Month: March 2017

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How to make someone fall in love?

 

How to make someone fall in loveLove passion exists in all cultures. It is the conception of love that differs from people to people.

In the “developed” countries, one bathes in a culture of influence: for example, one undergoes daily brainwashing through advertising. Advertising has the goal of making us want to buy by stimulating our desire. So there are ways to create a certain desire among people… and let’s not forget that the love passion is a great desire.

In France, the word “love” is used indifferently and the society tells us that we may be a loser, if we find love, we will be happy and will become a winner because love is the remedy for everything. But in Greek there are nuances which would be very useful to us. Philia, for example, is the love within the meaning of friendship. Eros, on the other hand, really refers to the passion of love: the passion that makes one feels a lack when not with the loved person, that makes one think he or she cannot live without the other one.

Advertising also tries to create a lack in us, and this gap would be filled of course by buying products and not by having sex (although in the pyramid of Maslow, one sees that sexuality is one of the main desires that allow blossom).

Freud said that sexuality is an impulse, but that society is constructed to prevent its fulfillment. But it has not always been the case! In some societies, like in Babylon, sexuality made civilization. Young girls from good families had the right to marry only after having made love with a foreign visitor (see Herodotus’ works). It is a different vision of sex because, in our case, we value the purity of the woman. And we even managed to persuade many women that this is what they want! In general, women adore the idea of ​​a sexually freed woman (like Samantha in Sex and the City), but only when it does not concern themselves.

We will start on the basis in this article that when we want to make someone fall in love, we talk about Eros. In any case, it seems to me to be the basis of everything because, among the Eros relations, some naturally become Philia.

So, how to trigger love?

In our modern culture, one would be tempted to say that a guy who makes people fall in love voluntarily is a manipulative bastard. For us, “it must happen all by itself”, it is “destiny” (and not a sheer coincidence) and there would be only one person out of the seven billion on Earth who would suit us.

On the other hand, sorcerers, shamans, marabouts, can create love (according to them). In India or Africa, it is normal to believe in spells or love potions, etc. If so many people believe that love can be triggered, I think there are things to be done!

However, loving passion is often seen in these cultures as a madness that metamorphoses, but not necessarily as something positive… rather like a madness in the wrong sense. In our culture, I think people want to “fall” in love because they dream of metamorphosing themselves or of filling a gap through love (lack often created by society itself). More and more people are atheists, leaving an extra gap… and those people try to fill their lack of gods by inventing gods who are not gods like famous footballers but feel a lack deep inside because they feel that something’s wrong).

In the old world, to make someone fall in love, one could:

1 / Use gods.

2 / Use objects such as the love apple, animated with blood or perfumes (depending on the recipe). Then one had to name people related by magic and seal the spell. Then, of course, make the target eat the apple.

And in the modern world, what to do to make someone fall in love?

1/ Promise the metamorphosis. So many women have told their psychoanalyst they were in love… it is because these guys promised them a change inside!

2/ Never say “I wish you want me”: do not be needy and avoid the one-itis. (For more explanations, see my book The basics of seduction!)

3/ One can use a go-between: like the monk in Romeo and Juliet who plays the matchmaker and suggests love to the two characters. What is powerful is to give birth to the idea of ​​the possibility of love. (Who said « hope » ?)

4/ Choose the moment: melancholic or sad people (such as after a bereavement) are more likely to fall in love… because they are in a phase of metamorphosis. They are weaker and have the desire to rebuild themselves, which makes them more receptive to the idea of ​​love.

5/ Summon the modern gods (in a church, mosque, synagogue, etc.) We no longer believe in these things in our cultures but they have already helped many people in history so these beliefs probably have an effective power.

6/ The Game: the community of seduction will allow you to become more alpha, to improve your communication and to be better in bed. This will cause more women to fall under your spell and will make them want to stay close to you through the attachment hormones released during orgasm. (If you are interested in this theory, read The (inconvenient) truth about gender relations.)

Women are afraid of being judged, are stressed at the idea of ​​meeting someone, are afraid that the guy is not a good lover, they are afraid of not being good enough in bed, fear of losing control, fear of being thought of as whores, are afraid of their “animal side”, etc. But if one deactivates these various obstacles and their social conditioning, one can easily get laid… and from there, make them fall in love.

Indeed, women can unconsciously force themselves to fall in love with the guys with whom they have slept because they are put under pressure by society (“you cannot sleep with too many guys because if you do so you’re a whore”). It is the principle of coherence that is at work here.

They can also force themselves to fall in love because of their genetic programming (before, when they slept with a guy, they risked 6 months of pregnancy so had to retain the man to have access to his resources). Since there is contraception: washed it can be used again… but this obsolete genetic programming is still working on us. (For more information, read Evopsy & Séduction!)

