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Month: October 2017
Imperfection and seduction
Regularly, I am told that I am not credible as a seduction coach because my approaches are not ultra-alphas and I am not a sex bomb like Ian Somerhalder.
I think that these people did not understand that we should not look for perfection in seduction, a “perfect” game would look robotic…
Fuck the competition
A French woman has a lot of suitors, the competition is tough for the role of boyfriend, but it is much less for the role of “secret lover”. In other words, it is much easier, more practical and more enjoyable to become a lover than a boyfriend.
Trying to become very beautiful and very interesting to seduce women seems to me being counterproductive because it would require a lot of personal investment and would be the best way to become her next boyfriend or husband.
The problem is that the best guy on paper is not often the one who wins the game of seduction in real life. In fact, if you are wonderful on paper, she will probably make you wait longer before sleeping with you. It’s paradoxical, I know, but as you have made a strong impression, she will want to highlight her purity to try to keep you! In the meantime, you will still need to qualify with the risk of losing the deal at any time.
For others, those that women do not necessarily see as potential boyfriends, they see them more easily as occasional lovers and behave differently. This is exactly the effect we are looking for because once we have slept with, we can of course consider keeping the girl if the complicity is at the rendezvous. Because, yeah, it’s still paradoxical but a girl will more easily start a relationship with an average guy once he has fucked rather her than with a great guy who will sell himself for 3 months before getting laid and who may be bad in bed. The circle is complete !
If you liked this analysis, do not hesitate to read The (inconvenient) truth about gender relations ! And to be sure to fuck the women in a good way so that they want to see you again, I direct you to The awesome lover’s manual !
Perfection
The pick-up artists are often criticized for flirting like robots and being clones. On the other hand, when I simply go to a woman to introduce myself and ask her number very directly, people think it’s a fake!
Yet, few people watched the video showing the evidence that followed my demonstration in SPU. It seems to reassure people to believe that we have to wait to be perfect to succeed in the street since it justifies the inaction of many of them…
But realize that if each approach was done in a humble and imperfect way, it would bring out the human side of things and pick-up artists would be much more popular. Exactly like with live concerts that often have more charm than perfect recordings: if the mp3s were so wonderful, no one would move their ass to hear their idol singing.
In addition, perfect people intimidate others and make them complex. That’s why I do not advise you to try to be perfect! Be careful though, this does not mean that you can do anything, ignore the basic rules of the pickup and that it must work every time. NO ! It just means that you do not need to realize the best approach in the world (and you should not even try) to seduce a girl.
You are not the hero of a romantic film and she is certainly not a princess!
Do not think of yourself as a white knight thinking that you are doing something very original and courageous because it is the behavior of almost all men in our society today. In fact, those who put the woman on a pedestal from the beginning are not misunderstood romantics as they are led to believe but submissive sheep.
Accepting imperfection is courageous
When you expose yourself and make yourself vulnerable, you automatically subcommunicate the status of a confident man. So you should be proud of yourself, just for that!
And if you approach seriously but humbly, you communicate to the world “no matter the result, I assume and I fuck the negative look of tight-ass people.”
Maybe you will have a phone number, maybe not… but it does not matter because you know how to react in case of rejection if you saw my video about this subject. In any case, you will come out grown and stronger from this experience and I am sure you will be delighted to see that women will love you despite the fact that you did not approach them saying “he dies at the end of the book you’re reading” or “hello, I am the ideal man”. Really show who you are instead of repeating stupidly what some have told you to say. And never mind if they judge you imperfect. Perfection is in imperfection.
Do not forget that the best approach in the world can lead to a violent rejection and that the worst approach in the world can work. It all depends on who you fall on… it’s all about optimizing your chances. If there is a connection with the girl you are approaching and she is not closed-minded or feminazi, you can just go. Do your best, but do not worry too much and, if possible, do not hide behind the story of an impersonal and falsely original approach that you would have learned by heart.
Side-by-side in a libertine club
May 2nd 2016,
First of all, know that I’m still in a relationship with La Prof and that I’m faithful ! Does it surprises you, eh ?!
The truth is I do not feel the need or the desire to do such a thing. And most importantly, I do not want to hurt her. I told her that I will not sleep with another without her, so I do it! Of course, sometimes a new naked body energetically riding me after work would not displease me, but I tell myself that it would hurt her so it’s not worth it. In addition, she gave me a thought that exhilarated me: “they have had several years to find you and enjoy you in bed, for those who haven’t, too bad for them, now is too late !!!”
Since my last post, we have made another show on Wyylde (the new name of Netechangisme) bringing together more than 500 voyeurs. It was so exciting! There are a lot of couples who do that online, it’s good amateur porn…
On the other hand, on libertine sites, girls are as boring as elsewhere. So, still no threesome in sight. They are rare, not available, play the princesses and don’t really answer messages. People are stupid too: they believe that because we are young (the average of the people there is rather 30-40 years), we do not know how to fuck. Hahaha! So, we created in addition a Tinder common account (back to basics) to pick up bisexual chicks from Lyon.
At work, I’m in a new company. Paid like a king, well treated, in a beautiful office with big files that generate millions (we even have a club and a bar famous in Lyon). I have more work and more responsibilities, but hey, I do it heartily because I do not hate my boss… yet.
I admit that I would prefer living thanks to my blog. But except this personal goal hard to reach, I enjoy a good professional situation. As a result, I’m standing there, and I’m not ready to unveil my identity as Cyprineman. I play the good guy in all respects. Them, on the other hand, are alcoholics, they often take drinks in the office where the girls sometimes undress. It’s special, but yes, there’s written “accounting experts” on the door. Well, I prefer that to the other stinky guy I worked for before.
Friday night, we returned to the libertine club with La Prof. At 11pm, it’s already late, there: we met a group of 5 who left (the poor girl was probably screwed by her 4 friends). It was “youth party”: €22 for couples, free for single women and €70 for guys (despite the price, I can tell you that there were many guys alone).
We returned to the club with sauna/steam room where we walk everywhere naked. For information, there are other types of clubs where meetings are dressed and where we only undress in the rooms to fuck. But while waiting to test other places, I like this concept: undressing in the locker room reminds me when I go swimming at the pool.
