Category: Kissing and making love

First, we must know and admit that a good kiss is more dependent on the chemistry between the two partners who kiss than on a pure technique.

However, even if there is no real connection between you and the girl you kiss, which can happen from time to time, it does not matter. You can still make this moment a pleasant one.

For this, what you’ll do is you’ll lead. You will impose your way of kissing enough time to better know each other. Then the two of you will be adapt a little bit to the other.

Moreover, at first do not put your hands on her buttocks or boobs (that’s boorish). Stroll in the small of her back, her hips, her neck, take her face in your hands… These are territories that remain the domain of the gentleman but that still are very erotic and erogenous.

Do not use your hands and do not always kiss the same way. You can kiss her more or less passionately, with or without tongue, more or less tighten your grip while you kiss, nibble his lips or her ear lobe, you can lick her neck… so many ways to make your kiss a preliminary!

A good kiss, in general, it’s one lip over the other. It’s not like that (we are not in a comic):

Once you’ve kissed a bit like that, you can open a little bit more your mouth to see if the girl will follow you. And once the mouth is a little more open, you can try to go and play with her tongue. Do not put directly it in the back of her throat, you will see gradually if she follows. It is useless to turn your tongue during 107 years, it is better to give several short kisses.

Top 5 of things you should avoid when you kiss :
– The knock of teeth in a hurry (that’s often front teeth that hit);
– The soup of tongue (oral rape) : washing machine 1200 rpm (not including spin) + drooling;
– Blowing while you are kissing (true story);
– Eating her lower lip like a wild sometimes up to leave scars there (they are people who love but that well);
– The kiss of the two who keep their eyes open and who look at each other in the eyes with the eyes of a Tarsier.

Many guys and girls are embarrassed when buying condoms in a store. It comes, in general, from the fear of what the others could think and of the reaction of the seller.

 

I see many people pretending to watch the razor on the shelf next to condoms and then, hop, they discreetly drop a box of condoms in their cart… and then quickly hide it by covering with other products. The problem with this technique is that it pushes for consumption, that drives them to buy things they do not need, just to hide their shame.

Me, I have fun when it’s time to buy condoms because when I’m in front of the cashier, I think “yeah, me tonight, I will have a lot of fun… and you, what kind of movie are you going to watch?”

This is a question of reality : either you choose to accept and to be proud of having sex, or you live it as a shame and you try to hide it. I made my choice.

Anecdotally, it reminds me of an old adventure in which I accompanied a girlfriend in a shop and there I made her ashamed by shouting “take condoms because tonight I’m going to take you harcore (or something like that)!”

I also remember the first time I wanted to have sex : I searched a long time in my parents’ bedroom to find some. But they already stopped the condoms for a long time! So, this is the girl who bought it (she was motivated). And she was really ashamed!

 

Next, there’s the question of size: if you take small sizes for your tiny penis, I can understand that you do not assume. But if you take large sizes or if, like me, you are average… so there’s really no reason to don’t assume!

If you are afraid that someone you know can see you buying condoms and repeat to your mother, then go ten kilometers away to go to a store located in a neighborhood or village where you know no one. And pray that the other guys around had not the same idea!

Well, I suggest ordering on the Internet if you absolutely do not want to go buying it in person. You should not deprive yourself to have sex nor protect yourself just because of social pressure or a shitty complex! But still, it’s like the guys who do not assume to use the urinal when there is another guy next to them : it reveals a large complex and it would be interesting to work on it.

Then, about the difficult choice: pharmacy or supermarket? I personally prefer supermarkets. Because it’s cheaper and it’s the same product. For the more stingy, remains the solution of going to family planning and stock up on condoms! However there is an advantage to go to drugstore: sexy pharmacists sometimes will go as far as to ask if you need help choosing the condoms (there is a real choice). And btw, they are subject to medical confidentiality.

If it can make you save time and allow you to choose more easily, know that I have not found better than Skyns condoms in terms of quality, durability and comfort.

 

Girls are too many to be ashamed to buy condoms. It is because cashiers who get bored and who sometimes look at them and say “good evening” with a kinky smile. It would still be nice if people stopped constantly judging! Sex is a natural thing! It’s part of the cycle of life! It should however be well considerate to protect yourself, right?

So, for the girls who do not have enough character to send to hell the idiots and their crappy remarks: they still have the solution to order online.

