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10 pick-up techniques

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pick up technique

Are there truly pick-up techniques or do you just have to work on yourself to improve your lifestyle and communication skills?

To try to see more clearly, I have listed 10 (recognized) techniques of seduction and I will analyze them.

Pick-up Technique 1: Frame and reframing

This is about mastering communication in general and living in a reality of male alpha to try to be happy and attract women in this reality that highlights you. For me, it’s mainly NLP and communication.

Pick-up Technique 2: the prizing

It is a question of not accepting the status of a man who is sex-sstarved and who must do everything to obtain the favors of women. You must understand that you are a man who has value and you must respect yourself. It is a story of communication with yourself.

Pick-up Technique 3: storytelling

It is a matter of learning how to tell the stories in such a way as to give emotions to your interlocutors. This is especially important when you tell erotic stories to the chicks to warm them. 100% communication.

Pick-up Technique 4: the kino

Touching a person makes you look more sympathetic in her or his eyes, this has been proved many times by numerous studies. This is again a story of interpersonal communication.

Pick-up Technique 5: Make her feel unique

Even if you bet a lot on the statistics and you pick-up a lot of women at the same time… it is important to make them feel unique to maximize your chances of concluding! This is a simple understanding of the opposite sex.

Pick-up Technique 6: Invite the girl at home and raise sexual tension

To do this, one must already have a “home” (question of lifestyle), have the nerve to invite a chick (so you need a little nerve that you can acquire by working on yourself) and make a kinesthetic escalation. This is about understanding what sexual tension is and learning to play with, not being destabilized by it and exciting the woman in the good way. Above all, it is a question of understanding the world around us.

Pick-up Technique 7: Sexy humor

I dedicated an entire ebook to sexy humor. It’s a question of communication!

Pick-up Technique 8: The relax body language

I dedicated an entire ebook to body language. This is obviously a question of communication!

Pick-up technique 9: Ttwo steps forward, one step back

Learning to do double-edged compliments, to practice two steps forward, one back to make things easier to accept, it’s a communication skill. We find the same techniques in psychology, sales, marketing, etc.

Pick-up Technique 10: Having the nerve and assuming

To attract women like light attracts butterflies, you must have a good lifestyle (or be very sexy). Nevertheless, it is useless to attract girls if we cannot conclude with. So it takes nerve and assume your sexuality to get to have the sex life of your dreams.

To finish, I leave you with the video “Seduction = manipulation?

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What message should you send after the first date?

What message should you send after the first date

What message should you send after the first date

Often, after a first date, the guys want to send a text to show the girl they liked her. Like if the chick needed that… no, but, man, she knows that your dick itches! Everyone knows, by the way…

The biggest mistake would be to send a shitty test after a first date. For example “I had a delicious time with you. You are a great girl, I hope you will agree to see me again”. It’s a needy, it’s cliché, it puts the girl on a pedestal, and so on.

So what should you do?


Hypothesis number 1: the first date was good

Well then? If the first date was good, you should not have to send her after a message telling her that you liked her. Assume when you are in front of her! If the first date was good, you should have (at least) kissed her and so it is she who should send you a text to tell you that she has enjoyed your proactive sexy attitude. You’re the prize, damn!

What, then, will you answer her, when she will recontact you to say that she enjoyed this fiery kiss? Well, there you will be able to propose to meet up again (you can even push to invite her directly to your place). Be careful, some chicks really wanted you to kiss or fuck them during the first date and will not contact you if you took no initiative… despite the fact that they liked you! You thought to be a romantic who takes his time, you actually looked like for a loser who without dick…

You can also, by text, bounce on things you talked about during the date… for example by making private jokes. It will create a complicity between you and the girl will be even warmer when you see her again!

About the timing, it is useless to make a false suspense. When she writes to you and you have the opportunity, answer her. If you are really a guy with a good lifestyle, it will not sound needy anyway… and the timing will be inevitably good! If, on the other hand, you have a bad game and a life of shit: start by making personal development to improve it and the rest will follow, I swear !

 

Hypothesis 2: you do not know if the date was good for her

In this case, I suggest waiting a little and… if she does not send a message, do it (maybe she is just shy) ! But this is the only case you have to send the first text after a date. Wait at least the next day or even one day more before sending something to make her react and show her that it’s up to her to move for you (in your head you’re a fucking alpha male). For example, “so, are you dead?” And then that’s all… If she does not answer or if she does not answer a constructive and positive thing, just forget about her! Protect your little heart !!!

Seriously, do not rock yourselves any illusion because there is 1 chance in 2 that she never answers (for example, if the date was bad for her but you did not understand that). I know that what I write can shock the sensitive souls of the naive, the inexperienced and the younger but it is the truth! Sometimes you believe that the chick had a good time but in fact she just pulled out her mask of politeness and does not intend to go any further with you. Why did not she say anything? Out of cowardice, she did not want you to get upset and taking the risk you hurt her, because of her education as a tight-ass bourgeois, what do I know?