Beside us in the jacuzzi, two girls alone bathed naked (like everyone else). But they pushed everyone away and finally nobody fucked them. Such a waste ! They were young people who did not assume, who said they had come “just to see” (as if it was possible to remain unmoved in this torrid atmosphere). Well, it does not matter because, by the force of things, they “were seen” too. I love watching the girls. It’s exciting, and even if there are not only hot chicks, there are still a lot of cute girls: it is much more effective than the physiological saline to rinse my eyes.
Otherwise, we fell back on two guys we met last time. They stuck to us but soon realized that it was dead for them. For the anecdote, one still had time to tell us that he masturbates “sometimes a little” men just to bang their wives. I do not know if it was a proposal or whatever but the conversation turned short…
Finally, overall, we were less harassed and quieter than last time. A guy recognized us thanks to our live and came to congratulate us! He told us we were the best couple in the club! It pleased my girlfriend… Which made us want to go and fuck in a room with a window but the door closed so that people can talk to us but not join us.
In fact, people go there and fuck almost all the time in closed rooms where you can not see them. I find it’s a pity ! We were the only ones to make the show that night… Blowjob, cunnilingus, riding and doggystyle. All that under the comments of a young pervert who shouted “oh yes I love this rump, let me see more closely your beautiful little pussy, etc.”
After that, we went to the sauna and then to the jacuzzi where I approached couples to propose side-to-side. They all answered “No, we find it frustrating, we want to do at least some mixing.” And they took us up as if we were shitty beginners while we fuck surely better than them. But hey, as my girl was the most beautiful in the club, I did not give a shit…
It is certain that if one manages to detach, at least in a club, from this desire of possession of his girlfriend: there is way to have fun even more! We can get lots of chicks if we accept that other dudes fuck ours. If ever we come to decide that « in the club it’s not cheating ». This is, in fact, only a question of beliefs, reality and state of mind… In this regard, a guy in the club explained that he could sleep with libertines (without telling his girlfriend ) but in no case with not libertines girls otherwise it would be to cheat on his girlfriend. I did not really understand this but why not…
Finally, we decided to go upstairs where I licked La Prof in a room, without closing the door, this time. A lot of people came around to see how I was doing to make her come so hard. At the end, a guy asked us « Please, can I jerk on your feet? » We said no on the spot, but it would have been funny, I think. The next time, he will masturbate on the feet of La Prof, it would make me laugh!
After, we went to the bar for a drink of water. There, a couple offered us a drink: two beginners like us, it was even their very first night in a club. And they did not want to swing! According to my girlfriend, the guy was not very beautiful but, the girl was ok (to compensate, he had a huge cock). Suddenly, we started by taking a shower all four: The Teacher sucked me and it warmed them. I then crossed the club with the hard cock to join the closed rooms upstairs.
There, we fucked side-by-side: our girls sucked us next to each other. It was pretty funny to see the other babe sucking at the same time that I felt mine sucking me. Then, we licked our girls. After, I fucked mine doggy style while the other guy lost his erection.
He finally became hard a little again and took his girlfriend in position “poop break in the woods”. Seriously, I had never seen this position. The girl was standing back to him, on tiptoe but squatting without touching the ground.
Quickly, he definitely lost his erection so licked his girlfriend and proposed my girlfriend to relay. So, they licked and kissed and everything. It was sensual! One of 23 and one of 31: the youngest was not the most awkward! I would have enjoyed them taking care of my handbrake too, but hey, so be it.
To say goodbye, the thirty gave me a kiss on the corner of the lips telling me she found me very beautiful. The slut had not seen any new cock for 3 years, that’s what had to mindfucked her, I guess !
In short, this couple wants to see us at home for a private party: the guy is a cook and wants to bait us like that. It is true that even if the atmosphere of the club is very nice, it’d be cheaper! It will nevertheless be necessary to set the rules if we decide to go! It seems that her girlfriend liked watching me being blowed… so if she wants to suck me, my darling is OK but she does not want to suck his guy (because she does not like him). She is not very up to be licked by him either. So here, to discuss, I understand that he feels aggrieved and does not want.
So, side-by-side: it is tested and approved. It was exciting because the room was filled with sexual energy! We go slowly in this world of libertinage. We decided that next time we would fuck a little (a few minutes) in all the rooms of the club and then end up against a wall in a place where people do not usually fuck (for the sake of contradiction)! And, believe it or not, it’s not even me who had this idea …
We spent the end of this fucking rainy weekend both under the duvet. It was fine until Sunday evening when The Teacher had a crisis « you take me for an object, etc.. » From time to time, it peeps her, she thinks I use her and everything. She did not realize that if it was just for sex, I would have 50 girls at the same time. So I explained to her that she has to calm down because if it does not work between us, it will probably be because of this kind of nervous breakdown. Last night, she told me “find another girl to fuck and bye” before calling me back me to apologize this morning. This logic of trying to provoke something that is dreaded is beyond me.
Earlier, as I said, she was afraid I would leave her so I reassured her. But hey, it’s boring! It’s a bette rit to make upstream efforts to communicate better and it does not happen anymore than to get headaches regularly (for not much) and regret it after! She agrees with that so it should be better in the future.
Currently, it is not seducing that is a victory for me. Before, I blamed myself when I did not approach a girl, but now I’m proud of myself because I can hold myself back. Like what, everything is a question of point of view… it’s fun! No, there’s no need to say, the couple is a wealth too. It’s different from the Game, but it can be cool too. In short, whatever some bad people say, I’m not apparently sick, I’m not addicted to sex or anything twisted like that…
May the God of the Game be with us in libertine clubs!
The 7 Minutes Workout
Two researchers in human physiology have developed a method for business men and women who have little time to devote to sport but still want to get the benefits from it. It is based on high-intensity fractional training.
Thanks to them, one can have the essential of a longer classical sports practice: one can get maximum benefits for his or her health, mood and intellectual performances by doing only 7 minutes of sport per day, without equipment.
The scientifically proven benefits of this program are:
– A quick and effective way to lose weight and body fat;
– An improvement in our cardiovascular health;
– A reduced risk of developing diabetes.
