fucked so many chicks and made experiences that now I know I’m better 95% than the guys in bed. My strength comes from this belief, so I can “sexually prize” the chicks and it is sincere. I know that part of my value comes from there, that I have this added value to propose to a girl that I like, and I express it more or less directly…

Sexual prizing works if you want to fuck a lot of chicks but also if you want to find a girlfriend. Indeed, now I’m trained to be good in bed, it is the women who ask for more and some would make the pear tree so that I become their boyfriend. Being a good lover (cf my book on the subject) therefore makes them want to fuck but also to stay with you! Not only men can be held by what they have between their legs.

 

Drifts

The first trap is that if you calibrate poorly while wanting to be prize, you risk triggering a conflict, an unhealthy and unsuccessful balance of power with a girl… the goal is not that she wants to put you down ! Avoid the extremes: so do not be too submissive but do not be too inaccessible, otherwise, she might think you are NOT AT ALL interested, be mad a at you and leave. In practice, there are a lot of guys, so if you play the precious who is waiting to be seduced because he is the price, you will masturbate very often.

The second trap is that the prizing is only a technique and that by digging a little, the girl realize that the guy is in fact a poor puppy who is trying to play in the top league.

The third trap is that I have seen guys not fully understanding the techniques of prizing nor the concept of alpha male. So, it can be a disaster: these stupid guys even begin to try to dominate their friends, their family and to make dick contests constantly. In short, they are completely wrong and lost…

To avoid these pitfalls, practice light prizing, and again, only when you are in a seduction phase. Do not act like a needy, communicate that you have value and dare to take initiatives (prizing should not be an excuse so the girl do all the work for you).

 

I already explained in two previous videos the concept of frame (LPUF# 2 and LPUF #16), so you can watch those videos to complete this one on the prizing because these notions are intimately related.

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I put it in her ass by mistake

On 9 October 2015,

On Wednesday evening, my parents who had come to visit me in Lyon returned to Aix. They both really stressed me. When I lived with them (or not far from them), I did not realize that they were so excited… but then, after not seeing them for more than a month, it was hard : chest pain was back… well, fortunately I have my little personal doctor who watches so I know I do not have heart disease. I still fuck her, this cardiologist: yesterday 6 orgasms, she could not stand up at the end (because yes we fuck standing now is the new fashion).

The day before yesterday, I had invited a 27 year old girl, an accountant in one of the Big Four. It seems that there they cannot even go to FB/Adopte/Youtube in her office (there’s a protection that block these sites and a guy who is paid to check the Internet history)… Finally, I’m not so bad where I am with my boss very bad with computers!

I had picked her up on Adopte by telling her that I had to massage her to recover from the stress of VAT declarations. Then we started talking about doggystyle and threesomes.

Once there, she asked me for the elevator code. Understand, there is no code, it is a very basic lift! Fuck, I guess she was VERY stressed, poor girl…

It is a small blonde, dressed very classy, who took off her shoes as soon as she entered my house. I immediately felt the maniac girl (at the same time the profession of accountant makes people crazy it’s a good thing that I was already crazy before doing this job)! I offered her a glass of wine to relax her, she ingested three. I drank an infusion that made me want to piss. I have 5 kilos to lose so in the evening for me it is “healthy soup and infusion”.

Leaving the toilet, I offered her this massage I promised online, she said “OK”. Usual scenario: massage, fingering, pussy-licking. She did not orgasm and begged me to take her doggy style. So I ended up saying “Ok sweetie (+ spanking)”.

So I took her doggy style and there she told me “ahhhh I will not be able to resist for a long time
– Because you refrain yourself from coming? Why ?
– I dunno.” Fuck, but this kind of contradiction is really typical of the chicks. So I continued to take her hard.

And then she finally come after 2 minutes of doggy and fucking ejected me out: I was expelled from the little pussy. “Sorry…”

Then I wanted to finish quietly but she was too sensitive and did not let me come in again. She told me it hurt. And we had to wait. After 10 minutes, she asked me to warm her again to finish.

So I executed (not with a bullet in my head) then I found a hole and inserted my dick. She started screaming. She got up and got dressed without saying a word except for insulting me… I asked her what was going on and everything and she ended up confessing to me, after an unbearable suspense, that I had just sodomized her and she hated it.

I calmed her a little, telling her I had not done it on purpose (that is the truth). At first she did not believe me but she ended up relaxing. She came back on the bed with me (all dressed). I kissed her. I asked her to jerk me off to finish: she looked annoyed just like if I was asking a huge favor but ended up doing it.

I saw the moment when she was going to leave without even having kissed me or make me come. Fucking selfish! In life, it’s like that: you ask you get most of the time, you do not ask anything, you’re going to get nothing (even if you made the girl enjoy just before)!

I had a good orgasm even though she did not bother to suck me (which I think would have been the least of the politeness) and then she washed her hands. And she left right after, around 11pm.

An hour later, while I was watching Breaking Bad, I received a message of apology. Then two. Nonsense stuff like “I hope you are not mad at me…” Then the next morning, another one. Basically, she was chuckling, apologizing for leaving “like a thief”, wondering if I would like to see her again, and so on. That’s fine, but why did you not think about it before, girl?