So, how do you know if, in fact, she got pissed off or not? It must be seen whether she left early with a false excuse, if she showed no sign of interest, and so on. It must be understood that most of the chicks do not try to offend the guys. They will just say “yes” when you ask “we’ll meet again?” Sometimes they even go so far as saying to you “it was good, see you soon” but will never answer any of your messages again. It’s like that, it’s life… You have to desecrate the pussy!

 

Hypothesis number 3: the first wasn’t good

In that case, do not write the first one! I often saw girls joining me in my bed after a bad first date that they had shortened… then receiving a text from the guy who was trying to feed the conversation hoping to still shoot a spermatozoon. Their reaction of sluts? They openly made fun of him… I am not kidding! So avoid being humiliated by acting like a sex-starved, respect yourself!

Here is an excerpt from a story that is kinda old but is edifying: “To leave her first date of the evening, she pretended to have a headache (what an excuse). And, something like 1 hour later, the guy sent her a text “Are you feeling better?” How naive. Especially since she started to speak badly of him in front of me “well, he writes me not even an hour later, it must be a poor guy who has no other plans in his life, I did well dumping him”. Conclusions: do not believe everything they tell us AND sending a small word like that even if it is out of kindness comes down to humiliation. How sad !”

In fact, if the current is not well passed with a chick, why would you want to see her again? It just shows you do not have no women in your life… It communicates bad things. Failing to flatter your dick, at least heal your reputation and have a little self-love.

 

Sorry.

 

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Why meeting on the street?

meeting on the street

Meeting people on the street is possible and it is not even difficult. Having sex women met in the street is also possible… but it is a little more difficult. For example, for my Cyprine training, I had to do 3 intensive days of street pick-up before I managed to instant fuckclose.

Otherwise, I already kissed and fucked some other chicks whose number I had taken in the street. In fact, street pick-up is not what I prefer, but I think it should be practiced anyway.

Why ? Below are 7 reasons to meet on the street.

1/ Because it is very formative. Making encounters in the street teaches you a lot about yourself, about others and about the possibilities.

2/ Because we can meet a lot of girls that we would have met if not. Indeed, some chicks are not registered on any dating site and never go out in nightclubs…

3/ Because being in the right places at the right time is way to play on the statistics by approaching a lot… and thus to find a right match. For example, in a big city like Paris, you can approach all day: the number of girls seems unlimited and only fatigue can stop you… it is a good way to provoke your chance!

4/ In the street, you can talk without screaming, unlike nightclubs. In addition, you quickly see if there is a connection with the other person unlike with dating sites that do not let pass all the elements of the body language.

5/ Because we are fed up that the man loses his balls in France. I heard that there will soon be a law preventing men from approaching women in the street? What next ?! We have to organize resistance !!! Let’s not let the feminazies and the fucking politically correct assholes cut us off what remains of our balls.

6/ Because it’s free and a meeting “like our grandparents did”… well, it’s rather romantic.

7/ Because some girls have the fantasy of getting approached in the street.

Now, here are 3 reasons to be wary of the street pick-up.

1 / Because you can come across a chick who has the brain turned over by Marion Seclin and her girlfriends from Madmoizelle: she will probably try to send you into jail by lying and pretending you assaulted her by touching her ass like 70 guys before while you would actually just had time to say “hi, I saw you…” and that nobody else spoke to her during the day.

2/ Because with the current media campaign that seeks to prevent encounters on the streets (the only meeting environment where you do not have to pay) and which is clearly aimed at making people more and more solitary, so weak and manipulable, a lot of women will send you to Hell more or less politely when you’ll approach them. Even if they were actually very happy to talk to a man even though they were very happy that you reassured them about their seductive power and even if they secretly dreamed of meeting a man like you. So, the success rate when you pick-up on the street is very low…

3/ Because of the current campaign of demonization of the street pick-up, you will be assimilated to a stalker when you talk to people about your passion for street pick-up. This can hurt your reputation. The noisy minority of riff-raff sexual harassers has beaten the majority of guys class, respectful and well-intentioned.

Sorry but between the fragile jealous of your ability and most of the chicks (who would be unable to approach the street) who do not recognize that it takes a lot of courage to do that, the quasi-entire society will be merciless with you… you have to know and prepare yourself!

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How to have a girlfriend ?

How to get a girlfriend

Have the following questions ever touched your mind? “How to make out with a pretty girl? How to be a couple with a sexy girl? How can I find a really interesting girlfriend?”

First, why a couple with a girl? I mean, in high school there’s a social pressure “ah you’ve never kissed a girl ?!”, In college, it is the same “ah you have never had sex?” The worst is when your friends are guys who have success with chicks… it starts to itch in the panties !!!