The 12 exercises are (to be done for 30 seconds each with 10 seconds of pause between each):
– Jumping jacks ;
– Wall sit ;
– Push-up ;
– Abdominal crunch ;
– Ste-up onto chair ;
– Squat ;
– Triceps dip on chair ;
– Plank ;
– High knees running in place ;
– Lunge ;
– Push-up and rotation ;
– Side plank.
One can of course do this training two or three times in a row… but, once a day, five times a week it’s good, according to researchers.
If you are interested, by typing “7 minutes workout” in the application manager of your phone, you will find many applications to help you. Personally, I currently use “7 Minutes Workout”.
I went for the first time in a libertine club
April 12th 2016,
Hi guys,
Long time I have not published but you will understand WHY in three stages. Today, I will tell you:
1) that I housed a friend and his girlfriend at home;
2) why I do not want to see the girl of the SPU again;
3) that I went for the first time in a libertine club.
Part 1: The friend who made a sextape at home with my webcam and my sextoys
A friend of Lyon’s lair got knocked out by his roommate (he was paying « under the table ») when he invited his girlfriend to join him for the Easter weekend. This friend is quite tortured because he hesitates to go to living in Brussels with this Polish… but, on the other hand, he met her after only a month of game and he knows he could have much better if he was moving his ass. The worst thing is that he himself says that she is physically “average” (face and body) !
So, they were two in the street. I therefore offered to lodge them since I left on Friday evening in Aix at my parents’ home for the Easter weekend. We forcibly spent deux days together (from Thursday to Friday evening) and then I left my apartment for a few days. During our co-location, I found her shitty and impolite. For example, when we ate together: she came out of the table and put herself on the bed with her cell phone. When she talked, she had really fixed ideas: for example she told us that her ex (man) sucked the cock of a friend from time to time. Then I told him that he was a bit homosexual but she told me that “AH NOT AT ALL THEY WERE JUST FRIENDS !
– Ok !”
And then, they do not have much to say to each other: she makes the bitch half the time, can not stand teasing, and so on. She smokes when he hates it, drinks a lot of alcohol and does not play sports while he is a sportsman… She requires him to take medicines because she finds that he snores and she pisses him for a lot of other shitty stuff. For his part, he is not all white: he is manic and has no tact… For example, he loves to repeat in front of people, what he was told in private. For example, in front of her “You, Fabrice, told me the other day that she and I would not stay long together in Brussels and that she would be a pain in my ass!
– heuuuuuuuuuuuu … yeah … well you are not looking like the ideal couple!”
In fact, everyone tells them not to make this bullshit, but it does not matter. Part of the problem is that my buddy has no real results since he “is” with her. And the other part of the problem is that she is with him because she wanted a couple and was looking for someone rather than because they are really made to be together. Basically, she said “I want to be a couple”… and as she met him at that time, imposed that frame on him. He, wanted sex so he accepted. And now, I do not know if it is by guilt or self-sabotage but since that day, he does not do anything on the field. However, he is motivated to go out… but the problem is that once on the field, he does not try anything (if he is pushed into the ass, he says that it is because he is stressed that he is petrified but if you do not push him, he does not do better). And the worst thing is that at the end of the evening, he gets annoyed because he is angry that he did not try any move.
For me, he will be blocked as long as he is with her! But, to break up and impose what one wants (to make choices as opposed to let oneself carry and hope that it is done on its own), one must learn to assume his balls !!!
Another anecdote: he had a job offer at 40k€ in Lyon that would have allowed him to stay (knowing that he has less diploma and experience than I who makes only 20k €) but he refused by saying to the recruiter that he would “have the impression of bragging” at that price. Knowing that he was taken and everything, and that at this moment he does not earns more than 30k €, he only found this shit to say: for me it is unconsciousness. If it is not self-sabotage to go to Belgium with this girl… And again, if he was really sure of his choice : but he is really bad, he hesitates, and so on. When one is really in love, one knows it, I guess!
Finally, when I came back from my weekend in the south, he told me that they had fucked a lot and that they had a lot of fights too… And that they had used my sextoys and made a sextape with my webcam. It really annoyed me : frankly you help someone and he does shit with your stuff like that… no manners! Anyway, he had nevertheless thoroughly cleaned my studio and everything. So let’s forget it!
There, at the last news, he finally decided to go to Belgium because his bitch has already signed a lease (she forces him a little more). I hope i twill be a good adventure for him… but his girlfriend’s attitude reminds me of Virginie’s, just before it starts declining between us.
Part 2: the girl from the street was starting to get too attached but my heart was already taken
I saw again the sex-bomb met in street pick-up at the end of March. It is a pity that I can not put pictures of some of my girlfriends here because it would be worth it (but it would be a big ethical problem)! So that you get an idea, she looks a bit like Marylou, the one to whom I dedicated my Diary of a French PUA 1. Moreover, for the anecdote, I learned that Marylou is today married with the guy with whom she was already at the time she sucked me.
So, on a Friday night, the SPU girl proposed to come back to my place around 10pm. I said “no it’s too late” because I was just recovering from a kind of flu. She outbid “then at 8:30 pm, I cancel the meal with my girlfriends for you”! I found this wow! When she arrived, she had brought a gift for me and everything. The girl had gone a bit in needy mode just because I fucked her well once. She even said prefering sex with me than Easter chocolate! That means a lot to me !!
We had a good evening: I made her come three or four times. She decided to suck me but I did not feel anything, it was not awesome, too bad! She also tried to get fucked without a condom but I resisted the temptation. On the other hand, she still smokes a lot between orgasms… In fact, she excites me because she is very beautiful but that’s all: she does not match me more than that! That said, I’m still flattered and surprised that a hot, beautiful and rich (she comes from the chic district of Lyon, goes out in expensive clubs and everything) become mad about a guy who picked her up in the street and can consider that it becomes serious with…
I took her back to the last metro and she said “I hope we see each other soon”: I did not assume to say no. I just did not answer. Since then, I do not answer her texts. It’s bad, I know, but hey… I do not want her to become attached and disappointed. I prefer to play the asshole so that she has no regrets! For me, as far as I am concerned, my heart is already taken. Fabrice found his Fabricette : The Teacher!