I do not really want to see her again… especially if it’s for her to do it again, seriously. They are too accustomed to sex-starving men who tolerate everything just to get into a pussy. You have to train these little pussies, it’s like a Mewtwo level 70 if you do not have the badge of the league Pokemon: if it does not respect you, it allows itself anything! I think if each guy was a little more alpha with the babes he fucks, that kind of behavior would disappear.

 

Otherwise, there was another good pickup this weekend. In our favorite bar with the Nice Giant: I stopped a chick who was going to the toilets “where are you going?
– I’m going to pee.
– OK, have you already made a threesome with two guys?
– Oh never.
– And you’re interested?
– I do not know maybe…
– Cool, kiss me then kiss my bud then.”

What she did. A KC and a deciding pass to my buddy who so also KCed her. We chatted and she was supposedly ready for the 3some. I took her number because she wanted to “have a drink” with her roommates before and so she wanted that we go back looking for her later. It smelled a bit like a fucking plan like “the girl who makes you wait all night and then gets cold feet and goes home to touch herself instead of having sex” (classic scenario of comfort zone – but total lack of respect… but well if the girls respected us we would have noticed it).

So finally, we left this bar without waiting for her, and we went to a bar that is so heated that it looks like a sauna… and we did not fuck her. We did not even go talking to her before we left, we were too busy aproaching babes with “do you have the fantasy of the unknown man?”. The next day around noon, she sent me a text message asking me why we did not come back for her as planned. I told her the truth… that she had missed her chance and that she should have been more responsive.

The next day, I proposed her to fuck her at 9pm and she replied around 3am “I fell asleep sorry another time”. Since then, she only sends me shitty texts : she calms the game… so I troll her for fun. She will gently touch herself because I do not like big mouths that have nothing in the pants in fact. To deserve my magic tongue and dick, you must be a tigress, not a little pussy! Seriously, they find it inadmissible when I openly make fun of them, but I think most coconuts deserve it! And know that I’m not even a macho…!

See ya ! I’m going back to work on my balance sheets, to flirt with the new cabinet secretary (dangerous game) and to write my ebook that will teach you how to fuck like gods!

May the God of the Game be with you!

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Seduction = Manipulation ? (NLP, hypnosis, techniques)

seduction manipulation
Image : The Jungle Book

Many men and women believe that “seducing” is “manipulating the other” and getting him/her to do things against her/his will (such as sucking a cock).

Seduction has always fascinated, in antiquity yet Ovid published the Art of Love, and Auguste scandalized sent him forever into exile! Famous seducers and seductresses, real and fictional characters mixed (examples: Casanova, Valmont and Merteuil of Dangerous Liaisons), contribute to this mixed effect of fascination/repulsion.

The game is a complex discipline that can be fascinating but also scary (because people are afraid of being seduced against their will)… a little bit like magic in the Middle Ages.

I will try to explain why there is no “ugly manipulation” in what we, the Pick-Up Artists, do.

 

Techniques of manipulation and influence: the share of prejudices and bad faith

The ignorant, the politically correct people, the envious perhaps, often reproach us for manipulating because we teach and use different verbal and para-verbal communication techniques.

But how would it be wrong to use techniques to communicate better? Through them, discussions become more fluid and enjoyable. So, of course, they create an atmosphere of confidence… but is it really a problem to want the person we are talking to does not perceive us as a threat (especially if we only have good intentions) ? If you criticize the game for that, then you must also criticize politicians, salespeople, marketers, spin doctors… otherwise you are in bad faith.

In fact, I would even say that we all must be aware that if we think like that we are all manipulated on a daily basis… and that we manipulate others too (often without even knowing it), depending on how we turn our sentences. Let’s take a simple example: a parent tells his child “I’d like you to put your room up. You do not HAVE TO do it, but it would still be a good thing…” Well, there’s manipulation.

To open your eyes, read Les influences sournoises by Jean-Léon Beauvois (a psychologist from Aix). This book explains that the society in which we live is not as neutral as we generally think and decrypts many of these mechanisms that are in charge of (slyly)  influencing us… You will understand that as soon as you watch TV, advertisements, or even that you go out of your house… you are manipulated.

The result is that we all have, on ourselves and on others, false ideas, oriented by the social game that makes us believe in psychological realities. Beauvois also warns about the phenomenon of internalisation, which sometimes makes us accept, make ours, and even claim things as personal ideas, whereas these are only things we have been persuaded (and sometimes even against our own interest… that’s why we have to learn to think for ourselves!)

The game, therefore, is not a series of techniques without logic (contrary to preconceived ideas): it is a way of learning to reveal oneself. To emphasize one’s personalit, to provoke one’s chance and then to communicate intelligently to discover the other and make him/her want to know us in return. Certainly, we try to present ourselves in a day that is advantageous to us, but that is all you can accuse us of. And it’s hardly any different, certainly no worse, than a chick who puts on heels of 10 cm or who makes a lot make-up, or who gets prostheses, or all together. Because if we think like that, it could be said that it is manipulation too… to make a man get hard… it’s ridiculous !