So, my first advice is not to put pressure on yourself by absolutely trying to “depucleate” yourself. My second advice is to put all the chances on your side by listening to the suggestions I make in this article. The third is to tell you “fuck off, social pressure, I will have a girlfriend!”

1/ Is it necessary to wait patiently to please a girl or should one provoke his chance?

The answer may seem obvious. In France, it is almost impossible to make out with a girl without approaching her. To be able to “afford” to be passive in love, one would have to be fucking beautiful or very popular, etc.

In an open environment like the street, you have about 0 chance that a chick will take the first step towards you to tell you that she likes you and that she wants to know you better. In a closed environment, like in a high school or college, I would say that you have 1 in 5 chance that it happens to you. On the Internet, chicks feel less social pressure… so, it happens a little more often… I would say that you have 2 out of 5 chances to be approached.

But even if you are approached by a chick, will this chick be for your taste ? No, you must take your responsibilities to be in control of your love life.

2/ Becoming more attractive

If you’re have difficulties making out with girls, it’s probably because your perceived value is quite low (which does not mean you have no potential) or you do not act very well (for example, you never leave your house…)

So, above all, I advise you to work on your reputation, behave in a more “cool” way, don’t spend all your days playing video games, improve your look, hang out a bit with popular people, say hello to pretty girls to benefit from a certain preselection, etc.

One very important thing, which is the basis of everything to achieve this goal, is to work on your body language. Do not neglect the power of making a good first impression!

3/ Show your balls

Do not send your buddies asking the girl in question if she wants to make out with you or not. Your buddy could have the priority like in the movie Nos jours heureux.

Do not pass by the girlfriends of the girl you like because it would communicate that you do not have the balls to take the first step. It would be absolutely not attractive…

The best thing is to go and approach the girl yourself or to get by to meet her and talk to her. Do not start saying “do you want to be my girlfriend?” : you would risk a kinda violent rejection. Try to create some attraction between you, especially with kinos. Then, ask for her phone number or Facebook and finally meet up again.

4/ Is this girl for you?

I admit that at the beginning of my career of pick-up artist, I didn’t give a shit about if the chick is made for me or not. I just wanted to fuck, satisfy my sexual urges and gain some sex experience.

Today, I am always looking for fun but I am seriously thinking about becoming a dad and founding a family. So, I can testify: for staying a long time with a girl met in the street, you have to be very lucky. Remember, we must have a girl out of nowhere matches us, it’s rare anyway! She must have the same vision of life, the same ambitions, and so on.

Because, yeah, throwing our sights on someone who does not really correspond to us is taking a big risk of living quite a lot of disappointments after suffering in a shitty relationship.

So, to optimize our chances of meeting someone who matches us (because “who looks alike matchs” in life), it may be opportune to frequent the same places as the type of girl that is hooked. To do this, we must ask ourselves and try to think about what we are looking for in women and then find where we can go to meet this kind of girls. There is also the solution to resort to dating sites that can be effective.

5/ Sexualize and conclude

Try to have a date with the girl you like. Sexualize of course during the date so as not to end up in the friendzone. And, at the end of this date, if it goes well and you still like her, you’ll have to kiss her… and fuck her.

And you have to fuck her WELL to make her addict!

Some say it is unthinkable to be a couple with a girl we fucked the first night. I get upset, I met a lot of my long relationships (including my current girlfriend) by fucking her the first night. The truth is that it does not mean anything at all except for bloody-minded people.

After the fuck, you have to keep in touch and see her again.

 

Anyway, remember that I think it is important not to put too much pressure on yourself to find a girlfriend at all costs. Because, who says “pressure” says “it works less well”. I always met my girlfriends with whom I stayed for a long time at times when I did not expect it, when I was not looking for anything special.

I was quietly fluttering, then some caught my attention and made me want to deepen the relationship. It’s still better than being a couple by default with the first coming who wants a couple with us, right? And even for them, it’s more rewarding than going out with a guy who has no choice in his sex life and who wants them because they represent his only chance to have a girlfriend!

See you later !

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How to feel better ?

How to feel better

 

How to feel better Sometimes we get a little slack. After a rejection, a breakup or afternothing special (it happens sometimes, it’s just like that…)

So here are 10 tips to feel better!

1/ Pick-up

Sometimes I go through times when things are not going well. But it is enough that I pick up a receptive chick that really gives me desire for her and I find taste for life. So, do not hesitate to go out to and pick-up when you feel bad.