If I have not published for a while it’s mainly because I spend my weekends and most nights of the week in autarky with my darling. I do not know what happens to me. I thought I’d have a hard time stopping FuckClose… but it’s OK, in fact, the detox. On the few evenings when we’re not together, we call, I’ve never done that before. I think of her often. She makes me laugh, usually it was that me who made laugh the girls but she is really nice and funny.
I do not remember having felt that one day for a girl. So, yeah, it corresponds to the symptoms of love as described in the literature. But fuck! I struggled with all my strength, I kept fucking elsewhere for several months. Now I think I will surrender and take advantage of this chance. In fact, I wanted to make sure it was the big love, because I know you can quickly get your head up and be disappointed. It makes me very frightened and she too by the way!
I’m not 100% sure : maybe we’ll have an argument in a while and break up. But, at least, I’ve lived through this. It will make me one more experience in my career. Even if it is a different experience. That said, for now, I am projecting with The Teacher to the point of talking about having children together in a few years.
I believe that before her I was incapable of falling in love. I mean that I felt affection for babes but that was never like that! And above all, never to the point of thinking of stopping the field for them! For example, the other day there was a girl from Adopte who called me back for a date, and I answer “noooooooooooo”: I would have destroyed her ass in another space-time but I resisted.
I wonder if it’s up to the girl in herself that I cracked? It must be said that she is a bomb: 1m60, 45kg, 90D, we see her small abs on her belly and she squats. Intellectually, she is super interesting and open-minded. She takes care of me (will this attitude last?) For example, the other day I hurt my back: she took an appointment with the doctor for me and made me a massage in the evening and everything… She has a nice face too, she is well typed Italian. She has many important qualities in my eyes: she does not smoke, does not drug, her mother has not become fat, etc. Or is it up to me? The fact that I grow old, that I live alone in Lyon, that I move on in my life, and so on. In short, I do not want to idealize her too quickly : she is rather anxious for example!
Attention, there are some stuff that make me wonder: the other day she called me names (it’s almost normal that a woman be bitchy from time to time, right?) So far the relationship was a cloudless blue sky but there first problem. She sulked all night before finally, the next day noon, empty her bag. I do not like the capricious like that… In fact, I would have made an awkward remark suggesting that she was not good enough for me and she was afraid I would leave her (overinterpretation). Apart from that, overall, we pull each other up for now. So, am I afraid of losing her too? Yes. Especially if she starts changing her attitude now that she considers me more acquired.
Well, if it does not work, so be it! At least I would have lived something else than pure game on the field with new pussies all the time. And if it works, well, so much the better, because the goal of my personal development, initially, was still to be with a smart hottie. I have experienced many disillusions and betrayals along the way, but hey… she does not have to pay for the mistakes of others. I want to trust her but if she does it upside down, then it’s over! I believe that I would live a simple life of debauchery like Hank Moody and then that’s all…
Part 3: a fuck in front of people in a libertine club and in live on a site
To spice up our antics and to leave our comfort zone, we decided to test the most famous libertine club in Lyon, with The teacher. In fact, who says libertine club, does not necessarily say “swinger club”. There are a lot of other types of libertinage!
Since it is a common fantasy for us, we decided to go there just to recognize the place. Last Friday night, it was €44 for a couple. We were both stressed on the way, a bit like for our first club!
When we arrived, a nice guy gave us towels and condoms. He has somewhat tested our knowledge of the environment, our experience and our values by questioning us casually. We took a staircase and found ourselves in the locker room. There, we undressed and we put our belongings in a locker.
Then we visited the club, on three floors. On the ground floor there is a bar, a sauna, a hammam, a room with sun loungers and a large Jacuzzi. On the first floor, there are rooms with large mattresses. You can close the doors or not. There are also rooms with windows so that other people can watch us. In the basement, there are rooms with accessories to attach those who want to be.
Disappointment ! It was, it seems, a “without” evening: there were few people. Like 4/5 chicks for several tens of guys. The other women were rather old and not too hot. Moreover, we quickly found ourselves encircled by a dozen of men.
In the jacuzzi, some were jerking themselves by watching at Le Prof. Others came to sit beside us to chat, with the cock in the air. They stroked her breasts a little and tried to touch her but she said no. So they respected. I did not say anything to spoil her pleasure or look needy but it should not be the same logic in this environment. It should be done when it pleases both, not if it pleases one and the other can endure. I was sad a little. Almost all came talking to me to propose a trio with my girlfriend. I did not understand if they were bi or if they just wanted to fuck my wife and ask me for permission as if she was a merchandise. Some tried to make salacious proposals when I had my back turned but she had an exemplary attitude.
I do not blame them, as lonely men, they paid €72 the entrance so I understand that they remain hungry if they do not fuck. On the other hand, for this price, they could have taken a good training of seduction and go in club libertine with girls.
So we were all naked in the hot water talking and then we decided to go fucking just the two of us. We told the guys we would take a room with a window so they could watch us. In the room, we started kissing against the wall but there were holes in the wall and some put their cocks inside. So, we went to the bottom of the room on the big mattress: I fingered her (1 orgasm) then licked her (2 orgasms). After, she sucked me in a lying position. That’s where three guys managed to get into the room (I had apparently not closed the door). They were asked to go out and all but no! And they closed the door to prevent other people from coming in with us!
The others grumbled outside, they wanted to come too and everything. It looked like sex-starving people, it was super-oppressive. There was also a woman in the lot, a sort of Peruvian, who said, “Can I go home? I am a girl !” But hey, we did not see her face or anything so we said no. The three guys lay down beside us and stared at us.
Certainly, it was rather respectful as environment: they called us by our first names and everything. Nobody judges anything, but hey. They tried to touch my girl, she said no, so they respected for 5 seconds but it did not stop them from insisting, going back to the charge… there is even one who, failing to touch, had fun blowing on heer clito at 10cm distance.
At the moment when she took a doggy position, they all got on their knees before us, cock in hand, like soldiers at attention. And they masturbated, one asked “Can I come on your breasts?
– no”. So they enjoyed on the mattress and walked in it.
Finally, it was 3am and a great dressed bouncer came to tell us that the club was closing. We did not see the time pass. She sucked me and I finished quickly in her mouth. We got dressed but we did not have time to wash (there were showers everywhere). Too bad because it was very hot in the club, we were sweating quite a lot!