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The quality of German girls

“It’s a German one !” pub Opel Claudia Schiffer

Previously:

Remember the German girl I had met in Aix, during an NPU session with Hafid.

He had opened in a downtown bar that smells like piss with “do you know Fabrice?
– No !
– It’s him…” and then I told her, directly,”I love you!
– I love you too.”

We stayed vaguely in touch after that night, meeting sometimes in the bars. But I never fucked her, because when I added her on FaceBook, she got frightened when read my adventures on my blog.

Then, at the end of the semester, she had returned to Germany and we lost contact.

December 19th 2015,

On Monday, I published an article saying that I was currently living in Lyon. So the pretty Aryan came talking to me on FaceBook to tell me she was there too for a few months! So I invited her to have a glass of wine at my house last night in memory of the good old days. I made it clear that the idea of ​​seeing her again made me happy… and it was true. She replied that they have a saying in Germany, which could be translated as “we always meet someone twice”.

Last night she came to my house. We drank a glass of rosé around my table then she said “I guess we would be more comfortable on your bed…” I nodded. She wanted to listen to French songs and that I explained the lyrics to her. Seriously, she knew neither Ferré, nor Gainsbourg nor Orelsan. Just a little bit Brel! On the other hand, she loves Soprano.

On the bed, I started caressing her, putting my hand under her clothes, but she always pushed me away. Fuck, I had not worked on the Last Minute Resistances for a while. When I confronted her, she said, “I did not come for that, you know.”

This little game lasted over an hour before she decided “I’ll leave now, it’s time for the last subway”. I kindly pointed out to her that it was she who wanted to meet up again and who wanted to go on my bed… and so I found her a little incoherent.

Then I kissed her. But she did not really open her mouth. I asked her to explain what the problem was. There were actually three problems :
– 1/ I have principles, I am not a girl like that, we do not know each other very well, it goes too fast, I did not come for that.
– 2/ I have a guy here, not a boyfriend, but he likes me and I do not want to hurt him, plus I slept with him yesterday.
– 3/ I read your blog, you surely have diseases seen all the girls with whom you have slept, I do not want to take the risk, besides you drink too much and go out all the time.

So I proposed to show her my last test of STD while explaining to her that I do not drink any more and only go out once a week now. At this moment, it was too late for the last subway. However, even after seeing the doctor’s signature, she objected “I do not believe it anyway, I cannot trust you.”

She pissed me off seriously. I was upset, really. I never lie on my blog, I never say bad things about the chicks with whom I sleep and I’m still thought of as an asshole. Just because I give love and pleasure to babes who deserve it, it’s unfair…

That said, after seeing the test, she opened her mouth a little more when I kissed her. Then our tongues played together as I touched her pussy over her jeans. I felt it was wet down there so I told her she wanted me. She began by denying. Then, in a burst of honesty, agreed “I’m tempted.”  Before asking, “Is it going to be good?
– I think so, I hope so… [the trap here would have been to play the too confident guy]
– I’m very demanding, you know.
– Me too [easy answer to this type of shit-test]
– One day in Aix, you told me you are the best French, is it true?”
– I said that ?! I don’t know but I’m probably not the worst…
– And was the captain really your cousin?
– No, I admit, but it was fun to make you believe it…
– We really cannot trust you. And Hafid?
– Hafid? He’s not my cousin, did I tell you that?
– No, it was he who told me that! But I did not believe him because he doesn’t look like you!”

In fact, she had a bad image of me: I do not respect girls, I have a new one in my bed every night, etc. What is wrong, of course, let’s be realistic.

Then Leo, the stuffed leopard (as naughty as Ted) who lives on my bed kissed her and it made her laugh. More relaxed, she asked “Can we close the blinds?” I did it. “Could you turn off the light?” Yes. “Turn down the music?” OK.

We kissed and she really transformed, she started to warm me and to shake my cock. After, I licked her and she orgasmed. Then she asked me “do you have a thing?
– a thing ?
– yes a…
– a condom ?
– Yes, I want to sleep with you now.
– OK.” One does not argue in those moments.

We fucked in missionary position a long time, then she came on me, before finishing with a doggy style. Her little pussy was very tight and totally shaved. Two or three times, she came hard then asked for breaks to recover. It was touching. And also exciting: she shouted very loudly with her little cute accent.

Afterwards, she slept in my arms. But before going to bed, she cleaned my apartment and made the bed, it made me laugh! Ahlala, they are awesome these Germans… Me I had carelessly thrown the condom down but she erased all traces.