2/ Sex

Sometimes, I just have to fuck a sexfriend that moves well in bed to feel better. It’s true that a good fuck, it whips the blood! A good blowjob, it feels good and the post-coital hug is awesome! I take advantage of this point to clarify that on the contrary, when it is not going too well, masturbation makes me depress even more…

3/ Rest

Sometimes I do not feel right because I am (very) tired. It happens during intense pick-up periodes or during the season changes. You do not have to think too much, sometimes you just have to rest a little and it gets better. A good nap? A good night’s sleep ? Each his own solution…

4/ Take a walk in nature

When I made a fucking depression, a few years ago, it was good for me to go walking in the nature behind my parents’ home (it’s really the countryside there). I often went with my dog ​​and sometimes even took off my shoes: the contact of my bare feet on the ground helped me feel alive.

5/ Good food

Being lighter, losing fat or just eating enough fruits and vegetables: this may be enough to get back on track. The morale, after all, it is above all a question of biology and therefore of hormones. That’s why, giving our bodies what they really need (eating salads rather than hamburgers for example)… well, that’s good.

Attention, I have nothing against a cheat meal from time to time (like once a week), because it can do good to morale too…

6/ Omega 3 and Vitamin D

Everyone is more or less deficient in omega 3 and vitamin D today. So, it can then be interesting to complement. Or take the sun and eat more fish…

7/ Get a massage

A massage can do much good to morale.

8/ Playing sports

Sports make secretion hormones of well-being, so it’s a good way to feel better. But pay attention to do not get hurt: do not force too much if you do not feel well, because it is often in those times that one gets hurt…

9/ Going out, seeing friends

Getting out of your home is good. But seeing friends actually is better. Sometimes a good discussion and it goes much better! It changes your mind!!!

10/ The placebo effect

Many other practices work to feel better : acupuncture for example. We do not know if it really works on body and mind or if it is the placebo effect that makes feeling good but the main thing is that it helps, right?

If nonetheless your morale decline persists and handicaps you, you should perhaps consider making an appointment with a doctor…

 

In any case, to avoid too frequent morale drops, it might be appropriate for you to consider a personal development process…

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The emotional dependence

emotional dependence

emotional dependenceFirst, what is affective dependence?

Definition

Emotional addiction is dependence on a person… most often to your boyfriend or girlfriend.

Like addiction to a psychotropic substance, emotional dependence must be taken care of because it puts the victim into a state of stress that mixes jealousy, possessiveness, frustration, chronic dissatisfaction and the over-sized need for the other.

People who are victims of emotional dependence always and too much doubt the feelings of their guy or their girlfriend… it is the kind of person constantly asking for proofs of love and to stifle the other.

Symptoms

Symptoms of emotional dependence include mood swings, nervous attacks, insomnia, etc. This can go very far! Sometimes the person who is emotionally addicted forbids his or her partner from visiting family, friends, co-workers, etc.

In the most extreme cases (as can sometimes be seen in Confessions intimes), the jealous person even forbids his or her lover to go out and buy bread alone. It goes too far!

I am for independence in the couple because a couple is not a unit but the meeting of two wills not in a merger but in a union… As a result, each member should be able to start his or her own projects, make decisions alone(e), enjoying being alone sometimes, etc.

Danger

Emotional dependence in a couple can be very difficult to live if it lasts and can therefore lead to depression or a broken relationship. It is a matter of usury. Apart from the fact that the two protagonists have a very low level of self-confidence, it is very hard to tolerate the emotional dependence of the other during a whole life.

I advise you to dig the question to see if your spouse (if he is the emotional dependent) is dependant all the time he is in a relationship or if it is a special treatment for you. If he does the same with everyone, it is not that you are exceptional in his eyes, it is that he or she is sick.

Origin

We often find the source of an affective dependence in the past of the person who is the victim. This may come from his or her relationship with his/her parents: often it comes from having experienced a fear of abandonment, a betrayal or something like that.

It can also come from past romantic relationships: often the person came out with a furious madwoman or with a narcissistic perverse who traumatized her, and so on.

Solutions to live a stable love story

You have to gain self-confidence to gain emotional autonomy. For this, a personal development work can be very effective.

You will have to stop doubting your qualities, stop thinking that you are not up to your partner, etc. You have to get these ideas out of the head and the fingers of your ass at the same time! The best way to achieve this goal is to do some work on yourself to have a rich and fulfilling personal life.

Whether you want to get your ex back, improve your life as a couple or find someone else, a work to become a better version of yourself will help you and you will not regret it. But be careful, we do not cure a love addiction in a few days… this requires a hard work, on yourself, that takes time. That said, it is an investment that seems to me very important for the rest of your life.

Here are some ways to improve your lifestyle:
– do a lot of sports;
– improve your diet to improve your fitness and feel better;
– take care of yourself, dress well;
– find a passion in life;
– have a few close relatives;
– define personal and professional goals.

To be differentiated from the amorous obsession

Unless you have a chance to gather more accurate and usable information, or if you are not in good shape, you have nothing to gain by delaying the encounter and attempting to seduce a desired person.

