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Online dating

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Awesome girls can be met online

Some girls on the Internet have a lot of issues but awesome girls can be met through online dating.

You do not take online dating seriously

The first mistake you have to avoid is the reason why you are doing online dating… You are not taking it seriously. You do not need online dating. It is a kind of joke.

Pictures

Pictures are really important. Your appearance and who you are (lifestyle). The first picture is the most important. “hmm this guy looks interesting I’m gonna click on him”.

 

“Who is this character ? I will click on him.” It’s the packaging of your product. Then, she comes into your world.

He is good wih women

She will discover a little bit of your personal, of your lifestyle. You have to show that you are not one of this losers who have invaded online dating. “He is not a nerd, he is good with women.” You don’t want any picture in which you are on a girl… but pictures where girls are hitting on you. By the way, don’t kiss any girl on your pictures. Jealousy is a good thing only if it is imagined.

Some women will be interested enough to message you

The best is when you do not have to do anything. Women who are interested enough can message you (YES IN ONLINE DATING WOMEN CAN TAKE THE FIRST STEP). Here, your work is not to be set apart from the others, just to do not make her lose her interest in you.

Write a complete sales letter for yourself, using as much text as you can get away with (without spelling mistakes). Remember, women will read your profile because you already have their attention, so they will eagerly read it to the end. Your nickname must be catchy and you text must contain punchlines (you can draw from successful adverts).

Do not answer all the questions in your description. It must be easy for them to ask you something. In others words, give them the opportunity to message you on something.

Seeking for what ? Friends, of course. But, nobody is fooled here.

Like in a interview for a job, make qualities seem like lower values. For example, make the fact that you date models like a lower value by specifying that being cute is not the only thing she has to do to interest you. Very powerful. Remember : they look secretly for the same qualities than their brothers have.

Put your own personality (alpha version) into your description, because if you meet her once, you do not want to have to play a game.

Awkward moments

One of the things women fear the most is awkward moments. You have to communicate that you are comfortable making the first move. Communicate a certain level of confidence, of experience. If she hangs out with you it is gonna be fun, a good moment. No stress.

Low risk and prizing sentences

“I’ll maybe have fun with you, be it will depends on your answer.” With this kind of sentences, you do not take any risk. You stay the price even when you message her.

You will probably have to message the hottest girls

But, I have to tell you, you will probably be messaged by girls but you will have to message most of the girls (they are overwhelmed).

Contact women who visited your profile

Look and contact at the cute women who looked your profile. Usually, they are a little bit attracted. They don’t really feel they needed to contact you but are often OK to talk to you. It’s a kind of “please message me” signal.

First messages

“Hey this WE I want to rob a bank and go to a sunny island, are you in ?”(first message) : role play going on.

“You’re pretty cool, you seem interesting and fun. Give me your Facebook or Skype.” Go to a new media. You want her to realize that you are a real person, not just another guy from online dating.

Try to be funny or witty with most of your answers. Only be serious with a few. Don’t be negative or down on yourself at all. Remember, you’re an advertiser selling a product which is you. It’s a kind of marketing. Seduction is a kind of marketing.

Dating profiles are not the actual representation of what they look like. In any case, ask her Facebook or more recent pictures. It’s not rude !

Your profile

Also, your Facebook profile must be based to make you look awesome. Where is a good source for a lot of the things you can put in there? From the women’s profiles (these experts in seduction) ! Look for some punchlines, and then copy them into your own profile. Sneaky, but effective (we do not have to always reinvent the wheel). How can you know that you have a good profile ? When they send you their phone numbers instead of telling you that they already are in a relationship or that they are lesbians.

An easy way to skip directly to the date

With women you chat with online, try to set up a meeting as quickly as possible. Don’t waste a lot of time with stupid women who don’t want sex. It’s HER loss (you’re a sex god). Keep any phone calls as brief as you’d like, since you don’t get laid on the phone (or, at least, talk about sex in a good way with emotions and turn her on).