 

Speed seduction: prejudices

We are also criticized for using NLP and hypnosis to manipulate people to make them do what we want. This argument reveals a lack of knowledge about NLP and hypnosis: even an asshole who could not read could have watched episode 18 of Mentalist’s season 1 and would suspect that one can not make someone do something he/she does not want to do in fact. Except with a brainwashing, but this is yet another degree of manipulation and it takes a lot of technical resources to achieve it.

In addition, NLP and hypnosis are very difficult to master: this is not what comes to my mind spontaneously when I talk about the game, it would rather be develop your nerve, your self-confidence, opening your mind… there’s nothing magical about it. Be aware, however, that this part of seduction based on hypnosis and NLP, mysterious and almost legendary, is what we call “dark seduction”. This is not the best facet of the game and many players even refuse to initiate!

 

A PUA lies to have sex

A guy is a PUA when he satisfies his need for affection, for sex, that he has learned life a little bit and that he is well in his head. There is no manipulation in it… when one gets to be free in his mind, he does not care about the opinion of others (especially those who have understood nothing). So we do not need to lie like sex-starved people. We make our best proposal, card on table, sometimes disconcerting of simplicity and we seek people like us who have managed to free themselves from diktats, social pressure, and all those prisons of glasses that prevent us from really living. We also sometimes try to open the eyes to peopl… it seems to me to be a noble fight!

A PUA is not a heartless man who abuses his new acquaintances: normally, when you have been really humiliated (by women in this case because they are not tender with us on the field), it makes you more humble, more humane. Finally, that was my case. I was able to overcome a lot of my neuroses thanks to the game, so I do not want to make people suffer, I rather try to do some good around me.

 

The game is a scam

The game is one of the least costly and the more effective forms of personal development that exists. It certainly made it possible to avoid quite a lot of suicides, unlike the psychoanalysts who take the money of their patients for just waiting for a miraculous cure…

True, the pickup can create some neuroses (I think of those guys who know all the acronyms by heart and split their hair when they talk to a girl) but eventually we overcome our obstacles and heals more problems (and more serious one) than we create.

Now, I will not tell you that there are only choir children in the seduction community. Some have detected a vein and just want to make money on the back of desperate guys. There are some who are bad but who think they are good. Against them, it is up to you to be discerning, because it is a little bit a jungle: there is what works and scams (be aware that if you see a miracle or infallible method, it smells bad). But if the proposed content is serious and not a fucking joke, yes, it works… I am living proof.

And in addition, it helps people who are trained to be a little less manipulable/influencable. Because an alpha, supposedly, is not a sucker that is easily manipulated.

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The kinky crunchy-granola

The kinky crunchy-granolaOctober 1st 2015,

Last Saturday, I went out with Chromosome Y, a friend of the LAIR of Lyon. I talk about this because I have a funny night pick-up to tell : I approached a chick in a bar. She was coming out of the toilet, it was an isolated target. I asked her if she wanted to come to an after with my buddy and me (a strip-poker party of course). “I do not know how to play poker
– good news”. Then I asked her the color of her underwear and she lifted up her top and skirt to show us. Then we showed her ours by opening our jeans. We are fair play.

Since the only IOI that interests me is that the girl stays when I do anything, I took her face in my hands and slowly came closer to her mouth. No backward movement : kiss. Then, she commented as if she did not give a fuck “well, I know one  guy who would not be happy if he knew.” So I let her go back to her boyfriend.

There is a phenomenon that I observed and that makes me laugh: there are many stupid girls who say “yeah we I come to the strip-poker at 5h just find me in the club later…” and then who flee with their girlfriends. They do not even say no, it’s a shame! And the worst part is that I’m sure they really would like it in fact. It is true that it is still better to wait for the first subway in the cold to go back home and masturbate before sleeping… no comment!

Well, it’s ok, it’s not their bullshit that will prevent me from having sex. Besides, the Nice Giant, my other wing in Lyon, managed to fuck a chick of Adopte.

Flashback: two weeks ago I took his cell phone to look at his pick-ups and I sent a message to a chick who was posing with a boar’s head hanging on the wall behind her “Hi who am I talking to, the wild boar or the blonde?
– haha it’s the blonde
– OK good. What day are you free for me to give a massage to you at my place?
– Tuesday”. And BOUM! It paid off!

Why when it is me who do that it often works and when it is my friends they flake? I think this is because they are still too AFC at the moment of the approach. They do not assume… except that the easiest way to differentiate themselves from lambda guys is to assume, at the risk of being called a big pervert by tight-ass people. But the thing is with this technique: profits > problems. Otherwise, he was not bad when he took the relay and so it makes sense that he fucked her.

Last Sunday, I received a message on Adopt from a chick who praised the benefits of meditation and personal development. She said she found me interesting. And that I seemed to have a good “energy”. It is a new age word that she often uses.

After a few messages, she sent me her number. I did not use it until yesterday because another girl had flaked me. So I wrote to my little crunchy-granola since I had an evening free and was not too tired. A simple and direct text : “meditation session with me tonight?”

She came without any resistance. It was all right. But anyway, the thing is that if she had said “no” I would have been happy too because I have an episode of Ray Donovan late.