Rakes are rarely the problem. On the other hand, disappointment after a long uncertain wait is truly destructive… What then? Getting back in the saddle, of course.

“I am very sad… my heart is in trouble… I loved this girl, I was thinking of her every day! I wanted to be with her, to hang out with her… but after our first date, she preferred to tell me, kindly by mail, that she did not want to go further with me !! ??? What did I do? Why do not she likes me ? It’s hard to get refused by a girl you love, it hurts in my heart…”

In fact, the girl was very nice to tell this guy what she thought rather than leaving him in ignorance by ease until he gets tired… Uncertainty is even worse than failure… believe me !

Who knows the reasons for this failure? Not the right place? Not the right way? Too many people aware?

The only valid thing to do is to approach a woman and try. Without trying to complicate everything. It is through this attitude that we will all find THE one, one of these days.

And for now? This guy suffers, he had so much bet on this girl … THE ONLY RIGHT THING THAT HE CAN DO now is to go out and empty his mind with his friends and meet other women.

Of course, some will advise him to write letters of love with his blood, to make suicide attempts or to scream naked under the window of the girl, but it is a very bad idea, in practice.

It is better to move on, even if the ego does not like this idea.

Next time, this guy will not wait several weeks before approaching or showing his interest… and one of the following times he will meet a person who will be delighted by his attentions. This misadventure was only a step towards his success. But he does not have the necessary distance to see it.

In fact, it is not the girl who makes him suffer, we must not blame her. He suffers from the love obsession he has imposed to himself by imagining what it would have been like if…

If you are in a similar case, do not depress in your corner. You have to get back into the saddle and in a while, like this guy, you will not feel any pain and will be able to use this rejection as a useful experience.

In the community of seduction, this pseudo-loving state is called the “One It Is” (the One and Only). It is a self-inflicted love obsession which leads one to think that only the coveted girl can give meaning to the void of his life, etc.

When we advise beginners to approach right away, or as quickly as possible, it is also to avoid getting into this kind of pitiful state…

It is a sort of pathology of feelings. Not only does it make you sick, but it usually makes impossible a vaguely effective approach to seduction.

I am going to give you a confidence that hurts: hardly anyone likes ashore people. And those who love them are often even more worrisome than others (Savior’s syndrome, manipulators, followers of the race to the bottom who will resent you to death if you start to succeed one day…)

Unfortunately, it’s almost mathematical: feeding a love obsession for a girl means losing ground and missing the target while failure is obviously not an option you want to consider. Whether we like it or not, finding and seducing the woman of your dreams requires knowing how to keep your cool : one must learn how to think clearly. But obviously, this is not enough: to lucidity, we must combine the safety of gestures.

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The fear of women

The fear of womenMany men are afraid of women. But most of them do not even admit it to themselves because it is a taboo subject.

By putting my feet in the dish, I expect to receive a lot of insults in the comments “blahblahblah I am not afraid of women if I do not approach and if I practice only the missionary in bed it is just a question of respect…
– Shut up !”

Yeah, if you listen to the guys, they are all Don Juan who are not fags and who are very hot. But if you listen to the chicks, the average man in France, in our time, has lost his balls. The sexy guy a little macho, who is not afraid of anything, that chicks usually likes in TV shows or movies, is only a fantasy that is far from representing male sex.

Being afraid of women is a very common phenomenon. This is what I will make you aware of in this article (and you need to be aware of it because women are also increasingly afraid of men so we will not get out of it if no one does anything). Then I will give you some solutions to improve your love and sex life!

Before you begin, a little reminder: what are the symptoms of fear? Tangled throat, sweaty hands, tachycardia, stomach pain, ants in the limbs, paralysis, inability to concentrate, etc.

 

Are you able to approach an unknown girl ?

The fear of approaching women is the most obvious problem. And it makes sense because the approach is the first phase of a male-female interaction. If we do not go through this step, we cannot go further (except with dating sites).

Are you the kind of guy who hesitates, who procrastinates the day he will approach strangers, who invents apologies for doing nothing? If so, you are afraid of women. Are you the type of guys who approaches but who is silent in front of the girls or who is unable to say something interesting then who begins an investigation like Colombo “what is your name? How old are you ? Do you come here often ? What do you do in life ?” Again, if you have recognized yourself, then you are afraid of women.

Ah shit, I should have warned you that it was better to put your ego aside before reading this article.

Well. Where does this fucking fear come from ? The fear of approaching women is mostly related to the fear of the eyes of others…

It is the fear of being misunderstood if you approach a woman… it is the fear that a fucking feminist will throw on you to kill you while insulting you like a filthy beast “perverse stalker“! Yeah, I admit, thanks to Marion Seclin and her hateful friends, we live in a rather anxious climate that absolutely does not help men and women to be sexually fulfilled (this is a little the general psychosis and the guilt of everyone). Above all, we must not neglect the number of crazy hysterical women who circulate in the streets with the firm will to cut the balls to the first man who will speak to them.