You can assume the woman is attracted to you if she agrees to meet with you, because you’ve already been pre-screened by her for appearance and personality (you’ve to look like the man in your pictures). Then, the date is a simple process to get laid, since you’ll be alone with her.

Online dating can be a real opportunity for you, because a lot of guys scorn Internet dating. The good thing is that they won’t compete with you. So, Internet dating is an easy way to meet women and skip directly to the one-on-one date that leads to the lay (choose a good place).

A numbers game

Your online dating experience will be a numbers game. Remember, The Game is something statistical. But, online dating is more industrial than other types of game. Even a man cute like Ian Somerhalder would not meet more than 5% of women online. Test, test, and do more testing! Find what works for you !

To conclude, you have to know that girls on the internet are not reliable (they are not all really here to meet men) : flakes, women only here to be reassured on their power of attraction (or to play the princess) and fake profiles made by men are a common occurrence. Don’t be stupid ! Don’t be blind ! Think by yourself !

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What is flirt

Explicitly sexual advances are socially disapproved

The origin of the word flirt is obscure. The Oxford English Dictionary (first edition) associates it with such onomatopoeic words as flit and flick, emphasizing a lack of seriousness; on the other hand, it has been attributed to the old French conter fleurette, which means “to (try to) seduce” by the dropping of flower petals, that is, “to speak sweet nothings”. While old-fashioned, this expression is still used in French, often mockingly, but the English Gallicism to flirt has made its way and has now become an Anglicism.

Flirting is a social and sometimes sexual activity involving verbal or written communication as well as body language by one person to another, suggesting an interest in a deeper relationship with the other person.

In most cultures, it is socially disapproved for a person to make explicitly sexual advances, but indirect or suggestive advances (i.e., flirting) may at times be considered acceptable.

On the other hand, some people flirt playfully, for amusement. A female, especially a young one, who flirts playfully is sometimes called a coquette or in slang a cock tease; while a male flirt may be called a womanizer or player.

A way to increase tension and test intention

Flirting usually involves speaking and behaving in a way that suggests a mildly greater intimacy than the actual relationship between the parties would justify, though within the rules of social etiquette, which generally disapproves of a direct expression of sexual interest. This may be accomplished by communicating a sense of playfulness or irony. Double entendres, with one meaning more formally appropriate and another more suggestive, may be used. Body language can include flicking the hair, eye contact, brief touching, open stances, proximity etc. Verbal communication of interest can include the vocal tone, such as pace, volume, intonation. Challenges (teasing, questions, qualifying, feigned disinterest) serve to increase tension, test intention and congruity.

Rules and boundaries

People flirt for a variety of reasons. Flirting can indicate an interest in a deeper personal relationship with another person. Some people flirt simply for amusement, with no intention of developing any further relationship. This type of flirting sometimes faces disapproval from others, either because it can be misinterpreted as more serious, or it may be viewed as cheating if either person is in a committed relationship with someone else. Some couples set up rules and boundaries for their partner so one will know what’s accepted and what’s not.

Cultural aspects

Flirting varies a great deal from culture to culture. For example, for many western cultures one very common flirting strategy includes eye contact. In these cultures, it is said that a look can say a million words. However, eye contact can have a very different meaning in some Asian countries. In such countries, men may stare at Western women who might get in trouble if they return the glance. This act would indicate that the women are sexually interested and not just flirting. Furthermore, Chinese and Japanese women are not expected to initiate eye contact which would be considered rude and disrespectful.

The distance between two people is also important when flirting. People from the “contact cultures”, such as the Mediterranean or Latin America, may feel comfortable with closer distances whereas a British or Northern European person will need more space. Touching, especially of the hand or arm, is also part of flirting.

During World War II, anthropologist Margaret Mead observed in the flirtations between the American soldiers and British women a pattern of misunderstandings regarding who is supposed to take which initiative. She wrote of the Americans, “The boy learns to make advances and rely upon the girl to repulse them whenever they are inappropriate to the state of feeling between the pair”, as contrasted to the British, where “the girl is reared to depend upon a slight barrier of chilliness… which the boys learn to respect, and for the rest to rely upon the men to approach or advance, as warranted by the situation.” This resulted, for example, in British women interpreting an American soldier’s gregariousness as something more intimate or serious than he had intended.