Once home, she found my apartment very Feng Shui. She said I was actually getting a good “energy”. That I was soothing. My reflections were more superficial: I found her pretty hot, although she did not have very big tits. The Breton was tall (taller than me), muscular, green eyed and… A VERY BEAUTIFUL ASS (muscled by her favorite transport : her bike).

We drank an infusion together, thyme and rosemary which I picked myself in the hill behind my home in Aix. She is new in Lyon too, she comes from Bretagne to study diet. And she is on Adopte because she doesn’t really like clubs and that in her promo there’s almost only chicks!

Then I turned off the light and installed a floor mat. We put ourselves in a position of meditation. I put a CD of Christophe André, she chose a theme: the longest of course, fuck. It lasted 30 minutes. I have not held all the time, I rarely practice more than 10 minutes. So while I watched her closed eyes focusing on her breath… I hesitated between:
– undressing and waiting until she reopens her eyes;
– kissing her to try to distract her.

But I did not do anything. After meditation, I asked her “how do you think is the sexual tension there?
– It has fallen now: when I arrived 4/10 and now 2/10”. I took her hands in mine. I stroked her hands. “And now ?
– 4.”

I got closer to her nearby. “And now?
– Still 4.
– Open your eyes.”

I started caressing her thighs, her back, getting close to her face without kissing her and looking into her eyes. She said “now 6!”. I kissed her in the neck, passed under her sweater to play with her nipples “now 8!”

We stayed at 8/10 a long time. She somewhat chilled me at one point: “please, do not kiss me on the mouth, that’s all I ask you
– huuu ok. What are we doing?
– do you want to give me a massage ? I see you got some oil?
– yeah OK”.

For the massage, she wanted to remove her top but not her bottom. So I took off my jeans. It was ying and yang. After a while, I lowered her pants a bit to massage her buttocks (I’m stubborn) so she said “oh well, I’ll remove, it is ridiculous.”

I gave her a body body massage: suddenly, she smelled my cock that rubbed mine against her pussy. I was talking about quite another thing during this time, it made her laugh. Then I fingered her, caressed her. She started to climb to orgasm but it hurt her after a while. So then I took out my fatal weapon: the cunnilingus. Again, she nearly enjoyed but did not go all the way.

At her request, I undressed, put on a condom and fucked her in missionary. After a few minutes, she started making noises and it excited me like crazy. She continued to squeal like that for a long time then stronger and stronger. Then I came. I could not resist anymore. I stayed a little in her pussy and I got soft a bit… so the condom remained half inside: she ran into the shower to rinse for fear of making me a kid.

We made a post-coition hug after these adventures and she said “it’s rare that I orgasm with a guy
– ok but you did not enjoy, why you say that?
– yes I did, in missionary
– ah OK I thought I did not hold enough.
– you were good ! I did not expect sex of this quality
– haha! you know, my cock is so powerful that even the urinals are afraid of me”

At 11 pm, we shared a soup to recover from our emotions. She told me during the meal she has already been in a swinger club, and has sucked 4 guys in the sauna there. So I told her my orgies, and it made her dream. She told me that if I find another girl, she is ready to make her first threespùe. Ok, dully noted! She also told me about her other dates in Lyon: either guys who did not dare to fuck her, or bad lovers. It’s hard all the same!

She wanted to go home when I asked “why did not you suck me?
– good question “and: she knelt down to do it. Then, I fucked her doggy style against my desk. Then, in missionary on the ground. Then she climbed onto me on the meditation carpet. It was both sweet and savage.

Our lips quite touched during the sex session but I did not really kiss her. I do not care. That balances things (remember all those I kissed in a club without fucking them)!

She explained her bullsit : she only kisses when she is in love, when it is really “the energy of the heart”… Well, if she wants.

Well. It was Cyprineman, live from his fucking office.

May the God of the Game be with us!

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Can one seduce by being nice?

Can one seduce by being nice
Image : How I met your mother

Often, women tell men when they reject them “but you are nice, you inevitably will find someone who matches you.” As a result, some people conclude that kindness is an ugly defect.

Women are sincere when they say they want nice men (I guess few women would want a guy hitting his wife). On the other hand, they do not want nice guys.

If you suffer from nice boy syndrome (women are not interested in you but they find you “nice”), the problem is not that you are a nice person but that you are probably behaving in a coward and somewhat hypocritical way with women. Your “kindness” is then only a mask of circumstance behind which you hide your inability to say no, or even that you use to try to buy the girls. What is a hard sell…

In fact, girls generally say the nice boy that “he is nice” to speak politely about the fact that he lets himself be subdued. In essence, this reflects a sense of condescension towards a person who has difficulty assuming himself, or even who is incapable of asserting himself.

In reality, being nice, if that’s not what creates attraction, is not a handicap in seduction; Provided it does not take away manhood. It depends on what concrete you put in this term (for etymologically it is meliorative, it means “people chosen by God.” For example, I would say that I am a nice peson… and yet I fucked a lot of chicks.

I would say that this is how nice I am: I love animal, I have made donations, I love the idea that I help guys to become sexually fulfilled, I am very interested in women and I like above all to give them a lot of pleasure in bed.

 

Where does the problem come from with “kindness”?