The fear of approaching women is also the fear that the girl you are going to approach because she is sexy (she looks like Nabilla) and because she makes you hard is in fact a terrorist or the wife of a nervous guy who would unhesitatingly take out a knife from his pocket to stab you before even you speak. Yeah, I know, it’s politically incorrect to talk about insecurity in France and to say that there are people who are a bit crazy walking with impunity with weapons in the streets but that is the truth.

You may think that in case of an altercation, you could count on the solidarity of  other people and get you out of it alive? Well, all the lobotomized politically correct people will find it normal for you to get impaled because you are, according to them, the dirty stalker of a “poor defenseless women”. I may darken the picture a little, maybe the people around you would just not move, too happy that it is not they who are being murdered.

 

Are you able to sexualize with a girl you do not know well?

If the answer is “no” then you are afraid of women.

This may be related to a lack of experience, past bad experiences, an education that made you a too “nice” guy, to a physical complex (ears that stick out, big nose, small cock, premature ejaculator, not able to get hard, etc.)

How can you get out of it ? Fuck a lot of chicks, stop being afraid of being awesome in bed (at worst, it’s not so bad, we all started as a beginner one day), stop thinking that you need to be a romantic to sleep with a girl, stop being afraid of being thought of as a pervert, tell yourself that women love sex as much if not more than we do. In other words: stop sacralizing the woman. Also, stop putting the women on a pedestal! It looks like the whole present generation of men has been castrated…

 

Are you afraid to make yourself respected in your relationship?

Do you say “yes” to everything for fear of losing your girlfriend? Are you so afraid of upsetting her that you obey as soon as she demand something? Have you stopped to make yourself respected in privacy?

If so, you’ve lost your balls and you’re afraid of your wife… But do not worry, you’re not alone. Yeah, few men are able to stand up in front of their chick (with respect, of course, I do not speak here of beating her).

There are too many white knights and too many princesses in France! In short, how can you heal? I know it’s not easy (there’s no quick fix) but you’ll have to reframe your girlfriend or leave her and start on good bases with another (respect yourself, damn!)

 

So, I hope you are reassured about your situation. Accepting your fear is the first step to get out of it. You are not alone !

The fear of women

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What gift to offer to your girlfriend or wife?

What gift to offer to your girlfriend or wifeWhen one asks the question “what to offer to my girlfriend? “Or” what to offer to my wife?” One should not to think about the financial value but rather to the sentimental value of the object. A good gift is something that touches her and that she will use with pleasure by thinking of you. As far as money is concerned, the more you know her for a long time, the more you can invest without risking being screwed.

Gifts that are not expensive but can be very fun:
– A book (if she likes to read) that you can dedicate to her “to my darling brunette, your koala of love”.
– A CD of a band that she likes or the DVD of a film that she likes or that she wants to see. It will show her that you are listening to her and that is the most important thing… It makes her understand that she is unique and non-interchangeable in your eyes.
– A scented candle, a massage oil or an essential oil if she likes think kind of stuff. The babes love what smells good, in general.
– Develop and frame a photo of you two that has a special meaning.
– Visit together a difficult of access and romantic place (for sports or VIP women).

Jewelery (variable prices):

There are not many women who do not like jewelry. But in any case, do not offer a ring if you do not plan to marry the girl. A ring, it has a damn symbolic value. Pay attention ! A bracelet or a necklace, it seems to me a priori to be a better idea… Earrings also, it can be not bad.

On the other hand, as men, it is often difficult to understand something and to know what a beautiful jewel is. So, I have a trick: I like to walk casually in stores with my girlfriend and pay attention to what she likes. I do not buy her when she seems to love something but I come back alone a few days later to take the jewel she has been eyeing!

Then, if the girl often puts the jewel you offered her, then it is that she likes you very much.

A garment (variable prices):

Same strategy as with jewelry. A top or a dress, it often makes its small effect! But it is necessary to choose well, and this is the most delicate moment…

Shoes or bag (variable prices):

Idem.

Lingerie (in general it is quite expensive except some brands like Etam):

For Christmas, for her birthday or just like that, offering lingerie to a girl means communicating that you love her body. It’s sexy, erotic, and so on. And the best part of all this is that, normally, the lingerie will only be seen on her by you. This way, you create a certain complicity between you two. Besides, if you offer her that kind of stuff, it will encourage her to pay attention to her body and not become fat.

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Perfume (usually quite expensive):

The perfume is usually quite expensive. If you go to stores like Sephora, you will also find a lot of creams and stuff that go well with perfume… in general, chicks love this kind of stuff.