At one point, she said “I like you better now, I did not have that good image of you”. Must know that I do not have anything selfish as some think, I give a lot in bed, we really share something, and it creates a bond. What makes me say that among those who flaked me at the last moment, most would have been very happy to have made the effort to come and enjoy like crazy. I always look demanding, in this position of fucker, but in the end, I think I really offer something valuable.

In short, I took out the violins: I told her that I was glad to have slept with her too, that I wanted her for two and a half years and that it was a good Christmas gift she allowed me to unpack. She replied “then next year I will offer you another one!” She was funny. Until this morning, I was very attentive with her. She, she complimented me on my performance in bed and told me that it was nice, that I had done well to have insisted, that she was finally happy. She concluded, “Honestly it was not bad when you stroked my legs and breasts over my clothes even if I pushed you away, it’s always better to do more than less.” This will be the conclusion of this story.

Otherwise, good news, it pissed me off to look for a new job because there is always at least 30 minutes of subway for all those I found. So, I asked a wage increase to my boss… and he accepted! He respects me a minimum! Cool.

May the God of the Game be with you!

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Who’s most romantic, the man or the woman?

Who’s most romantic

People generally think that women are more romantic than men. That she is the one who suffers the most because of these bastards who only think with their cocks! In short, people think that men are brutes without feeling that make poor little fragile women suffer.

But this popular belief is totally wrong, just like the majority of ideas about seduction. People talk a lot about it, without being educated on this subject. It proves that it is ignorance that dominates when one speaks of seduction among friends.

I, too, at the beginning, was formatted by the media and romantic comedies, so I told myself that each romantic guy that I met was an exception and that every cynical chick was an exception too. But, after many years on the field meeting women and coaching guys, the doubt seized me.

Be aware that most guys who read my blog or subscribe to my Youtube channel want to build something with a good girl. They feel really misunderstood by women and often unfairly judged. Many men also suffer because live a one-itis situation (sickly obsession with a girl) or because they have been friendzonned by the chosen of their heart.

And the studies carried out by serious institutes confirm my observations:

– According to an IFOP survey, 70% of the guys would be ready to wish a good Valentine’s Day to their girlfriend, compared to only 62% of the women to their guy. 56% of guys will give a gift, compared with only 46% of women.

– 20% of men reported feeling in love at the 4th date against 15.8% of women. After 20 date, 70% declared that they were in love, compared with 57% of women. (Source: Pr Nicolas Guéguen)

– 48% of men reported having already fallen in love at the first sight compared to only 28% of women (Source: The Normal Bar).

You can of course search on the Internet to check that I’m not bullshiting you.

So, the bottom line is that we have to be wary of received ideas. And especially when it comes to seduction… because they are numerous!

The problem is that it is a taboo subject, that few people have been seriously sensitized for this topic, but that each one talks as soon as an opportunity arises and thus contributes to propagate cretinism.

So be careful, and use your critical mind: remember, it’s not because a newspaper, a show or a blog that has a huge audience says something that it is more true than what says a guy who has done extensive research but has a limited audience.

Be aware that I have dismantled many other received ideas about the seduction and the community of pick-up artists in my ebook The basics of seduction, (you can read the free extract here).

See you soon !

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The basics of seduction

What most seduction coaches will never tell you… And how you can finally start making out with women you desire !!!

If, at the moment, you feel frustrated because you’re not able to sleep with women you really like… then what I’m going to talk about should help you!

But, before getting into the heart of the matter, let me ask you one simple question :

« Have you ever wondered what makes a man seductive? »

All the guys who had problems with women and who have become real seducers have necessarily asked this question one day or another.

If you have already asked yourself, you must have done a lot of research on the Internet and discovered a multitude of sites talking about seduction/pick-up. Very quickly, you have read many articles, seen videos but got quickly lost in the mass of available information…

The problem is that too many sites speak of seduction as something mysterious or complicated and that this “overflow of information” causes all the seductive apprentices to lose a lot of time, energy and money. Some become discouraged quickly without even accessing to the true power of the knowledge of the seduction community.

What most of the coaches will never tell you is that seduction is based on simple principles. Things that help you not screwing up when you meet an attractive woman. By using these principles, you will no longer wonder how to become more attractive because you will know it, you will simply wonder what points you need to further improve.

These principles are exactly what I am going to talk about now!

The basic principles of seduction are the principles on which you must lean to progress in your quest and finally become a seducer or a Pick-Up Artist… whether your goal is to sleep with as many women as possible, following the principles is imperative if you want to succeed!

Once you have discovered them, you will enjoy a huge advantage over most other guys who do not understand and will never understand why they struggle with women. By knowing these implicit rules, you will have a clear vision, a mental map of how you can become more attractive.