The problem is that many men do not know (or dare) to set up a real sexual connection with a woman they want to seduce: they say to reassure themselves that if it does not work, it’s because they are nice and that women are too stupid to like it… which can start feeding a kind of hatred towards the fair sex.

It should be known that one of the common mistakes that beginners make in seduction is to try to please a girl by being TOO nice. Because being too nice translates and betrays a lack of self-confidence: too many people confuse their kindness and their need for validation. It is then the lack of confidence that is to be eliminated, not the kindness. Moreover, when one is TOO nice, one is considered as a sucker… which does not attract because a sucker has little chance of succeeding his life.

Many guys are only kind in a seduction purpose, because they think (because of social conditioning and what they have heard and live being younger) than it is by totally submitting, and by giving to women a lot of attention, that they will seduce. Of course, it does not work, but it is not once again the fact of being nice that is the problem, it is the fact of being a “submissive” person.

When you were a child, for example, you might be “nice” with your parents to GET something, such as a new toy or pocket money. Adult, if you behave in this way, a girl thinks that is hiding behind your “kindness” something weird and not natural. Today, when you pay a lot of things to a girl (like for example meals or drinks) she thinks that you do this to get her sexual favors. Not only is it often the case (so it’s manipulation), but it communicates that YOU + MONEY = SHE (so you are inferior).

 

The solution ?

The solution is to carry out a self-improvment process, to don’t confuse kindness and weakness: one can be strong and firm in his choices, polite and respectful, while being nice (cf non-violent communication). The goal is to assume your condition of sexual being and no longer try to “hide” it for fear of being judged and rejected just like you probably judge yourself and repress yourself.

 

Kindness and Alphaness

Raj of La Gouaille says that it is useless to be an alpha male to seduce because he meets success by being very nice, very soft and slightly effeminate. In fact, I think there is a misunderstanding in the definition.

In fact, to seduce more girls, the alpha features are very effective. And even Raj has some, even if he does not notice it. However, where he is right is that being an alpha is not being a Rambo. I hate guys who make dick contests and yet it is commonplace in the community of seduction.

I now recall the alpha features: assurance, popularity, authority in a domain, serenity, combativity, being exciting emotionally (Raj has these features). There is also the beauty, the strength, the dynamism, the fact of being fun…

People must stop blaming the pick-up artist, the true PUA are not big assholes. And even if they were initially, they have changed in a good way through their personal development process. Those that I like are those who have an ethic, who remain humble, because that means that the game has been beneficial and healthy for them.

 

To conclude on the kindness

Forcing yourself to be nice usually ends up rotting relationships because the person who forces to be kind does it to get something. If this person does not get this thing, he or she accumulates frustration. If this person gets it, it may change his or her behavior after… 🙁

When one is nice, people are often bastards in return. I noticed it by helping for free guys with their game. Once they become kinda good, many get big-headed and bite the hand that launched them. I think it’s a reaction to do not having to feel grateful. Fortunately, it is not the case of all but it happens regularly… That’s why I work less and less for free, although I continue to give a lot of things on my blog. In any case, I was quite disappointed by the human in general.

All this brings me to an interesting question: are people who look nice, really nice? Or is it because they can not afford to be “nasty”?

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Well, we should fuck together to celebrate!

September 24th 2015,

In order to have a facebook account a little more credible in Lyon, I decided to add few people each day, meticulously chosen randomly. Yesterday I attacked an event for an Erasmus party.

As an answer, instead of the usual « do we know each other? » or « who r u? » (for which I have prepared a ready-made answer) I have, for once, received the following message from a polite and cute Polish: “Hi, how are you? :)” With the smileys and everything. Seriously. Fuck, I have a theory on smileys: when a conversation begins like this, it’s that the girl is adorable, open-minded and wants to blow my dick!

I answered that I was fine. It was a lie… because I am suffering a kind of fucking bronchitis for a few days: it burns me in the chest and I spit mucus out. But hey, it’s a hard sell, so I’d rather say I’m OK.

Meanwhile she liked all my photos like a little crazy little girl under ecstacy. I asked her what she had done today (she went to her psycho class and worked online in the evening to earn money in Poland) and she asked me the same question: “I went to work too, then acupuncture and there I’m just back home… and I’m picking you up!
– you are crazy in positive way 🙂
– luckily I speak English to understand you. I have holes in my arms to testify to my acupuncture session… I’ll show you, one of these days
– OK it may be interesting
– Where do you live in Lyon?”

Turning point : she replied that she lives at one metro stop from me. She told me she thought she would need five to eight minutes to come to my place. I dared to say (a little bit by consciousness but I wished a little she did not come because I was tired) “great, since I’m going to take a shower and you’re next to me, why you would not come and take it with me?
– Today ??!
– I do not know, why not ?! It is spontaneous.
– Not today I have to work »

I negotiated that she could come and go back to work after but she did not want to. What a serious girl ! She made promises for Saturday night instead (which only bind those who listen to them like those of my boss): “Forgive me but when we meet on Saturday we do a lot of spontaneous things I promise
– I did not understand, are you coming tonight? Do I wait for you to shower?
– No I stay at my apartment
– come on stay one hour here, it would be soooo cool, so spontaneous, you can work then… I have to wake up early tomorrow too
– Ok I will for 30 minutes on you. What is your address? Or phone number?”