We must also realize that these vendors will have forgotten an hour later (they see so many people during one day) … in short, in any case, keep in mind that you’re not the first person to buy condoms and you are not the center of the world. 99% of cashiers will not give a shit whether you buy it or toilet paper. Besides, are you also ashamed when it’s time to buy toilet paper?

 

My final tip: make a pretty necklace with all your used condoms, and wear it proudly when you go out in a club!

What is, according to you, the thing that can easily differentiate yourself from 90% of men in bed?

Quite simply, it is: the fact that you give a lot of importance to female pleasure.

And when I say “pleasure”, I’m not saying that your cock stirring for 5 minutes in her pussy is enough to give her the ultimate pleasure. This is what most guys think but that is wrong and selfish.

Many guys think they are good lovers when in fact they only think about their own enjoyment. This behavior contributes to the fact that women are suspicious, test us and do not fuck easy. If they were sure to take off like crazy, they would not think so much and would not beat about the bush so long before. If you give me a Kalashnikov so that I delate all the sex-starved and all the boastful bad lovers, the gender relations would change tremendously!

In practice, tell the girl you are interested in her pleasure, in her satisfaction, the fact to make her come. She will find that you act differently from other guys. And that gives you a huge value… that will tempt her to sleep with you despite social pressure. And if, after you can be a little discreet about the sexual intercourse, it is even perfect!!!

Women are too often (and therefore afraid to be) used as instruments for the pleasure of men. But I would say we could very well say that we also are used as instruments for her pleasure. Finally, the best would still be that nobody is a tool for anyone and we can enjoy together in peace of mind and without experiencing buyer’s remorse.

But to get to this stage, there is quite a way to go in your head. Often people have a rather misleading picture of gender relations. If you have not read it yet, I recommend you The (inconvenient) truth about gender relations. Anyway, think about the fact that you can offer her the ONLY thing the other guys can’t offer : easy, fast, intense, passionate, without judgment sex… When you see things like that, it gives you even more confidence. It is a basic principle of fast seduction and it is a reality!

You have to make her understand (by communicating it directly or indirectly) that, with you, she will strongly orgasm. It might sound a bit pretentious because most guys rarely make come chicks they just fuck one night (but believe they are good). It is also that, your strength! Be deliciously against the current (but be good after you would be ridiculous otherwise).

In The awesome lover’s manual, I explain two techniques that will allow you to make almost every girls enjoy. Those who do not orgasm despite that are girls blocking on a psychological level. To give you an order of magnitude, about 40 girls I fucked since I moved to Lyon, only 2 have not orgasmed. This is 5%. And yet, they were not far !!! They just have blocked so much pleasure that after a while it started to hurt them. So I stopped. But they told me they have never been so sexually high in their lives.

Do not be afraid to lick, but often the guys lick anyhow because:
– Either they do not know how but do not want to question and learn ;
– Either that bores them in fact and women can feel it.
In fact you have to lick in a certain way and insist so that they get free and enjoy. Some are struggling to enjoy and the first few times, it will be long so they unlock but then they tame that feeling and enjoy more quickly the following times. Letting go, it’s not easy. Then, show her that you are on her side, that you understand how she feels, that you like her body, etc.

To help them exult, you must already find their G-spot with our fingers. The combo “clitoris + G-spot” is what will allow you to make orgasm almost every woman. To stimulate both areas at the same time, there are a lot of different techniques (with your fingers, your tongue or your sex). Well, some girls prefer a particular area or stimulation, so then you have to case-by-case adapt. But keep in mind that many women do not know what they really like either. So try to make her lose her mind (of course, stop if she doesn’t want not something). But do your best and offer her your expertise! Whether you are small, ugly, or whatever : being a good leg and knowing at the fingertips women’s bodies will give you great value to them. Looking relax and confident in such a situation too.

I have a friend who picks up down the street and brings chicks in a disused lift he found in the city center. He can not fuck them there, even those that are super excited and who kiss him. So I asked him how he proceeds to try to move to the sexual stage and he said he takes their hand and places it on his penis through the pants.

I agree that in the case of a shy girl, it will often help so that she dares to touch you. However, I think that before doing that, she must be warm. Because if you do it point blank : you may look like a big pervert and it may block her. Especially when she is an unknown like in the case of my friend. We really need that her excitement is greater than her degree of social pressure, so she doesn’t think too much about tomorrow. Rub her a little the crotch, over her clothes so she wets, then gently on her panties and finally in it. When she is soaked and her legs begin to tremble and her stomach to have spasms, emotions take precedence over reason and she’ll want you even more than you want her. Success rate = 90%.