We left and I was a little bit sad, to tell you everything. Seeing that she was the princess and all that. They all complimented her and when they spoke to me it was only to compliment me on the breasts, beauty or ass of my girl. She told me that this is exactly what she felt when we made threesomes with girls who were not really bisexual. So, according to her, it was only the return of the stick… <3 (love is less than three).
If I understood correctly, we have to go for the couple, mousse or youth parties. There, it was an empty evening, because of the school holidays. It was full of sex-starving people who took advantage of the fact that this was our first time to abuse a little… But we will go back there in better conditions to make a real opinion. I hope to see a little sexy babes too (so to rinse my eye).
Currently, the plan is to find a true bisexual girl to have fun all as much. This idea restores my morale because this adventure certainly made me aware of my chance to have her but also made me want to fuck others to re-prove myself, to reassure me.
So we signed up on a libertine site. Above, many sex-starving men and couples have contacted us, but the babes alone are rude and do not respond in general. So bad ! So we tested the “live” function. In fact, the concept is that we can fuck in front of our webcam and that people online watch us and comment.
On returning from the club, she was like a crazy girl. The good news is that we did not stop fucking during the weekend! And once, we did it in front of the camera. We had over 500 people watching and encouraging us.
On the other hand, like at the club: they were almost all on her, except for a few gays and two or three chicks. They said she is superb and everything but for me, nothing at all !!! Really, I feel like I have no value in these conditions. Finally, I exaggerate, some have nevertheless greeted my performance… But hey, the thing is that, before, it was she who was fighting to have me and there I saw these experiences of libertinage as if she was the price in the relationship and I the lucky to have her…
Finally, we fucked for more than an hour like that, it was very exciting, I had an awesome orgasm and she had 3 or 4 extraordinary too. We must be a little exhibitionist, in fact!
At the libertine club, there was nevertheless a very pleasant feeling of non-judgment, all this seemed very natural for everyone. Afterwards, when we came out and we found ourselves place potting in front of the normal bars, it was weirdy. As if we had emerged from a little bubble… We spoke with a libertine guy from the club on the way back, he explained to us having started with his girlfriend of the moment but since that day he has difficulty to find a girlfriend because it scares people in general as soon as he talks about the libertine world.
For the anecdote: the following Saturday evening, we went in a normal bar. We found it a lot less healthy. We found girls who were receptive to the idea of making a threesome but were very strong to feel guilty or to be afraid of the judgment of others so none went to the end of the process. They disappeared in the bar after saying that they were interested… Out of nowhere, there’s even one who said that she found me “not my type but OK”: I found it disrespectful, fuck! Why are girls going to judge us like that? Me, when a lousy one speaks to me, I make sure not to hurt her if I’m not interested… but the lambda chicks are apparently much more cruel than the lambda guys.
Other news : next Monday I’ll start my new job. And I hold on without Zoloft. So, my life is improving, I think… I also lost some weight, I will continue like that! And finally, I did a STD test and I have nothing! Cool !!!
May the God of the Game be with you!
The last days of my subscription on Adopteaguy
April 2nd 2016,
I am living the last days of my subscription on Adopteaguy, which I decided not to renew…
Yesterday (Friday afternoon), it was already the weekend in my head at work so I went for a ride on Adopte. It was on this occasion that I started talking with Florence: “Florence offers you the opportunity to talk with her. Do not hesitate to send her a message to try to land in her basket!
– I have the impression that our professions are quite similar [On our profiles: I “penguin hunter”, she “trainer of flea circus”].
– Yes, we seem to be in the animal-man!” But you’re hunting, I’m training, it’s another state of mind ^^
– I’m hunting and after I’m training
– I do not let myself be trained so easily! But I can let myself be hunted, if the hunter suits me…
– You would also like to be trained for once
– Maybe ! I am up for new experiences!
– So there is a lot to try you’ll forget about fleas
– I hope you do not have any flea!
– if I had you would have come with me in the shower anyway
– What if I’m hydrophobic?
– If you’re hydrophobic we do not do anything because I do not like the girls who do not wash
– Shit… But how do you think I do to practice my job, must have something to do!
– I think I prefer the hypothesis of the shower together. Are you hydrophobic?
– Not at all ^^ I like water! I am a hot water fish
– I can tell you, it’s going to get hot.
– I had understood that! Just for the minute a little more serious, I read in your novel-description – that I appreciated by the way – that you seek “just to start meetings without headaches, placed under the sign of the” adventure and fun… “. That’s good, me too! We may be able to get along with it ^^
– you should visit me in the early evening, I’ve got to go to the gym after work
– Why not ! It depends on where I am in my job, I have a lot to do. I talk to you in the end of the afternoon to tell you where I am and if it is feasible. Sweat well!
– Okay ! I will be back home a little before 7 pm
– I think I’ve worked hard for today. So I could meet you at the end of the day… Can you make me want to come?
– Yes . Where do you live ? You already want to come
– I do not live in Lyon, but it’s not a problem.
– OK girl. Do you want to take your shower with me then?
– I’ve already taken one. But maybe I’ll take another one with you later But let’s be clear, I can tell you no at any time. Would you respect that?
– LOL OK. Park in the bir hakeim
– Okay. I can be there within 45 minutes I guess, that’s good for you?
– Yes, if you want to take a shower
– Why ? It’s too early ?
– No because you come to my house and I want to shower
– Take your shower then ^^
– No it’s less exciting. So are you getting cold feet or are you coming?
– I am coming ! Why, do you have someone else on hold?
– no LOL
– I arrive around 7 pm in the square.
– Ok I live next door
– I am in the square.”
After only a few hours of discussion, I had in front of me a pretty little blonde with green eyes who is climbing and who lives in Vienna. She is 27 years old, which is also my age. We drank tea at home and we talked. She is a school teacher, just like my accomplice (for whom I am leaving Adopte).
She was tense “this is the first time I do this, it’s crazy to go to a guy I do not know”. After an hour of conversation, I offered to go taking this famous shower together. She said she wanted to, but did not know if she could. “I’ll help you”: I took her by the hand to screw her in the bathroom. There, I undressed her and she undressed me. She kissed me and finally, panic attack… SUDDEN DEATH OF GAME! There was nothing more to do, she dressed like a rocket and left like a fury. To retain her, I told her about the concept of “comfort zone” and everything, but it had no effect: she said she would think about it and disappeared!