It seemed a bit too easy even though she still asked me to pick her up at the exit of the metro station (because she has only arrived in France for 5 days and does not know the city). I went there, leaving my wallet at home, we never know. A lot of things were turning in my head. I wondered for example if it would not be a trap and if 4 Slovaks were not going to fall on me ??! Then I said to myself she maybe feared the same. And that there were perhaps objectively more risks for her than for me… so I hailed her spirit of adventure and I assumed totally.

Finally showed her teeth, a nana really not bad, hot, tall: one head taller than me, at least! Fine and muscular. As I often say, nerves pays off! Even more embarrassed than me, she laughed all the time. She spoke an approximate English and a little bit of French, so we managed to communicate lightly and amusingly but it was difficult: I no longer counted the times when she answered my questions in a bad way. I did not really say much, so I made her talk, but she told me at one point “your English is very good”… it made me laugh. That is the power of active listening !!!

I then took her home as agreed but she asked me in the elevator what we were going to do. I took a surprised face and replied like if it was obvious “well, we’re going to take a shower, right?
– ahhhh I thought it was a joke. I cannot I have my periods. Can we sit down and discuss, maybe?
– OK, do you want a glass of water?
– Yes. » I took her hand to guide her to the sofa. She tighten my hand, good point.

I learned during this constructive conversation that she is 21 years old and is a yoga teacher in Poland… so she taught me the sun salution. Then she looked a little at my books and especially liked those related to meditation, Buddhism, etc. She also liked my books on psychology: she told me she is a great manipulator, the demon personified… I replied that I am just a nice communicant. I thus stopped this unhealthy thing she tried to start. Funny thing, we have the same astrological sign: she was born on February 16th and me on the 17th! “Well, we should fuck together to celebrate!”

Throughout the interaction, I did not lose my objective of sight, I did not let it go, I told her that I was a French… so she should not be angry with me for being very sexual. She replied that she never did anything with her period. I insisted, she said “you’re a real man” with stars full her eyes. There, I knew it was won: she resisted but she liked it. Chicks often do that !!! So I read the language of their bodies which communicates better their desires than their words. And then: I put the pressure! We kissed just after that. With the tongue. She also took my fingers to put them in her mouth and mimed a fucking hot blowjob. She was unleashed. So I logically fiddled and licked her breasts… in the beginning she pushed my hand away and then began to moan saying that it is the part of her body she prefers. Must say that they are pretty big and firm and that her pink nipples are pretty. Then, when she was a little more excited, the master stroke: I took out my cock and she gave me a handjob. I passed my hand at the same time on her panties and made inappropriate comments like “you’re all wet
– I’m wondering why
– not my fault anyway, you probably imagine things…
– yes that’s it”(approximative dialogue : my memory was cut when I ejaculated.)

What worked well is to alternate the hot and the cold: I acted like a fucking sex predator but I calmed her down by my words : I told her we were just friends, that I did not see what she was talking about when she said she thought I was taking too much initiatives. The emotions being contagious: if it seemed normal to me to do so, I hoped that it would positively influence her. That was the plan! As explained in The (inconvenient) truth about gender relations. And it worked, holly shit!

Then I told her I could make her come without penetrating her, only with my tongue. It was a bit like a challenge. She did not let me try because it disgusted her to do that with her river flowing red, but by persistence, I could play with her clit with my fingertip. She Frenchkissed me during this time and finally begged me to finger her. Well, she really had her period seen in what condition my fingers came out from there. She’s not a liar, it’s a good thing!

After we talked a little. She wants us to meet up again to totally have sex. I don’t know. I walked her to the metro as she kindly asked me. This is the proof that I am a gentleman and not an asshole.

Finally quiet, around 1am, I watched the replay of Castle drinking a honey/lemon tea and I fell asleep like an international fucker.

This afternoon, I skyped with my parents: I learned that my brother, this dirty sucker, has given news to my parents. His wife, this obese formless slutty, did not go back to work after her maternity leave (we suspected that she would do that) so they have no money anymore… then they talk to my parents whom they have send to Hell like shits one year ago saying that the old ones do not serve any more (after having all the same even cheerfully asked them €8000)… normal! Then, now, they want to sell this fucking house, the one they were told not to buy, for which I spent several days last winter retaping it with my father: it remains a ruin that collapses… and there are plenty of vices hidden everywhere. Anyway, we were right on most things and this consanguine eyes closer who is my half-brother is just realizing it. But with me, he was such an asshole that if he wants me to forgive him, he’ll have to make some big effort. My father will eat with him tomorrow but I don’t buy his shit, me… I want to be a Buddhist, but there are limits! I’m keeping a close watch.

But I have a lot of other worries like my dilemma between sending my boss to Hell and finding another job because he is a big liar, a bastard, a slave-driver or playing the good little soldier and just saying “yes” while doing what I want. In any case, all my nice colleagues are pissed off and  want to leave, it’s a total shit here. I’m not sure it’s livable in the long run…

May the God of the Game help us !