Because yes, it can be a fantasy for them. And it’s a win-win scenario if done right. Put yourself in their shoes: they get home from work after a boring day and are approached in the street by an alpha who knows his stuff. Then, they have a lot orgasms in an unusual place before going back home. Is it not as tempting scenario? And too bad for those who will say no.

As I said, we must however get to make her understand that we think a lot about her pleasure in it, so that she accepts the deal. It’s even our priority. So take care of her before asking her to take care of you. Having this opportunity will help her to do not feel “used”. So it does not spoil her fun. A woman should never be considered as a “machine that empties your balls.” If this is your case, your mindset must change. Success will then logically come. They probably feel it…

In life, most women have a character rather “submitted” in bed. They like to be dominated (even if sometimes they like to dominate while jumping on your cock during 5 minutes). That’s why a PUA learns to communicate alpha characteristics.

However, some women are “dominant” in bed and thus prefer more lambda guys. The thing is that, statistically speaking, there are many more women in the first category. As a consequence, I advise you this alpha approach… and take matter into your own hands (in an elevator or elsewhere) to maximize your success rate.

For the rest… Alea jacta est

I have recently immersed in the libertine world like a submarine destroyer. I saw some very exciting things and some surprising concepts. I have also found out some practices that I had instinctively tried without being “officially” libertine. Today I would like to share these discoveries with you!

 

Between couples!

The side-by-side swapping it’s when you fuck your girl next to another couple who has sex. Without that there is no contact between you and the other couple. It’s like a fuck in front of a porn. Except instead of facing a screen, the scene takes place under your eyes. What is the point of doing it rather than watching a movie? The idea is to enjoy pheromones and sexual energy that invade the room and to excel in bed to show the other couple what we are able to do.

The Mixing it’s when you fuck next to another couple who also fucks… but this time, you can touch them all. If you are not bisexual, of course you can get away with touching the wife of the other man. This practice includes oral sex (not an obligation) but not penetration. You should know that some couples define boundaries… for example, “we do it together but I’m the only one who can penetrate my girlfriend.”

Swinging is when two couples exchange partners completely while mixing. In other words, it’s like the Mixing but with penetration!

I already made the Swinging and Mixing during my trip in the seduction community. I did a lot of swinging with my buddy Padawan and Mixing at the amazing “strip card game” party that turned into orgy. I’d like to try the side-by-side swapping now…

 

Practices that surprised me the most!

The candaulism is the practice of love when the guy offers (or lends) his partner to one or more other persons. There is a pretty amazing variant of candaulism, the “cuckolding” practice : in addition to being a cuckold, the man who lends his wife is humiliated and insulted by the pair of lovers. And he loves it! Well, why not, after all, everyone’s fantasies must be respected! Like what, we’re all different…

BDSM it’s all the practices that use pain, humiliation, coercion (by force or by tying the person) and the staging of fantasies such as master and slave. Warning, despite what one might think, all this is done with respect : these are just people in the same wavelength having fun together. There is even a safe word decided in advance among the participants to stop the game if necessary (eg if the girl too much wants to pee).

The sitophily is the fact of loving having sex while playing with food. Who has never covered the pussy of his partner to lick hungrily?

Among all this, I have only tried sitophily. Well, I have quickly attached girls with stuff such as handcuffs but it is still a very very light BDSM. That said, I think it would excite me to fuck the wife of another man in front of him (but it would surely embarrass me at first).

 

Sex together!

A trio is a threesome. This can be WMM (2men/1woman) or WWM (1 man/2 women).

The square it’s between two couples… or, at least, it’s when there are four participants.

Orgies it’s whenever there is more than four players.

About male plurality, for the biggest delight of those ladies, there are:
– The gang bang : a woman is taken by as many men as she wants! The queen of the party decides what she wants and who she wants. Since we are in a respectful environment, men have to respect her choice. Sometimes the husband of the woman who gets screwed is present. It’s not really instinctive but some men love it. Good for everybody!
– The assembly blowjobs: a woman decides to suck several men who line until she takes care of them. I saw this in a porno once, I was quite turned on! Two chicks had aligned 5 guys and wanted to be the first one to finish (like a race) : they had to make the 5 guys ejaculate as soon as possible to win !!!
– Double penetration: often one in the pussy and one in the ass.
– Bukkake: the woman gets a cum shower, all the men ejaculate on her.