But to be sure that your girlfriend will like this perfume you have specifically chosen, make her smell it among others during your next visit to a store and ask her what she thinks. Do not her him of course why you make her smell perfumes « oh just like that! » Then, keep in mind the kind of stuff she seems to like!

A week-end somewhere (gift for two):

The chicks generally like to go on weekends with their man. The best is to plan a romantic week-end like a snowy cottage in winter where to make love on the skin of a beast in front of the fireplace. Or it’s cool to include an activity during your weekend, such as taking two tickets for the show of an artist she likes.

Avoid at all costs non-romantic gifts:

What is a non-romantic gift? A mixer, a microwave, a dildo belt, and so on. You understood the idea…

Even worse: A scales, a subscription in gym (is she at?) Attention to what it means !!!

And you, what are your best gift ideas?

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How to tell her that you love her: how can you tell a girl that you love her?

How to tell her that you love her

How to tell her that you love her

This is the kind of question I have to deal with even if I do not agree with the implicit starting assumption. Indeed, why should one at all costs SAY to a girl that he is LOVE with her ? Well, we’ll talk about that later…

Anyway, the best way to declare your love to a woman is certainly not the one you think… so read this article to the end at the risk of living quite a lot of violent disillusions!

1st case: you are sure you love her but you never made out with her

“How can I confess my feelings? ” If you think like this way, already, you’re wrong. Indeed, this sentence communicates that having feelings is a burden that must be hidden or got rid of at all costs. Considering romantic relationships like this might not take you very far.

Think a little : “I fulfill my DECLARATION of taxes, I ADMIT that it is me who broke the vase of the drawing-room, I CONFESS to the priest that I have already stolen some donuts in a store.” But passion speaks a completely different language and refuses ABSOLUTELY to be associated with a faulty behavior (it is already too often the case in our shitty society).

In our crappy cultures, we like to confess, whether in church or to a shrink. Because one can not confess without a third part who will decide between punishing or consoling, etc. The one with whom one confesses has an enormous power over him and at the same time one frees oneself from a weight, a part of responsibility, a secret. DO YOU UNDERGROUND THE PRESSURE THAT YOU CAN PUT THE GIRL UNDER?

Ultimately, going to a girl and telling her “I love you, do you want to make out with me?” can work 1 time out of 100 in high school or college, in the playground or in bad romantic comedies that only sell dreams to the basic idiots. But it works very rarely BECAUSE:
1) Someone who is uncomfortable with his own desires and sexuality to the point of confessing them as mistakes is not attractive.
2) The relation of judgment and the handing over of power to the hands of the other is the opposite of the fusional relationship that makes the basic chick dreams.
3) Girls want a game set, they want to be seduced before they are asked to answer “yes” or “no”.

Yeah, I understand, confession is often a cry of the heart, an expression of despair, a kind of ultimatum: we feel stuck, we do not know what to do… but, it is not attractive.

For many people who know nothing about love or relationships, the declaration of love is nevertheless a necessary passage to kiss or sleep with a girl. But this is completely wrong and is even often counterproductive.

The first thing to realize is that landing and saying to someone “hello, can I talk to you ? I love you”, well, it’s shit. Yeah, you secretly hope she’ll answer you “I love you too. Let’s make love.” BUT DON’T HOPE TOO MUCH!

This is actually the best way to be rejected violently. If you take the girl off guard and you are not especially a popular handsome boy of the chest… the chick is probably not in the same state of mind as you (or even do not know you) and is likely to send you to Hell just to get rid of the discomfort you have set up with this way of doing like a dumb guy.

The little sweet words that you pass in class are no better than the statement out of nowhere that we just talked about. But the worst is still the love letter of 18 pages… the writing, when it touches on love, it is a cowardly way of proceeding. Even if, I grant you, the simple fact of doing it requieres a lot of courage, the girl will not respect you for that. It’s unfair, but it’s life! Notice, all life lessons are good to take.

There is a tacit rule in relationships but that will increase your chances of success it’s to indirectly communicate that you are interested in a girl.

Indeed, people emotionally masters create a bond with the people they appreciate and try to make evolve the relationship rather than imposing brutal and unexpected decisions.

To finish, remove at all costs from your mind that there you need to love a girl to kiss or to sleep with her. If she likes you or if you are just at the right time at the right place taking the right initiatives, it’s enough for most. Sorry to break the myth and disappoint the fucking romantic.

2nd case: you are in a couple with her and wish to declare your love for her to make her understand that your relationship is serious

First of all: « Are you really in a couple? » This is the first question to ask. It’s not because you kissed a girl once or you slept with her at the end of a party that you’re a couple… again, I’m sorry to disappoint the pseudo-poets of my balls.