Before I say more, I will tell you a bit about my career…

My name is Fabrice Julien and here you can see me with some of my « friends »…

I do not like bragging but to give you a glimpse of the power of the game: know that I am a former phobic social but that I now fuck about 4-5 NEW women per month (despite my full-time job in an accounting office). And, no, they are not ugly… as you can see on the pictures.

MORE IMPORTANT, I have coached many men who also, from now on, have the sexual and sentimental life they want! They no longer fail with women, they are sexually confident and have understood that if a woman rejects them, it is she who loses the most!

 

Here is a small overview of the many testimonials that have been sent to me:

« Thanks to you, I went from ghost to fuckable for some … I love your work, I am big fan! » Stéphane

« …as if several doors were unlocking at once! » Alexandre

« Thank you for your impressive work full of realism and efficiency. Indeed in recent years I have been interested in personal development (pnl, hypnosis, social psychology, etc.) and until then none of the ebooks I have read about seduction had been as simple and effective as what you propose. I finally found the motivation to get my fingers out of my… » Clément

 

Yet I have not always been a good seducer, I was far away from someone who could give advice to others about sex…

I have already told it on my blog : it happened to me when I was young to sleep with babes without daring to try anything, it also happened to me to suffer because I was in the friendzone… for a long time, I felt short, fat and ugly. Then I discovered the community of seduction. The idea was good but I have lost a lot of time unraveling the truth from the false (must admit that there is a lot of crap on the Internet). Then I identified the basic principles that allowed me to get a simple framework for progress. And see where I am today…

Again, these principles did not work only for me, I used them to improve the sexual and sentimental life of many men: some thought they were too small, too fat, too tall, too poor, too [insert your shitty excuse here]…

If you are reading this page, you probably have a goal. You may want to sleep with more women or to live a serious relationship. Unfortunately, if you do not do anything concrete, you will probably end up alone or even worse with a woman “you don’t really like”…

If you do not want to end up in one of his situations, it is essential that you work on the basics of seduction. Thanks to these fundamentals, you will become more seductive, little by little you will become more confident and no longer worry about whether you are going to die alone or not.

The principles I am talking about, I included them in a guide entitled “The Basics of Seduction”. You will discover the fundamentals of seduction and pick-up. These are basic principles that set a framework, and are meant to prevent you from messing up. Knowing these rules makes it possible to better understand the phenomenon, and to make much more judicious and effective choices. Whether your goal is to find love, be happy or multiply conquests (or all of them at once), the better you know the rules of the game, the more you increase your chances of success.

In this guide you will find :

– What a term means, what technique is used for what and on what principles we are based to act like this or that.

– The various obstacles you may encounter along the way and that could slow down your path to excellence in seduction. Perhaps you have already met some of them and have suffered for lack of advice…

– The techniques, the principles and the jargon of the seduction science. You will not feel totally lost in the community of seduction anymore!

The objective is that your sex and love life improves concretely! So it is not a collection of recipes and crap nor contradictory stuff. It is actually a good working basis that will help you, for example, overcoming your fear of rejection and your approach anxiety! I will inject you a good dose of my experience as intravenous !!!

Be careful, I see you coming. Some will tell me “it’s okay, but I was not born from the last rain, so why would I need the basics of seduction?”

Well, first of all, because even I, who now have the rank of pick-up artist, it was good for me to review the basics. It allowed me to take a step back and dust off some of the knowledge that I had left aside for a little while, to see some tricks from a new light, and so on.

 

Then, because it is not only about the “basics” strictly speaking in this book. All you have to do is download the free extract (click here) to realize that I included reflections that I have not written anywhere else.

 

Finally, because this PDF costs only €7 ! This is negligible !!! It’s 75% cheaper than my other ebooks and yet this book is no shorter or worse.

My goal in offering this guide at such a low price is that you enjoy it and that it makes you want to find out my other products. So, at that price, you have nothing to lose… Trust me and I’m sure you will be pleasantly surprised by the quality of the content…

So, if you feel like it, buy this book and do not hesitate to read it several times because it will resonate each time differently in you… and it could cause new clicks in a month, in a year, depending on where you will have succeeded in your own personal adventure (because yes, in my opinion, learning seduction is a branch of personal development)…

I wish you as much success as I have thanks to the Game (and even more, why not!)

 

Your buddy,

Fabrice Julien

 

PS : some more testimonials…

 « You give very good advice. » Laurens

« You’re a little god, guy, keep going like that » Baptiste

« Great job » Marco

« Your PDFs have allowed me to take a step forward in my mind and to mobilize my energy during a party. It unlocked me! » Alonehero

« Very interesting thank you! You are one of the best French dating coaches » Mathieu

« Thank you for your clarity of mind! » Guy

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I witnessed the filming of a porn scene

porn scene

I witnessed the filming of a porn sceneDecember 14th 2015,

This weekend, I went to the erotic show with the Nice Giant.