Well, I do not care, I at least could kiss her, caress her little breasts and her nice ass. After she left, I masturbated and I watched a movie. I slept well !
Today (Saturday), I met a 42-year-old MILF. I was talking to her for several days on Adopte so it was urgent to conclude because my subscription ends soon.
“Hello
– Hello beautiful
– Ah it’s always nice to take compliments !!
– Good for you I liked your phrase “the essential is the quality of the moment”
– Yes yes but it can be confusing, some think I am for the one night stands… what does not make me dream much
– the important thing is thathe it is not a bad lover
– Yes…
– And so if you sent me a message is that you would like to meet me then?
– Yes you are intriguing with your 20 pages that I started to read but that I did not finish you know !!
– So do you prefer to come to my house or me to come to your house? It gives you time to finish reading tonight
– No for a first date I prefer an appointment outside. If you meet women who invite you to her home without knowing you then go! it must be very rare
– Of course there are plenty of women who come to me It’s a limiting belief so that it’s up to you to see if you want to have a drink here
– If you really want to meet me you will make “effort” to have a drink outdoors, if not, too bad for you
– If you want me to make you orgasm you’ll make the effort to come to my house tonight
– At least, it’s clear!!! You are very confident and you will make me derogate from my principles you. But not tonight is not the right time of the cycle…
– No problem we can meet up week then? Yes, but having principles is not necessarily the best thing for your own pleasure
– Yes but find myself between 4 walls with someone I do not know, who knows maybe a psychopath like there is a lot on this site, I do not know if I will take the step
– In life, do you always imagine the worst?
– No no but as you saw I’m not 20 years old, I have a bit of experience, and it happened twice I tell myself “luckily I’m not in his home” !!!
– Yeah but never did you think this guy could have offered me a night out of time I could have enjoyed without judgment but I regret not having dared?
– Yes probably
– So next week you come
– This weekend are you there, Saturday afternoon?
– Yes.
– Don’t you want to go down at least the time I see you anyway before going up with you ??”
At the appointed hour she was there, in front of my door. A very classy woman, a beautiful brunette with Maghrebian origin, well preserved. With green eyes on a dull skin, the charm does not age. I went looking for her downstairs and she went up without any resistance.
We talked for about an hour. She told me “at my age, I have no time to wait”. She also told me that she found it very flattering that a young person of my age took an interest in her and that she hoped to take advantage of it because she did not like the guys of her age at all. She prefers vigor!
I took care of her, she sucked me and fucked too. I finished her on all fours. She told me it was the first time she had sex with a guy after only 1 hour of conversation.
When she left, she was broken and asked me if I was always taking so good care of the women’s bodies. It’s very flattering…
Concerning my relationship with The Teacher, I think the “very serious” begins now. Well, I know that a relationship that works is a fairly delicate balance… so I do not know if our relationship can work without I pick women up on my side… the future will tell! I have to throw myself into the big bath and try to find out.
May the God of the Game be with us…
10 books for managing anxiety crisis and depression
I am writing here for free the list of 10 books that have helped me the most to manage my anxiety crisis and my depression.
Let’s go !
1/ GUÉRIR le stress, l’anxiété et la dépression sans médicament ni psychanalyse by David Servan-Schreiber (only in French)
2/ Guérir son enfant intérieur by Moussa Nabati (only in French)
3/ Coping Successfully with Panic Attacks by Shirley Trickett
4/ Eloge de la lucidité by Ilios Kotsou (only in French)
5/ Le moine et le philosophe by Mathieu Ricard and Jean-François Revel (only in French)
6/ Buddha’s brain by Rick Hanson and Rick Mendius
7/ La force des émotions by Christophe André and François Lelord (only in French)
8/ Méditer, jour après jour, Christophe André (only in French)
9/ Faire face à la dépression, Charly Cungi and Ivan-Druon Note (only in French)
10/ Où tu vas, tu es, Jon Kabat-Zinn (only in French)
Others I need to talk about :
– The power of now, Eckhart Tolle
– La sérénité de l’instant, Thich Nhât Hanh (only in French)
10 of the best books and ebooks to learn seduction
I am writing here for free the list of 10 books that have helped me the most to learn seduction.
Let’s go !
1/ The Game, Neil Strauss !
2/ The art of seduction, Robert Greene : un très bon pavé !
3/ Pourquoi les femmes des riches sont belles, Philippe Gouillou : this book about Evopsy is only in French !
4/ Psychologie de la séduction, Nicolas Guéguen (only in French) !
5/ Les codes inconscients de la séduction, Philippe Turchet (only in French) !
6/ Les secrets d’un mentaliste : stratégies de séduction, JB Daumont (only in French) !
7/ Le premier sexe, Eric Zemmour (only in French) !
8/ Sociologie du dragueur, Alain Soral (only in French) !
9/ Comment plaire en 3 minutes, Patricia Delahaie (only in French) !
10/ The Truth, Neil Strauss !
Ebooks :
– Be relentless, David X
– Le NPU en solo, Kidrebel (only in French)
– Attraction isn’t a choice, David DeAngelo
– Double your dating, David DeAngelo
– How to become an alpha male, John Alexander
– Real World Seduction, Swinggcat
– Revelation, Mystery
– L’amour est dans la rue, Mad (only in French)
– How to get the women you desire into bed, Ross Jeffries
– Game Acceleration 2.0, Sinn
– Cajun’s blog, Cajun
How to approach a girl ?
On the Internet we can find all sorts of advice (more or less good) when we type “how to approach a woman?” I will therefore make here a synthesis of good advice to approach a girl well.
Obviously, this is not going to fit in a single page because we do not approach the same way when we approach a stranger in the street, a woman in a party or at work, college, etc. It is necessary to develop a minimum without writing a book of 1000 pages. Hard, this exercise!
In life, we often see women we like but it is difficult to approach them and break the ice. In short, making the first contact with unknowns that we like is almost an art. Approaching in the street, it’s even harder !
Why approaching strangers?
Often, when we meet a girl we like, we do not try anything. Sometimes we are afraid of losing (not knowing what to say, being ridiculous, being rejected), sometimes we are afraid of success (sexual anxiety, etc.)