Communications theorist Paul Watzlawick used this situation, where “both American soldiers and British girls accused one another of being sexually brash”, as an example of differences in “punctuation” in interpersonal communications. He wrote that courtship in both cultures used approximately 30 steps from “first eye contact to the ultimate consummation”, but that the sequence of the steps was different. For example, kissing might be an early step in the American pattern but a relatively intimate act in the English pattern.

Japanese courtesans had another form of flirting, emphasizing non-verbal relationships by hiding the lips and showing the eyes, as depicted in much Shunga art, the most popular print media at the time, until the late 19th century.

Flirting behaviors

In order to bond or to express sexual interest, people flirt. According to social anthropologist Kate Fox, there are two main types of flirting: flirting for fun and flirting with intent. Flirting for fun can take place between friends, co-workers, or total strangers that wish to get to know each other. This type of flirting does not intend to lead to sexual intercourse or romantic relationship, but increases the bonds between two people.

Flirting with intent plays a role in the mate-selection process. The person flirting will send out signals of sexual availability to another, and expects to see the interest returned in order to continue flirting. Flirting can involve non-verbal signs, such as an exchange of glances, hand-touching, hair-touching, or verbal signs, such as chatting up, flattering comments, and exchange of telephone numbers in order to initiate further contact.

Flirting may consist of stylized gestures, language, body language, postures, and physiologic signs which act as cues to another person. Among these, at least in Western society, are:

– Banter ;
– Blowing a kiss ;
– Casual touches, such as a woman gently touching a man’s arm during conversation ;
– Coyness, affectedly shy or modest, marked by cute, coquettish, or artful playfulness (e.g. pickup lines) ;
– Eye contact, batting eyelashes, staring, winking, etc. ;
– Flattery (regarding beauty, sexual attractiveness) ;
– Footsie, a form of flirtation in which people use their feet to play with each other’s feet ;
– Giggling, or laughing encouragingly at any slight hint of intimacy in the other’s behavior ;
– Imitating of behaviors (e.g. taking a drink when the other person takes a drink, changing posture as the other does, etc.) ;
– Maintaining very short distance during casual talking ;
– Online chat, texting, and other one-on-one and direct messaging services while hinting affection ;
– Protean signals, such as touching one’s hair ;
– Sending notes, poems, or small gifts ;
– Singing specially selected love songs in presence of the girl/boy ;
– Smiling suggestively ;
– Staging of “chance” encounters ;
– Teasing ;
– Tickling ;
– Eyebrow raising.

The effectiveness of these several interactions has been subjected to detailed analysis by behavioral psychologists, and advice on their use is available from dating coaches.

But don’t forget : flirting behavior varies across cultures due to different modes of social etiquette such as how closely people should stand, how long to hold eye contact, how much touching is appropriate and so forth. However, an ethologist found that in places as different as Africa and North America, women exhibit similar flirting behavior: prolonged stare followed by a head tilt away with a little smile. Increasingly in the 21st century flirting is taking forms in instant messaging, and other social media.

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How and why do women interpret body language ?

Why women are naturally better than men at reading body language

Babies don’t have words to communicate. So, women have to understand through the tone of  baby cries (if they want to eat, to be consoled or a spanking). Of this skill depends the survival of the humanity. This is one of the main reasons why women are better than men at reading body language.

The world is different for women

A lot of guys will never understand how do the world is for women. But it is important to see through their eyes if you want to really understand them and be able to effectively communicate with women…

For example, we are physically bigger than them. Did you ever realize how this is intimidating ? How about if you don’t understand your touch ? I know a guy who broke the pelvis of a girl by fucking her too hard. This is a reason why they want a man in control. Furthermore, an increase of pregnancy for women exists (condoms are not infallible). This is why, concerning lovers, they have to be very selective. Fortunately for most of us, it is based on alpha characteristics and not really on our physical appearance (you do not need to be as hot as Ian Somerhalder to reproduce).