We witnessed the filming of a porn scene between Kelly Pix and Tony Caliano: I found it impersonal and awful. Frankly, it was devoid of sensuality: the guy arrived on stage with a huge hard cock, fucked, the bitch squirted and they left (the guy was still hard).

Then, as Barney often does, I wanted to try to pay myself a lap dance. It was pretty cool even if I did not get hard!

Finally, we wanted to approach the chicks but there were not many in the audience, only couples or alone guys. We still found two or three but they were not receptive. We also asked strippers for their phone numbers but there was their PIMP next door so they said they did not have the right.

As a consequence, I had a lot of sexual energy when we went out with the LAIR on Saturday night. But I also had a fucking virus. No matter what, we were still hung out into the street by approximately -150°C. We really should lose that habit! The only fun thing of the night was when I asked two chicks who were dancing together « will you kiss each other afterwards? » And they kissed. Then “are you going to kiss me now?” They did it.

Yesterday morning, a friend from Aix that I kissed in clubs and who nevertheless had a boyfriend in the United States sent me a snap of her in underwear. It was so good that my finger slipped on screenshot. It drove her crazy! Lol!

Otherwise, a little more than one week ago, I spoke on Adopteunmec with a little girl. It was by the way she who had sent the first message, and frankly, I find it exciting !

“Wow, I have to admit that your profile has surprised me, but I liked it! Because you take position for the sexual freedom of the woman and, for a man, I find it quite awesome (for having discussed dozens and dozens of times with lots of men, I can say it is rare!)! Also, I find it funny that you have no taboo about sex, not because I have many, but I don’t know, I find it cool! Well, even if you’re not especially interested, I just wanted to tell you because I find you cool!”

« Hello Tiph! Thank you, it’s very kind of you to write to me! Why wouldn’t I be interested : you write correctly, you have a nice name, you’re vegetarian and you feel like testing me in bed? Kisses »

« It’s not out of kindness, I just find it cool, what you’re talking about ^^ Lol you get into the heart of the matter directly! Well OK, you inspire me, so I have a feeling 😉 »

“It’s not in the heart of the matter that I want to get lol. Thank you for this compliment, I also have a feeling, so you will have to come to my place.”

“That’s okay;) This week I’ve my exams so it’s a little bit hard for me but if you can wait until next week it’s OK^^”

And from this moment, no more news… it was not very academic as a game to let this silence like that but I was lazy to feed the conversation and I was busy.

I did nevertheless, the day before yesterday, around 11 pm, without believing much into it : “So are you coming tomorrow?” Yesterday, around 4 pm, I received: “Sorry I answer only now but it’s good for me tonight yeah :)”

We made an appointment at 9pm at my house but she arrived at 10pm. She said she was lost and freezing. I was pissed off, but when I saw her, I was glad to have waited. She is very beautiful. Her face seduced me. She looks like one of my ex, an American girl, but thinner and taller, with darker hair. It’s the improved 2.0 version.

She said she was 19 years on the dating site but confessed to me being only 18. Her explanation: she was a minor when subscribed on the site so it created a lag.

We drank a glass of wine. We talked a little bit about everything and nothing. After a few minutes, I stroked her hand. Then her face. I took her hand and put it on my cheek, she caressed me. I also provoked with my habitual bad faith, I pretended not to know why she had come. It made her laugh.

After about an hour I got up, went around the table and approached her. I felt her cum beginning to flood her panties (I enjoy a highly developed hunter’s sense of smell). So I caressed her everywhere, under her top, on her jeans, we got dangerously close without kissing. She also began to caress me timidly on and under my sweater.

She was the first to give in to the temptation of kiss, she kissed me passionately. I then opened her belt to slide my hand in there while, on her side, she had problems with mine. Fuck, Efficience, what I like seeing the chicks trying to find out how your belts work! Me, meanwhile, I was stroking her clit, quietly.

I ended up opening my belt for her. So she shook me a bit while I touched her pussy. Then I turned her around and fingered/stroked standing against my table: winning combo. She began shouting, trembling, and so on. She enjoyed it.

Then I undressed her completely and laid her on the bed. I licked her there. She went back to making nocturnal noise. Second orgasm. She shook me after, while she recovered: she was all red.

I told her I wanted to take her. To penetrate her. To fuck her. She asked me if I had condoms… so game was on. A little quiet missionary to tame her wild pussy. She asked me to bite her neck. Then I made her come on me: her way of positioning allowed me to caress her clito at the same time that I was in her. She enjoyed very strong!