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Indicators that show a girl is interested

Indicators that show a girl is interested

Indicators that show a girl is interestedIn the community of seduction, a sign of interest is called IOI (indicator of interest).

A woman (just like a man) can send you a sign of interest voluntarily to encourage you to pick her up and show you that she wants you… but one does not always control his body nor his emotions, so she can also send IOI unintentionally (usually it’s involuntary when they are signs of nervousness and excitement) and thus reveal her emotional state.

In addition, an IOI can be verbal or non-verbal… In other words, a sign of interest can be a gesture or a word.

Caution

There are an endless list of signs of interest that can be interpreted differently depending on the context. That’s why, Mystery (a famous PUA) advises waiting until you have detected three signs of interest before trying a kissclose.

But be careful, waiting for signs of interest before you take initiatives can make you lose girls, especially if you are a beginner who does not really trust his judgment (a girl usually gets bored sending IOI after a while if the guy does not act and loses her attraction for him).

Moreover, some girls do not even know how to make a signal and/or are conditioned to wait for the man to do all the work. With this kind of girl, you will never have any sign of interest: the signs of interest are therefore a security that one can not always afford. So, know that basically, a sign of interest can simply be the absence of disinterest: if the girl does not grasp any excuse to leave (eg “joining her friends”), it is already very well !

You can nevertheless have fun provoking signs of interest (or disinterest) thanks to the compliance test (see my video on the subject). However, basically, the only sign of interest you really need is that she stays with you when you take initiatives. If she was not yet convinced by your strengths, being straightforward can raise the temperature up a notch and create the rest of the attraction. Otherwise, chances are it would not work anyway.

 

The main verbal signs of interest:

*She compliments you a little on everything and anything

*She’s involved in conversation, enthusiastic

*She laughs at your jokes/comments, even when it’s bad

*She seems to force herself to say that she appreciates the same things you do

*She lists what you could do together in the future, she tests your availability. Technique: you can also test and casually evoke another date to see her reaction and if she likes the idea

*She asks you personal questions

*She feeds the conversation. Technique: after a while, you can let the conversation die to see if it will try to fill the void

*She talks about your potential girlfriend (in order to know if you actually have one) and/or shows her affectivo-sexual availability

*She asks you for your Facebook, your phone number or proposes to see her again (this is a big IOI)

*She tries to impress you in a domain where she feels that you understand her, she seeks your validation in general

*She teases you (see if there are other IOI to confirm)

*She acts like a child (sulk, laughs at everything and nothing)

*If you are in a group, her attention is focused on you

* She whispers with her friends by looking at you (in association with other IOI)

 

The main non-verbal signs of interest:

*She touches you when she speaks. And sometimes, when she touches you, she lets her hand on you a little more than necessary. You can touch her and she is not afraid of the proximity

*She caresses your hand or answers by doing the same thing when you caress her

*She clears her face by passing her hand through her hair or she plays with/eats her hair (see if there are other IOI to confirm)

*Her body is oriented towards you

*She looks you in the eyes (and maintains the eye contact)

*She touches her face or neck in a somewhat sensual way by looking at you

*She synchronizes with you. She copies you in terms of: posture, volume and flow of speech, breathing, laughing…

*She plays with a phallic object between her fingers

*She smiles at you, a real smile

*Her pupils widen when she looks at you in the eyes

*She shows her wrist(s), caressing one or her bracelet

*She moistens her lips, shows her tongue or passes it on her lips or her teeth

*She prepares and dresses well to show herself at her best when she comes to see you

 

Some indicators of disinterest:

*She does not feed the conversation (closed answers, very short, in a single word)

*Her arms are crossed in front of her chest, her legs are crossed on the ankles (the opening of her body is, on the contrary, generally a sign of interest)

*When you turn to her, she leans back (moves away from you)

*She does not put her assets in value (especially her chest)

*She never glances at you

*She looks at the time and pretext that she should not leave too late (but this may be true so always check if there are others IOI or not)

 

Conclusion

Learn the different signs of interest and then forget about them. You do not have to spend your life counting IOI, especially as it is not an exact science but rather an indicator (so it’s more comfort than a trigger in my opinion). Anyway, a bit of behavioralism can not hurt a player. You must ultimately learn to feel instinctively when a girl is interested (your brain will have assimilated the IOI and will process this data automatically).

When in doubt, always prefer to try your luck rather than listening to your inner voice that would tell you to stay in your comfort zone. Because even a failure makes us grow.

Come on, give the girls a little fun, sell them some dream if you have received a lot of IOI. If you are flooded with IOI, lay them against a wall to kiss them wildly! 😉

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Can we make a girl come the first time we fuck her?

Can we make a girl come the first time we fuck herI’m sharing with you today what a friend told me on Facebook… because it’s REALLY edifying:

“I was discussing the other day with 3 girls about the first sexual intercourse between a man and a woman.

They told me that it is impossible to make any girl orgasm the first time we have sex with because they are all different (unlike the men for whom a handjob is enough).

They told me that it took time and that it was necessary to know the girl to give her an orgasm.

Still, I always managed to make a chick come without problem (I think they are more or less all the same too).

But they did not believe me and asked me if I was really sure that the babes in question did not simulate.”