If you now know that you can lie about your confidence and most of those “attractive characteristics” : women know it too ! It is therefore essential for a women to read what is really going on in your mind. This is the reason why you can get rejected before you open your mouth. This is also the reason why shit tests exist.

Shit tests

A shit test is what a girl throws your way to see how you handle it. Fail and you’re no longer a sexual option, pass and it improves your high status. In other words, you go in with outer game, they throw it in your face to see if your inner game handle it when caught off (that is to say, if your behaviour is consistent with what you think). We will develop this topic later.

The first impression is almost decisive in dating

Women scan people in the room and the first impression is almost decisive.  All this rapid cognition thing is working against you… or in your favour if you have a good body language. Very quickly, women say if they have good or bad emotions to you (and you do more or less consciously the same thing). When it comes to attractiveness : nice guys, needy guys, boring guys, awkward guys and low status guys are gonna be rejected mercilessly by hot and smart women.  Indeed, if they feel uncomfortable in your presence, or if you bore them, or if they are ashamed to be seen with you, they will push you away ! And it is true even if you are cuter than her, because that’s not the issue. Moreover, why would you approach a girl with lower value than you if you were a strong and confident man? It is a vicious circle : a work on yourself upstream must be done to improve your dating life on the length-term.

Body language can do, at least, half work for you

With women, a good body language can, at least, do half work for you. That makes a huge difference. Working on your body language is, therefore, the best way to start with the average. And the first thing to do is to avoid common signals of fear, neediness, boredom and awkwardness (like the speed of movements)…  It kills most of woman’s attraction for you ! 

How and why do women interpret body language ?

Basic rule : before learning how to create sexual tension, you have to learn how to do not break this tension between you and a woman (sometimes, women are  naturally attracted… even before you try to pick them up.)
The main ways to eradicate any attraction is to feel (or to show that you feel) :
– needy ;
– insecure about yourself ;
– weak ;
– desperate ;
– clingy ;
– like a man who always seeks approval ;
– like a man who begs her sexual favours.

A good idea to improve your dating life is working on projecting sexuality without saying anything at all about it. Using your body language, not your mouth, you can turn her on… without making her feel that she needs to show you how strong her bitchshield is.

We will talk about all this in details latter ! And a lot of other stuff… the best is coming !

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It is both a mental and a physical process

Seduction is not logical at all

Before we developed language, we were able to pick up signals from other people through the way they used body language. Today, body language is still the primal way of communicating. It is very instinctive. It is the easiest way to speak without interference to the primal instinctive mind of women. Therefore, it’s not logical at all.

Seduction is communication, communication is body language…

Body language is anything communicating about you… outside of your words (thus your non-verbal communication). It includes posture, presence, expression, voice tone, touching and signals, gesture, movement, your smells… even your fashion and your accessories.

Attraction is not a choice

Did you ever heard this famous sentence : “attraction isn’t a choice” (David De Angelo) ? What does it mean ? It means that attraction is not a logical process. At least, not logical in the sense most of the guys think it should be. I would even say, the truth is that logical things kill emotions (and emotions are priceless in seduction because they are the basis of attraction…)

Yet, emotions are essential for a woman to be sexually receptive to you. If you try to logically talk to women and forget thinking to your body language, you are missing an amazing opportunity to communicate your values, your charm and to deeply connect with her. The morality : do not miss any opportunity to build attraction (and especially not your body language…)

Body language is both a mental and a physical process…

If you are timid or shy, your body will naturally communicate those values which are not really attractive and YOU will become less attractive. The attractive values that you want to communicate (because you want to communicate to women that you are an alpha who has wonderful genes) are rather things like a high status, cockiness, a big cock and even a little bit of arrogance…

Survive and do it doggy style

In the street at night, what happen to your senses ? Your senses are mobilized for recognizing a potential danger and being able to react… Because you’re afraid, you have an awareness of what people are doing around you. For example, if somebody do not reveals his arms when is coming to you, will you trust him ? Or will you prepare a potential defence ? Because we are on earth to survive and reproduce, body language is also a wonderful survival tool… which can make a huge difference in your life (or death).