I saw her high, trembling everywhere with an empty look. Then, I started a hard doggy style. I fucked her really hard in this position. Seriously, she has a nice ass, awesome waist as I like, cute breasts with pretty nipples, beautiful hair and green eyes that I did not see in this position. Super sexy! She came again but begged me to take a break because she could not take it anymore. I told her I was going to finish.

So I let myself go. Fucking a girl like that, it’s so good!

Then she sat cross-legged, just after the post-coital hug: she told me that she could barely stand. I was amused ! She put on her underwear to go smoking at the window. We talked and she said “it was very good, it’s been a long time since I didn’t have sex. “

After her cigarette, she was still hungry. To show her gratitude, she shook me and finally decided to suck me. It made me want to take her ass. I took her doggy style on all fours. She enjoyed again, asked for a spanking and then I said to myself “it’s okay I will finish now”. Except that I could not finish again and she came one more time. She ended up asking me for grace! I accelerated to finish but I could not get there, it was sweaty, my heart was beating and everything. I started to think about the heart-attack, I freaked out, I went out of her pussy. She shook me but I got soft. Too bad, I was dead!

We made a hug, and then she began to pout. I felt she was not OK so I asked if I had said or done anything. She replied “it’s not about you, just that I’m thinking too much”. Well, I think I’ve understood, she surely thought of her ex, a classic.

Morale: A profile that did not look so awesome but behind which hid a pretty little girl.

Before she left, she told me “see you next time, if you want to.” It was too sweet!

This morning, it’s hard. Sore throat, big headache, teeth that hurt. I’m tired and wiping my nose all the time. I hope my brain will not go out through my nose hole… it’s really a pain in the ass, seriously!

The only satisfaction was that the boss’s niece was in tears on Friday afternoon and told my colleague that she did not understand why I got mad at her. Lol! Now she plays on the sensitive strings of piety because she has been too far… Well done! Do not piss me off next time!

May the God of the Game be with us!

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7 tricks of manipulation and persuasion

7 tricks of manipulation and persuasion

7 tricks of manipulation and persuasionIn this article, I reveal 7 tricks of manipulation and persuasion… concrete and easy to use!

1) It is important to always make sure that the other person feels like the idea comes from her (especially if you have sown the seeds in her mind upstream). So she will less resist, and it is important in seduction because women sometimes tend to feel guilty when it’s time to let it go.

For example:
SHE : “Are we going to your house?”
HE : If you want” (instead of answering “yes” directly).

2) If I ask you not to think about the green color, you will imagine it (the unconscious has trouble with negation). Also, do not imagine the pretty little breasts of a naked woman in front of you, who bites her lips. Don’t lie, you did imagine, right ? You can easily make people imagine things…

Imagine now that by telling stories (about you or others), you can make your interlocutors feel emotions. Well, that’s exactly what you can do by incorporating patterns into your storytellings.

Thus, you will stimulate the excitement and emotions of women. And, emotions really govern decision-making, rather than logic. That is why we can get women to do things that they would not think they would do if they were simply using the logical part of their brains.

3) According to many studies, the touch (called “kino” in the community of seduction) allows to increase the rate of acceptance of a request. By touching women on the forearm or on the shoulder, you can leave them a better impression, you can seem more fun, and so on.

It is rather easy to do and people are very rarely offended by a touch on the “social parts” of the body.

4) Giving a reason also increases the acceptance rate of a request. For example, “kiss me, it’s my birthday”. And it works also if you give a shitty reason like “kiss me because I want to”.

People accept a request more easily when it seems to them that it is justified!

5) You can use cold reading (finding out information about an individual through observation of his or her reactions, and an inaccurate line of questioning to quickly identify his or her needs or thoughts) or magic tricks, chicks like it. It fascinates them and it is therefore a demonstration of high value. But these are things that are difficult to master.

Fortunately, there are phrases in which most people recognize themselves (it’s called the Barnum effect, that’s what horoscopes are based on). Using them in a conversation with a woman will allow you to appear more alpha and will give you a mystical aura.

6) In most people, flattery has a positive impact even when it is not sincere or when it is exaggerated. Besides, if it’s really a lack of respect, kinda “you have beautiful eyes” to a blind woman.

7) Similarity, commonalities (real or invented) create a link. Mirroring (synchronisation) with people too. This is something naturally done by people when they are close… but thanks to these techniques, so by forcing the feeling, you can increase your success rate.

These little tricks, if you adopt them, will have a positive impact on your success rate.

For more information about communication, seduction (seduction is a lot about communication), manipulation, NLP, dark seduction, persuasion, influence, psychology, etc. : you can read my ebook « Communication, seduction and manipulation ».

To finish, choose a number between 1 and 4.

It is done ?

Well, chances are you chose 3.

Now choose a number between 1 and 10.

It is done ?