But it is a shame because by not approaching these women we like, we deprive ourselves of potential relationships in which we could flourish. In fact, we have everything to gain by trying our luck with unknowns… and not much to lose (if one thinks well, anyway, we do not know the girl and we will not see her again unless trying something).
By approaching, we give ourselves the choice and maximize our chances. Indeed, if we do not approach, we are then limited to the girls of our close entourage… girls we do not necessarily like. Who really has the choice in life, in fact? Girls who can only answer “yes” or “no” to guys who approach them… or guys who can approach almost all the girls they want?
So, be careful, eh, when I talk about approaching strangers, I do not speak of street harassment because YES, we can approach with politeness and respect, and YES, many women enjoy that… whatever Marion Séclin and her girlfriends say!
Limiting beliefs
Most guys who do not approach women are full of limiting beliefs. They are convinced that it is wrong, that they piss the chick off, that only the losers of the cities approach in the street, that the girl they could meet is too good for them, etc.
Finally, through these beliefs implanted by education, society keeps men on a leash and invites them to stay in their place.
Some guys nevertheless realize the absurdity of the thing and manage to dare to approach. But they do it with shame, they speak with a small voice (usually it goes up in acute), are afraid of the gaze of others, etc.
In short, they only half assume their step, wonder what the girl will think of them, if she will reject them, and so on. They are not really in the moment.
The reality is that to approach a girl the good way, beliefs are decisive. They are your reality that you take everywhere with you.
The first of the victories for you should not be to do not be rejected by a woman, but to have dared to approach a woman… whether it works or not! Little by little, you will change your state of mind, you will arm yourself and you will become less and less afraid to approach unknowns (well, approach anxiety never completely disappears but it nevertheless decreases sharply).
You must work on your mind to have constructive, positive beliefs that will help you taking action and achieving your goals with women. So tell yourself that babes love to be approached by men like you. That’s a chance for her! Sometimes it will really be the case, sometimes not, but the most important thing is that you keep your morale and you have sex !
Personally, I know that if I fuck a girl, she will orgasm as rarely in her life. So, when a woman rejects me, my belief is that she loses more than me so… so much the worse for her!
Only handsome men can be successful in approaching unknowns
In fact, knowing that one is beautiful gives a certain amount of confidence, which is doubly appealing. But if you are not particularly beautiful, you can still feel confident and be attractive… anyway, having the balls to approach a girl you like, in itself is already attractive because it is showing a lot of courage and strenght of character!
In addition, being beautiful can be a problem on the long-term because the receptive chicks may think that you are necessarily faithful… and will be wary of the seducer that you are (sometimes they are afraid of womanizers if they are not really confident).
Errors on physical appearance
Avoid stinking when approaching a stranger.
Hairdress a little, but not like a first-class boy or a nerdy.
Cut off the hairs that grow on the ears or protrude from the nose.
Dress in a way that gives a good picture of you because, when you approach an unknown, the first impression plays enormously. Indeed, the girl has only a few seconds to put you in a box (if possible “potential lover”), basically, to decide if she wants to go further with you or not. Do not blame her, it is the game, but put all the same the maximum of chances on your side.
You understand the logic: do not get eliminated…
Body Language
Your eyes, your way of posing your voice, your smile, your way of holding yourself: it is all part of the body language and is, with your dress style, the first thing that the woman you are talking to sees.
I make it short: a good body language, confident, it is simply a relaxed body language.
The emotions are contagious so to put the chick you approach at ease, it is absolutely necessary to avoid communicating stress. But you must still have some authority in the voice to make her stop walking and stay talking with you (do not run after a girl to pick her up while she ignores you or leaves despite the fact that she heard you…)
The approach sentences (openers)
Always prefer a contextual approach because when it is personalized according to the girl and the situation, it saves you from passing for one of these clones of the pick-up. The girl is convinced that you do not use one of those ready-made phrases you could repeat by playing a role. If in doubt, always prefer frankness and sincerit …
A contextual (or situational) approach contributes to the fact that the girl feels that she is unique to you and that you are not a serial seducer (many do not like this idea).
Direct and indirect approaches
A direct approach is to explicitly declare your interest in the girl you are approaching. For example “I like your style so I came talking to you.”
The indirect approach is “I am looking for a gift for my sister and I need a feminine opinion”. That’s crap! Prefer direct approaches because it pays better…
The more you are in an environment where there are a lot of women (street, big clubs, Internet) the more you can be cash because you will not be easily plugged in as a sex-starved who tries with all the hot chicks… which would of course lower your value).
If you decide to approach in a closed environment (at work, at university, etc.) then you must be less direct to preserve your reputation.
To get to know a girl with whom you have common friends, the easiest way is to take part in a conversation with her and other people, or make yourself be introduced to her at a party, etc.
Do not put too much pressure on subjects of conversation because, remember, in any case, when two people enjoy: the important thing is to start the conversation, whatever the subject. If you like the girl she will be happy and it will be great…
Small talk
It is sure that knowing a little improvising and chattering the chicks is always useful. But do not bother to do too much: it is better to approach with a low level of energy than with a level too high…
Time limits
Putting a limit of time when approaching, it avoids passing for a weirdo that will stick the girl for hours and it reassures as to your “normality”. But be smart and do not say “I have to join friends after then I only have 2 minutes” because it would make it impossible to make n instant date. Prefer to say “I was with friends and I am going home…”
Sexualization
It is important to sexualize the conversation so as not to fall into the friendzone… but do not do anything in any context as you would take the risk of passing for a pervert. So, to go further, I invite you to read my ebook “Friendzone and sexualization“.
Also beware of cockblocks, jealous friends, other guys who want to fuck the girl, etc. I give tips in 1000 sexy alpha funny lines to manage them well.
The rejection
We don’t give a shit about rejection: there are a lot of fish in the ocean. In addition, if you’d win each time, the game would not even be funny and the win would not have the same flavor. So, show yourself unaffected in case of rejection, as if the girl had lost more than you in interaction… and move on!
Above all, learn to differentiate rejection (abandon) and resistance (insist a little because some chicks need you to show their determination before allowing themselves to yield).
Well, I hope you like it. Do not hesitate to complete this article in the comments if you see other things to say!