Then, my friend asked me the following question: “So, is the problem that the other guys are bad in bed ? I often hear this speech ie it is not possible to make all the girls come the first time we sleep with them because they are different.”

I regularly hear the same thing in the mouths of the chicks (when there is not my dick inside): so it is a very common speech that needs to be analyzed.

In short, it means two things. First of all, that these chicks (like most people) have a crappy sexual life and they think it’s inevitable (or they do not even realize it, I do not know what is the worst). Then, that indeed, the great majority of the dudes are bad in bed. I will now answer with more detail the issues raised by this exchange with my buddy.

 

1/ Can we make a girl come the first time we fuck her?

It is possible to make almost any girl with whom you sleep orgasm, even the first time, if she is in a right mindset. Part of the job is to put them at ease.

The babes who say they need love or to have feelings to enjoy, are either:
– girls who have a blockage in their mind (guilt with regard to free sex, too much stress or fear);
– girls who have never been properly fucked (nor properly made comfortable before bed);
– girls who have never tried to get out of their preconceived sexual schema and talk about what they do not know or say that shit to reassure themselves.

The worst are those who judge the sexual freedom of other women, of those that have fin “she has fun and experiments with strangers so she is a whore”. With such a state of mind, it is obvious that they can not have fun themselves.

I am making come about 9/10 girl with whom I sleep… and YES, I am sure because I can recognize the signs of orgasm. For example, when I lick a girl, I have a hand on her belly that makes me feel her spasms. Then, in general, I have two fingers in her vagina that tighten around to compress them when she is coming. Finally, I listen to her breathing and what she tells me… it is for example classic that girls tighten their legs when the orgasm approaches, especially if the loss of control scares them.

This is not about being modest or not (I’m tired of justifying myself)… I only notice that 90% of girls enjoy with good preliminaries (fingers + tongue). And that when it is not enough, a good endurance on a good rhythm in a doggy style or a friction of clitoris in amazon are generally enough.

 

2/ Are the girls all different in bed?

Yes, just like are all men. However, they are not totally different either: an adaptation of the techniques I have just mentioned is enought in most cases. I know people like feeling unique and different so I’m sorry to have broken one more taboo but someone has to kick the anthill.

 

3/ Do feelings make sex better?

Love can make sex better, it’s a fact. However, there is no need for love for sex to be good. And sometimes the excitement of having sex with an unknown or realizing a fantasy can make sex even better than anything you can imagine. So, do not tell me that sex without love has no interest…

It depends mainly on the sexual connection between people. However, sometimes, even if people are in love, it is not at the rendezvous (but it can be there with a total unknown).

 

4/ Is a handjob enough to please a guy?

I find it a little presumptuous and condescending to say that any girl can make any man enjoy without any effort. Yet it is a recurring belief amongst women.

Nevertheless with me, if the handjob is well made and I’m excited, why not. But here again, nothing is universal.

The handjob on a guy would be the equivalent of a fingering on the G-spot + a clit-caressing on a girl… except that it is way less technical to masturbate a man than to masturbate a woman.

 

5/ Is the problem that the other guys are bad legs?

If one says to a girl that one is a good lover, she generally won’t believe him (at least in France). And that says a lot about their shitty sex life.

They will say bullshit like “It is those who speak the most who practice the least”. Or they’ll say, “You’re a braggart, if you feel the need to say that it’s you’re surely compensating for something”.

Such a state of mind (even if it is a shit-test) reveals that they basically think that one guy is a loser in bed… until proven otherwise. There is no presumption of innocence.

It would be nice if the chicks stop looking at us all a sex-starved dogs. If there were fewer bad sex-starved bad legs (who don’t care or who think they are good), it would not happen like that. But it became the norm (by the force of the number) and the good legs undergo the general incredulity as described by my buddy.

As a result, I think most dude are actually bad and/or selfish in bed and that is the part of the problem on which we SHOULD act. Because if the women were more or less sure to orgasm like crazy without being judged, they would be less fierce and less reluctant to sleep on the first night. At the moment, even most of those who pretend to be good are not, if they do not fall into real good lovers, their limiting beliefs are reinforced until frustration.

I speak knowingly because I was one of those guys bad in bed. Except that I did not really notice it. It is by reading and thanks to the experience that I gained thanks to the Game that I realized it.

However, since most people are not able to follow a personal development process (it takes effort, questioning and open-mindedness), I think they are not good… not more than I was when I started the Game.

 

If I summarize: when one says that one sleeps with a lot of girls and makes the chicks come, one is necessarily a braggart, a liar. Or, a sucker with who chicks simulate to finish faster. But if you do not say anything, you’re considered just like the other guys (which is not better).

We should be able to communicate subtly that we are a good leg, except that the chicks rarely leave us time and are all far from being subtle enough to understand this kind of message.

The only solution is to rehabilitate the population, the part that does not have the relationship they would like with sex. Here are my latest tips:
– Guys must read books like The awesome lover’s manual.
– Women (and guys who start thinking like them) should open their minds and experience to realize how good sex can be. It is a thesis that I support in The (inconvenient) truth about gender relations : go take a look at the free extract!

I hope that this text, if it did not make you want to change your vision of things, will have at least made you think.

See you soon !