Well, you have probably chosen the number 7, like most people (the 1 is often chosen too).

Well, see you soon!

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This interior designer was high

This interior designer was highDecember 12th 2015,

I am suffering from a a throat infection for a few days. It’s really a shit, I have a broken voice and mucus… it’s not very sexy !!! But that did not prevent me from fucking.

Yesterday night, I was exhausted. But a chick who had flaked me last week was available to see me. In fact, she had not really flaked me last week: she wanted us to meet up, yes, but in a bar on La place des Terreaux before going to my place. But, I was not in a mood for going out because it was cold outside so I stayed in my bed sleeping and told her we would see each other another day… without really believing it.

This time she came directly to my house. She is pretty, brunette with blue eyes, light skin, tall (170cm/55kg). It’s my type, at least, physically.

The discussion was not very fluid at the beginning of the date. First of all, because I was out of order after my day at work. And also because she’s quite disturbing: she talks very slowly like a hippie. She asks a lot of questions like a little girl. She is curious about everything and searches everywhere. She does not like to be contradicted, but I do not like to let people say bullshit, so sometimes, I gave my point of view and it did not please her. She was depressive when she was young, so she is now a follower of the present moment and all this philosophy (we read more or less the same books), and she watches a lot of TedX on Youtube. In short, she thinks in a different way from the crowd, and that, I appreciate. But she smokes and drinks alcohol too… so it’s not awesome. Anecdote: she told me she was so drunk once, that she kicked a guy out of her house to be able to vomit quietly.

We began by drinking a glass of rosé, everything was fine. Then two, OK, why not ? Then we played card and alcohol games like “Captain Blum drinks X times”. I was kinda drunk after, it had been a long time that I had not drunk a half bottle of wine on my own. I guess the fact that McBoules succeeded in being so drunk that he has fallen asleep while a beautiful Russian was giving a blowjob, has awakened in me old habits.

The conversation became much more fluid from then on. Must say that I made an effort to find a subject that she liked : drawing. She is an artist, which justifies the fact that she is high. She is 26, is an interior designer and draftsman. So I proposed to her to draw Leo (my stuffed leopard that hits all the girls who come to my house). After having had the portrait drawn, he threw himself on her and kissed her with his dirty muzzle. Still no reaction from the girl, neither good nor bad.

Then we put on music. I think she has not too bad taste: she likes old French songs, English romantic songs and rap. When we sat on the bed to make a playlist, I began to fiddle. She was stoic… or rather, she was passive. She behaved like if I did not have my hand in her bra, for example. It was funny but when I was taking too much initiatives, she grabbed my hand and put it back on her pretty flat stomach, over her top, casually.

At one point, she told me bluntly, “I do not know yet if I want to sleep with you.” I do not know if it was a test to disconcert me or what… but if that was it, it worked. But I did not let anything appear and continued my little game. I was hard.

She finally took off her shoes to sit cross-legged on my bed. I kissed her in the neck. She let me do. Then she said, “I need a little more wine.” She took one more drink. I kissed her again in the neck, then on the mouth. She finally gave me her lips, but nothing more… So I gave up and no longer took care of her for a few minutes (it’s a freeze-out, I put her in the fridge!)

It was at this moment that she proposed we lie down and hug. I checked the clock, it was 2am: she had no more subway to go back, so I said OK. We were both dressed at that moment. She put her hand under my sweater, on my pecs, and said “You smell good, you”. It was the first time she took an initiative!

Then, she fell asleep for a moment in this non-sexual position. True story. I was frustrated so I got up to strategically eat a banana. The movement awakened her. So I proposed her to sleep at my place: she said yes. Then, I went to piss and when I came back, she was in underwear (red). So I undressed too, I just kept my boxer on and lied down next to her. Or rather behind her because she turned back on me. After her breasts, I fiddled with her little pussy over her panties. Still no reaction, except that it smelled like cyprine, so… I came in with my fingers. There, she began to really get wet, I fingered her harder. She finally turned to me, kissed me open mouth with the tongue, took off my underwear and jerked me.

We stayed like that a long time, masturbating each other, then I went down between her thighs and licked her because I did not want to ejaculate too fast (the situation excited me a lot). She has liked that I take care of her pleasure, her legs trembled and everything. To thank me, she made me rock on my back and sucked for my pleasure.

It lasted maybe 5 or 10 minutes, sometimes fast, sometimes slowly. Frankly, I wanted to come on her tonsils, to repaint her… but fuck I really wanted to penetrate her too! She interrupted, “Do you have condoms?” I stretched on her to catch some behind my bed but the bed collapsed (it’s a sofa/bed not very stable that collapses from time to time). We fell brutally : emotional lift!