Imagine if for her you are just sexfriend and you start to put pressure on her by declaring your love to a girl who just wanted to have fun, she might say « well, fuck off, he’s going to become a pot of glue if he’s in love… » It can give rise to priceless situations like “I love you.
– Oh shit. Well, then I think it’s better not to see each other anymore.
– Snif, snif!”

Well, if you’re nevertheless sure to be really in a couple with the chick: do tell a woman you love her only when you’re 100/100 sure she thinks the same as you. To try to see more clearly in her state of mind: feel the ground, sound her, and so on.

Ah… and never before knowing her for at least 3 months.

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How to become attractive and beautiful in the eyes of women?

how to become attractive
How to become attractive
Jean-Paul Sartre / Government Press Office (Israel)

According to popular belief, one should be beautiful and muscular to seduce women. Besides, I often hear that it is not possible, that I am a liar, that I can not be a coach in seduction and have slept with almost 300 women because I do not look like one of those handsome actors who play in American TV show… er, what the fuck?

Beauty is a prime quality to seduce FOR WOMEN. But for a man, there are many other criteria much more sought after by women: beauty is not essential to be a seducer. Examples are not lacking: in all periods there are famous examples of ugly seducers (Sartre, Gainsbourg, Neil Strauss, etc.)

Be aware that I planned to write an ebook about the look because a lot of love coachs advise you to turn into an androgynous duster to “have a good look and be beautiful.” What is of course a heresy: why not even wearing makeup like a stolen car in this case ? In the meantime, here are some tips to become more enticing and look more beautiful.

The health

The first thing I have to say is : take care of yourself.

Sleep enough not to have pulled traits and so that your body is in optimum conditions to seduce (piercing glance, a real desire to fuck, a good reaction time, etc.)

Eat properly to be more fit and have enough energy. Obviously, not being too fat will help you be more beautiful because slimming is, in France, the aesthetic standard. In order to have an improved morale and therefore a better modjo (which makes appear more beautiful), you can do a cure of omega 3 and vitamin D : it is safe, everyone is more or less deficient and it helps to be in shape.

Sport is fashionable. It allows to be hot thus to be beautiful. It gives you more confidence. So I recommend you read my article on bodybuilding and to go in for sports.

The style

Avoid having hairs that protrude from the ears and nose. Shave or mow your beard to make it clean : yeah, being “neat and tidy” helps to seduce!

Cutting and removing the black under your nails it is also very important: a woman does not want to take the risk of malaria by being fingered by a disguting pig.

Brush your teeth and make sure you have a good breath.

Perfume when you’re going to seduce.

I’ve already made an article about mistakes to avoid in your look to seduce, go read it!

If you have glasses, choose some that suits you (in doubt, go and choose with a girlfriend who did not friendzone you). Above all, do not take any hoping that it will be as discreet as possible… assume or use contact lenses, otherwise you risk looking like a poor frustrated computer scientist.

Also choose a haircut adapted to your face and to your morphology in general. Hair raised on the top will help, for example, a medium-sized person to look taller. It will lengthen his silhouette! A good choice of shoes can do the same thing…

Pay attention to your shoes: they must be clean and pretty. Women attach tremendous importance to shoes.

Obviously take clothes at your waist. There is not an unique dress style that seduces women… but the important thing is to have a style. Yeah, a working boy can seduce, a crunchy-granola too, a rapper too… on the other hand, do not dress like a nice virgin guy with a too big Pluto sweater and too tight pants that would highlight your fat ass.

I also wrote an article about the impact of clothing on women. Read it!

How to become attractive and beautiful in the eyes of women?

The truth is that the beauty of a man rests above all on what he releases. The more confidence you have, the more you will seduce. Confidence is a universal criterion of seduction. A good modjo too, it can work miracles.

Believe in yourself, believe that you can seduce pretty girls. This will influence your reality and it will help you greatly!

Social intelligence and just intelligence are all aphrodisiacs that will make you look more beautiful.

Being a leader also makes you look more handsome, taller, and so on. Talent too.

Preselection by other pretty women will also make you look more beautiful in the eyes of a woman.

Work on your body language, gesture, look, smile, voice, etc. I wrote an ebook to help you in this tedious task. Go take a look!

Self-confidence is the basis of seduction for men. Women dream of a confident man… we have never seen a chick saying she wants to marry a knee slack who has no balls. In fact, many marry losers, but it is not something that makes them dream!

Confidence is attractive because it is synonymous with virility. Women expect a man to be powerful and protective. That’s why, a guy who would not dare to approach or talk to a woman would immediately lose points.

Be imperfect but REAL! To put it another way: take the risk of being yourself. Assume your desires, say what you think and want. Even take the risk of displeasing! Think for yourself and create your own reality. It’s sexy!

Good luck!

PS = don’t forget you don’t need to be beautiful to seduce.