Another example : if you are talking to someone who is avoiding eye contact with you, what could you legally think ? That this person is not honest, that this girl is uncomfortable with you… By the way, this is obviously not something you want to communicate to a hot and smart girl…

Body language reflects what is going on inside but you can learn control

When you see a beautiful woman, you can become nervous inside, and it is reflected outside. But, if you learn to control yourself and adopt a natural posture even when your heart is beating beating BEATING more and more, you will become way more attractive (and effective with women). Remember : women at ease with themselves look for strong and imperturbable men (girls with problems look for men with problems).

I know, it is very difficult to detach an internal experience from an external experience… but let’s try. Sit comfortably in your chair. Let your arms down… how do you feel in the inside ? Weak ? Crap ? Small ? Adopt now the natural posture (like James Bond). How that makes you feel ? I guess bigger or more powerful…

You know… at least 75% of being successful is believing you can be successful ! Then, think accordingly.

Here is another key : now that you are aware of the importance of body language, you can easily notice what your body is doing and change that… this simple thing can really change your mood !!! Yet, what you convey depends on your state of mind.

It is both a mental and a physical process

If one day, you feel bad or something : you can change your focus. Instead of focusing inside, take points of focus outside around you (remember the three dimensions : forward and back, left and right, top and bottom).

And never forget, if your words are saying one thing and your body something else… the truth is always communicated through the body.

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A better understanding of the phenomenon

An universal language

The physical communication between people (and between people and animals) is an universal language. This is the reason why everybody is naturally capable of deciphering it. Unlike TV, no need for a decoder, just a book like this one, to put words on what you unconsciously know. This natural skill will help you a lot in seduction!

But, most of the guys have absolutely no idea what is going on in their body. They don’t even know that the way they’re moving or the way they’re touching people reveals a lot on them. It is the heart of their dating problem. Their failures have nothing to do with the fact that they are small either fat or that they have a big nose (by the way, a good body language can lead to forget all your small defects) : we all have a different body and different issues but what really matters what is what we do with our body.

An alpha male’s body is under his conscious control

You have to understand that if you don’t have an awareness of your body, that if your body is not awake and on your conscious control, it will be very difficult for you to success in any domain (thereby, in seduction). Feel reassured, I will soon teach you how to get under your own total control !

Your sensual acuity (degree of sensitivity)

Sensual acuity is the ability to understand what is going on in others people body and into yours. What follows in this chapter will help you to develop your sensual acuity because you have to learn how to communicate better all your qualities… that is to say to become better at interpersonal communicating.

Remember : you have to control your state.
Basic rule : an alpha male has the control of himself.

Concretely, how can you take the control of your body ?

First of all, sit comfortably in your chair. Then, close your eyes and focus on your breath. Start taking deep breath… again and again. Your breath is going down in your feet. Say “peek-a-boo” to all your body. Relax.

Connect to your ass, to your lower back, to your stomach, to your chest, your shoulders, your neck, your face. In other words, say “hey there” to all the parts of your body. You can mass all these zones if that helps you to feel more alive and awake.

To finish, open your eyes and look around. Do the same thing every time before you go to a club or on the field meeting people and interacting… I’m not kidding, you have to be and to stay in touch with your body all day (and all night) long.

Spatial awareness

You also need to acquire a spatial awareness. That is to say, you have to know your personal space and to learn how to expend it. Most people’s personal space is small… and it’s a bad thing because it is psychologically very difficult to shake hands or to interact with someone when your personal space is tiny  !

Personal space is like a bubble of social standing around you. A bubble in three dimensions : left and right, forward and back, top and bottom.

The next step is to learn how to feel the size of this bubble and make it grow with alpha postures…

Alpha VS beta postures

Imagine that your head is connected to a string. Your arms are comfortably on your side. Your focus is on the horizon. This is a natural posture. This is THE natural posture of an alpha male. When you see someone in this position : you think he is comfortable, relax and so on… This is a very very good posture that communicates positives things about you (like James Bond in this picture).