In short, I put on a condom, and fucked her on the rickety bed. Only once, in missionary position. The worst thing is that I did not last very long… but I enjoyed all the same. She too, I hope. Having raised the sexual tension before, doubting whether I was going to fuck her or not, alcohol also maybe played a role… in short, all that gave me a strong electric shock throughout the body at the moment of the ejaculation !

We fell asleep in a cuddly position. My warrior was finally resting, with the sensation of accomplished duty. This morning, she did not want to have sex (by opening the shutters she said “Hello world, you are pretty, I must take advantage of my life”… I swear, she is kinda crazy). But I was hard again, so while she was drinking her coffee, I jerked myself in front of her by fiddling with her breasts (after asking her for permission). First time I was doing this, it was funny.

News

Bad news, I learned that another of my friends was assaulted by 5 riff-raffs in Aix last night. He went to the hospital too, it reminds me of bad memories. He’s the one who came to Lyon one or two month ago… I swear, our country is going crazy!

Otherwise, know that yesterday, at work, I ended up angry. There’s the niece of the boss, the one who so much behaves like she was the boss that we wonder if they do not sleep together, who has pissed me off too much. In fact, she has worn out over the long term. She spies on everything that has been done, has succeeded in getting the secretary with whom I liked to flirt quit because she was always making derogatory remarks to her, gives orders and everything, like an hysterical girl. The other guys in the office are submissive, they let her do because they want to avoid the conflict with her. But not me, I never obey her injunctions. Then she harasses me more. She screams sharply, screams my name for me to answer the phone and speaks to me like a 6 year old moron while I am more graduate than her.

Frankly, she is behaving like this while she is nothing, it’s a shame! She thinks she uses her charm on the men of the office but, frankly, they all hate her. The others play the hypocrites in front of her and snicker from behind but I cannot. I’m too transparent.

So that you have an idea of the character: this is the kind that does not say hello normally in the morning (to anyone except the boss) and royally ignores the girls. She is also racist, she likes only the Algerian guys. In her eyes if you are not Algerian, you are a shit (so I am a shit). And she is very proud of pissing everybody off for a SMIC!

Finally, she is very intrusive, wants to control everything, makes inappropriate remarks like “Yet ?!” when someone leaves at 6:15pm while we are supposed to finish at 6:00 pm. She spies on me when she hears me typing on the keyboard, she asks me “Are you writing a book?”. Then, the next day, I found my things moved on my desk so she stayed later than me to spy on my Internet history and everything. When I look at my phone, right away I hear “Don’t you have work Fabrice?”

The thing is that she is not irreproachable, far from it: she always arrives at 9:30 in the morning (instead of 8:30) and 2:45 in the afternoon (instead of 2:00 pm): she told until recently to the boss that is was hard to park. So he rented a parking lot next to the office but since… she is still late. Her work is full of mistakes too, but hey, that’s not the real problem. If she was nice, we would not care correcting her!

Yesterday, to help them out in the absence of the secretary, I went to La Poste (with the mail). But when I came back, she found I had been away for too long (20 minutes) and found it wise to say “I almost called the police where were you?” There, I saw it red, she had already pissed me off all the afternoon by asking me to carry cartons for her as if I owed something to her (« I will not do the job of a man all the same ») and by asking me three times to close the door of the toilets after someone had shit while I was at the limit of the breakdown.

In short, I explained to her more or less courteously (rather less) that I am not secretary, that she can also go to La Poste if she is not happy, that her behavior is inappropriate and that she abuses. “I ABUSE ???” she replied. “YES SO CALM DOWN RIGHT NOW” and I slammed the door of my office quite violently, which made her startled. She continued to speak on her own, to rage in her corner… my colleague was laughing out loud.

Moreover, this morning after sex, I sent a text to my colleague to say “I tried to be a pig last night”. I must tell you this anecdote: in a club, when he was young, he picked a bimbo up. Or rather, he went to her house. But before deciding if she let him go in her bed or not, she asked him “Do you know how to try to be a pig?” He said yes while he did not know what she was referring to (he was sex-starved). And once at home, naked, she asked him to try to be a pig by making a sign to tell him to lick her pussy.

Between her past as a fucker and the fact that this guy shows me on his laptop videos that are funny like the one of a chick who trained her dog to licked her pussy : we have laugh all the time. It is his presence that helps me to hold in this shitty office, to tell you everything, there is always a good atmosphere in our office.

Finally, know that I always hang out with The Teacher. It is true that she is hot, that we get along well and that we have good sex together. But she happens to be REALLY bitchy sometimes, fuck… (especially by texts when she is on her period). So, it prevents me from crushing TOTALLY on her, although I feel that she has a crush too.

May the God of the Game show me the way.