How to dare approaching a girl
When we want to approach a girl, when we are with a chick and hesitate to kiss her (or simply to sexualize the interaction), a little voice in our mind almost always whispers apologies to tempt us to do not act.
These excuses make people hesitate, procrastinate and sometimes even cause unpleasant physical sensations in some people (stress rises, heartburns, febrile legs, trembling voice) because of the internal conflict they create: basically, you wanna take action, but at the same time, you prevent yourself from doing it.
Thanks to these shitty excuses, the man can do nothing without too much remorse. Yes, it is much simpler to invent apologies than to confront fears … but it is not satisfactory. When we do this, somewhere in us, we realize that we are lying.
Where do these excuses come from?
Because we are a rather “intelligent” race, we tend to think and find excuses instead of following directly our first thought. This is the bad side of an evolved brain. My dog and my cat, for example, when they want to see someone, they go straight and jump on him or her without asking themselves many questions. To overcome your blockages, it would therefore be necessary to stop thinking too much and act!
Examples of excuses:
– I do not have time to go out and pickup right now, I’m too busy (when in fact… no…)
– I will not approach this girl, I’m already talking to another girl by texts on my phone, it would not be polite…
– Well… I’ll talk to her later, when she will no longer be with her friends who could judge me…
– I can not try to kiss her, I did not wash my teeth at noon…
– I have not showered since last night, I can not fuck her… and then, anyway, I jerked yesterday so I do not really have desire…
How can this silly little inner voice be silenced?
1/ Unfortunately, we can not silence our inner voice. On the other hand, we can don’t give a shit about what she tells or even take some malicious delight in contradicting her. Frankly, between us, it’s up to the girl to decide if she wants to kiss you or not, whether you have your teeth clean or not, so try your luck and you’ll see !!! Do not decide for people based on what you think they think…
2/ Another solution is to replace this inner voice which finds excuses by a voice that says more constructive things, for example “put one foot in front of the other, walk towards this beautiful blonde, look at her in the eyes and talk to her.”
3/ One can also sing or talk to a buddy so that the small inner voice can not express itself by saying negative things. It is in fact easier to control your inner voice than your external voice… and, fortunately, the two are struggling to express themselves at the same time!
How to dare?
At first, it is normal to sometimes be afraid to take action and seek to justify it afterwards. But to progress in seduction and move on in life, it is imperative to take a positive step.
The best solution is to decide something and do it. Set rules and stick to them, whatever the situation. In any case, the perfect situation does not often exist, so it’s better to adapt to a present situation rather than to fantasize on better conditions. However, because self-discipline often isn’t often enought, other avenues must be considered.
1/ One solution is to practice until you get sick of not getting there. Then, to get angry with yourself because you still do not dare to do what you want to do. Most men make the mistake of giving up when they get upset while it is a very powerful source of energy that can be exploited. Sometimes I force myself to approach at the beginning of the session (because the fear of the approach is and will surely always be there) but I do not expect anything from the chicks to whom I speak (I am in the game more than in the stake ). I do my act, I get rejected and I see it as a warm-up. Then I get upset because I realize that the fear of approach is useless. And it is often once warm that I no longer feel social fear and that I try some very daring things that sometimes work. Note that desensitization to social rejection also works with alcohol but I do not advise you to drink because it is very bad for health. And because a drunk guy is not very sexy.
2/ Some people overcome their fear of approach through small rituals or fetishes that allow them to motivate themselves and find enough courage to overcome their fears. Personally, I like to calm down before so I start playing on my breath, taking long inspirations/expirations.
3/ Frequenting and going out with people who are in the community of seduction can also help you get started. Indeed, with them, the social pressure is reversed and it is the fact of not approaching that becomes unacceptable. With my friends, sometimes we go out and slap every time we do not dare to approach a sexy chick. Sometimes, too, we give our money to a guy, and he gives it back to us little by little when we approach or kiss a girl. I can guarantee you that it motivates to move your ass!
4/ Another solution is to use the 3 seconds rule that Mystery has developed in The Game : to approach within 3 seconds when one sees a girl so as not to have time to have negative and parasites thoughts.
5/ You can also try to think differently. Instead of wanting to get something from the chicks (their validation or their pussy), tell yourself that you offer them the opportunity to meet an alpha guy and a good lover. You will be more confident with such a state of mind…
6/ You may very well choose not to think about the interaction. Do not try to imagine what might happen. Your philosophy would be to always try your luck “I wonder what would happen if I did this… ah well I will try…” This way is very instructive, we learn a lot about the possibilities by doing so (know that most people feel limited by a glass jail)!
7/ To finish, a technique that I have used for a long time is to systematically try to kiss or take the number of all the girls I approached and that I liked a little. So, I did not even do it really for the girl, but for me. As a challenge on myself. Who knows ? It could work for you too…
Anyway don’t forget that when one tries to repress the feeling of fear, it is increased. Then acknowledge that you are afraid and accept this fear. It’s normal to be afraid… But if you do nothing, this fear will NOT disappear as if by magic! Accepting to have been afraid once or twice, it’s OK. On the other hand, accepting to undergo this fear all your life, NO!
I advise you to try different things until you find what works for you. Do not get discouraged and do not forget that, as I often say “the most beautiful adventures take place outside our comfort zone…”
If you are really blocked, you can start by approaching a girl by asking her for the time or whatever (or a drink if it’s a waitress in a club). Not to pick her up but to warm you up. Do this several times, and when you are “hot”, approach chicks to really seduce them more frankly. By dint of approaching, you will end up enjoying a certain momentum and you will be more or less uninhibited. But beware, disinhibition does not last long and the fear of approach comes back to different degrees!
Daring to approach chicks is easier when we have a good mentality, when we say that if we do not go it is that we are a fag. Thinking “upside down” in relation compared with the mass of people (who think it is unthinkable to approach unknowns) by convincing yourself that many chicks would be delighted to be approached by a seductive guy as you helps a lot… Well, accept to being perfect and … go!
Is there valid excuses?
Finally, do not make me say what I did not say. There are still valid excuses: for example, if you are really late for work, if she is holding a guy’s hand, for example… or if she has a penis… you have to be discerning! Be scandalous if you want but do not do anything either. Be reasonable but courageous and open-minded !