The first exercise I want you to do is training yourself to adopt this natural alpha posture in front of a mirror (or to record the scene and watch yourself) as soon as possible ! Avoid training without watching how you actually look : you risk to do not perfectly adopt the posture and to be ridiculous. Begin as soon as possible and repeat the operation until it becomes your natural posture!

Avoid arched shoulders : looking down like this soccer player is not sexy.

Beta posture.

Avoid directing hands inward : this model looks a little bit afraid.

It looks like he wants to hide. Obviously, this is not an alpha posture.

Straight back, head up : strong like Superman…

But this is too much to be realistic !

Like President Obama, “crossed arms” can make you appear insecure.

Which is not really alpha.

By contrast, “crossed arms” can make you appear more dominant and in control.

But, a basic rule is to stay arms and legs open when you want to seduce.
I will teach you why later.

“Hands on the hips” : Again, one posture is positive (in your opinion, which one ?) other is negative. But just like President Obama, Lionel Messi on the right and on the left is THE EXACT SAME PERSON. Only his posture changes but the feelings he conveys are totally opposite.

Through this book, you will learn how to increase your presence, and your relation to the space. In fact, you will get a very different feedback from women. The most positive feedback you’ve ever had !

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What is body language ?

Learn how to talk without using your mouth

Body language refers to various forms of non-verbal communication, wherein a person may reveal clues as to some unspoken intentions or feelings through their physical behaviour. These behaviours can include body posture, gestures, facial expressions, and eye movements. It is often as simple as “I have an erection” means ” I am sexually excited”. It is so basic that animals use body language as their main communication mechanism too.

Body language is typically a subconscious behaviour, difficult to control, just like you can with difficulty control the blood influx in your penis. So, body language may provide reliable clues as to the attitude or state of mind of a person. For example, it may indicate excitement, aggression, attentiveness, boredom or a relaxed state, pleasure, amusement…

Body language is significant to communication and interpersonal relations. It is, of course, relevant to management and leadership in business and also in places where it can be observed by many people. Although body language is non-verbal or non-spoken, it can reveal much about your feelings and meaning to others and how others reveal their feelings toward you. It can also be relevant to some outside of the workplace. Body language signals happen on both a conscious and unconscious level (it short-circuits conscious barriers of women and allows you to do it doggy style with those whom you would not have seduced by just your physical appearance), which is commonly helpful in dating, mating… I guess this is why this ebook exists. It is a tool which will help you a lot to transmit your genes to a good wife.

In seduction, the alpha male is the king of the oil

It is an obvious fact that women are looking for exceptional men (for example : powerful and self-assured). In other words, they are looking for alpha males. Yet, by noticing the inclinations of mating traditions present in nature, we can determine what are the identical alpha male concepts. Fortunately, anyone can learn alpha male seduction attitudes to seduce ladies.

And by “seducing ladies”, I mean “becoming more and more confident (that is to say more alpha)… for real and in various domains” (yes, it is possible) ! From now, adopt the attitude of an alpha male and you will naturally become an alpha male. Not a fake one.

Three parameters to work on in order to become an alpha male

Here is the main idea : mindsets and behaviours are linked (mindsets and appearance too).

What is body language ?

By adopting the state of mind detailed about in this book, you will naturally become an attractive man. Thanks to the famous psychological phenomenon called “association” (check Google if you don’t believe me), you are going to take a heck of a shortcut !

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What is seduction ?

The positive connotation of seduction

Seduction is the process of deliberately induce to engage in sexual behaviour. As a result, the term may have a positive or negative connotation (for preachy people and kill-joys).

Seen positively, seduction is a synonym for the act of charming someone (male or female) by an appeal to the senses, often with the goal of reducing unfounded fears and leading to the sexual emancipation (mutual). The contemporary academic debate states that the morality of seduction depends on the long-term impacts on the individuals concerned, rather than the act itself, and does not correspond inevitably to all these negative definitions which can be read in dictionaries. I guess if you are reading this book, it’s because you want to become happier, to have a better life… not because you want to hurt women. This is the reason why I think the kind of seduction I’m gonna teach you in this book is totally moral.

What is seduction ?

Science and seduction

Seduction as a phenomenon is not the subject of scientific interest (or they keep all their discoveries for them to bang the hottest women). But, although similar, more specific terms like transmission of genes (let me remind you that we only are on earth to survive and reproduce), short term mating, casual sex or mating strategies are used in evolutionary psychology.

The Internet has lately given rise to open discussion on seduction and how to achieve it (but, unfortunately, the science did not become more exact). Symptomatic of this is the popularity of published books like The Rules for women and The Game for men. I guess this is the reason why you found out my stuff !

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Body language is the most important concept in dating science

How seduction, communication and body language are related

First of all, I remind you that seducing is the action of communicating some excitement, some desire or some attraction to a target… Now, James Borg states that human communication consists of 93% body language, while only 7% of communication consists of words themselves. This is why body language is the most important concept in dating science. QED !

Your body in seduction is like a rocker’s guitar in a concert

Your body is like the guitar of a rock star : when you try to communicate with somebody, it’s like if you were playing a song… You make people feel emotions. Of course, if your song is successful, a lot of people (including women and gay men) will be interested in it…

Now, what makes a hit song ?
– The quality of your instrument ? That is to say “your look” (awesome metaphor) ?

Honestly, it can be a factor. If Katy Perry was not so hot, I would probably not be interested either in her music or in her clips!
– The lyrics (the words in your mouth) ? This also have correlation but… you know, a lot of successful songs have horrible lyrics. Seriously, did you ever listen Blurred Lines ?

So, what is the most determining factor ? Quite simply… the music. Body language is your music. Learn how to make a great melody and you will become impossible to resist. This is why, in seduction, body language is the key. Thanks to it, me who is rather small, seduced tall girls (until 6ft1) and very beautiful (even a candidate for Miss France pageant.) This is why I’m sitting down here writing this ebook about the science of movement (I think it’s my duty to share my research and experience).

What you will find in this ebook

In the next pages, I’m going to show you, explain and demonstrate “the how and the why” it works in all the domains of life (and particularly in seduction, of course). You will find everything you ever needed to improve quickly and efficiently your body language and become as attractive as actors and rock stars. We will work with photos, videos and movies.

So, do you want to learn how to convey sexual energy ?

To begin studying intelligently body language and seduction, we first have to identify exactly what we are talking about…

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On average, people who have a confident, relaxed and sexual body language are more popular and more successful

You will find in this ebook everything you need to sublimate your body language. You will also learn how to become more attractive, more confident, more relax (Zen) and more sexual (you will act like an alpha IE thanks to your attitude women will start seeing you as a gorgeous man even if you are not that gorgeous).

As a consequence, you will naturally become more interesting… at all levels : with women of course, but you will also appear more competent and essential at your workplace as well as in other numerous fields of daily life… So, all other equivalent criteria besides, by adopting the body language described in this book, you will become much more successful. Indeed, on average, people who have a confident, relaxed and sexual body language are more popular and more successful.

I tested and approved each information which appears in this ebook. And, moreover, my work is based on serious scientific researches. Nevertheless, you have to know that, when we speak about human and interpersonal communication, nothing is universal. Indeed, everyone has different expectations which vary according to experience of life, education, etc. The game (the science of seduction) is logically based on statistics : it is impossible to be sure to get a precise girl. But, just like it is possible to increase your chances to attract by adopting the behaviours which seduce most girls, it is possible to be sure to seduce a woman in a sample. So, if tomorrow I want to make love to a lovely blonde of 110lbs for 5ft7, I just have to increase my capital seduction (for example, by sublimating your body language – I will teach you how to do so in this book) and to approach enough blondes to be sure to seduce one.

Let us be realistic, statistically, some rakes are inevitable (even if current gurus try to persuade you otherwise by only sharing their successes) : we only can increase the number of girls approached and the probability to seduce. We can even say that it is the interest of the Game because it makes the science of seduction addicting, fascinating and full of surprises. Of course, we will talk about all this throughout the book.

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