I tried different types of trios and foursomes. I would like to make a real big orgy with like 10 or more, I think it would make me very hard! I think it would excite me too to be just a man among others in a group that sexually destroy the pussy of a girl (but not my girlfriend lol). Really, being an object like that, I do not know why, but the idea tantalizes me! Or is it the fact that the girl behaves like a real bitch that would drive me crazy. I do not know… well, what counts is the result.

 

Exhibitionism!

Exhibitionism is when we like to show our body naked or to have sex in front of people. Voyeurs are those who like watching. This can take place in a club or on the Internet via webcam. Some websites to be watched by hundreds of people while we quietly fuck our girlfriend at home. It adds spice, especially when you read their comments… “Miss has a goddess body, Monsieur has a good jerk!”

Hugs corners it’s where you can have sex in a libertine club. They are often equipped with one or more mattress. We can choose rooms open to the eyes (with a window) or not. Otherwise, we also have the option to lock or not the door : if it’s left open, it is not uncommon for people to come jerking off next to the couple who fucks or offers to join. It is certainly more exciting to masturbate next to a beautiful girl who is taken than watching it far away from the pussy. Well, I guess, I’ve never done that yet…

I sincerely believe that I have a little exhibitionist side anyway. At first it was causing me problems with erection when people looked at me fucking but now it kinda dopes me.

 

Other things to say…

Sex-starved are pains in the ass harassing couples and especially single women to fuck them, they are often disrespectful. It can quickly become oppressive especially when the girl is naked and the guy chases with his cock in hand or too heavily insist and pretend to do not understand when the answer is “no”…

Sometimes we are asked if we are Well built, or very WB or VVWB : basically, it’s to determine the size of the cock. One can also wonder if Mr. has a “big cumshot ” : is the guy gonna drop a huge amount of semen or just two/three drops! There are chicks who love huge dicks, others who enjoy big black cocks, and others who want that we ejaculate a lot of semen on them almost to the point of the walnut…

The principle of not judging and having a great freedom when it comes to sex is pretty cool. It works with our bodies, our practices and our performance. So it’s relatively liberating… Swingers clubs have a rather unhealthy reputation but actually I find them healthier than conventional clubs in which chicks play comedy. But, it is difficult for one man to exist in this environment and it is expensive (a libertine club entrance is at least three times more expensive than a normal entry in a club). In addition, it is not sure that the guy will fuck (we are not with whores): few chicks assume to go to the libertine clubs even among those who just want sex without headaches. For couples, it’s cheaper and more fun but finding single women for threesomes is difficult (they are rare so are the prize). Between couples, you must love exchange. Sure it’s exciting to have sex with a beautiful girl who came with another man… but this guy will probably fuck our girl too (the downside). And most often, under our eyes! Then, it is not like if he was a lambda weirdo who will boast all “hahaha I fucked his girl”! It is in theory a respectful man who does not see malice and also gives his wife to you in return so well, it is quite healthy, it’s a win-win scenario! It gives a breath of oxygen outside the couple for better weld on. Personally, seeing that my girl is desired by a lot of guys makes me want her even more. But watching her getting fucked by another guy… I’m not sure I could (although I have nothing to lose in fact it is just a question of mindset and context)! With a girl we care about it’s much harder than with a lambda sexfriend, I guess. But that’s not it, the principle… that would be too easy !!!

In short, libertarianism can be a good thing if done in a proper mindset by people whose brains are slightly evolved. For sure opportunistic sex-starved, it’s boring… Then I guess it’s also a question of maturity and self-confidence (to be able to assume fucking with a public for example). The rules of the game apply in this environment but to a lesser extent because a lot of taboos have already fallen. It’s another world! And acquiring a libertine spirit is liberating but even a PUA is far away from that. The two things are not mutually exclusive of each other but it is not at all the same thing either. It’s a big challenge but it is sure it could make happy people that it suits!

Again, we must look beyond preconceived ideas…

This text has been written by The Teacher

The first time a man looked at me to push me to orgasm while he had already come himself, I felt lucky. It was the first time I met him, we had not developed particular feeling for the other one, and yet my pleasure seemed important to him. He had achieved a faultless performance, from the first moments to the final orgasm through foreplay: he had fanned my desire and excitement, he took his time, looked and touched my body with envy, as much as I was discovering new sensations. What a new experience, thank you Cyprineman! When I got home, I wondered, either the spell was hard on me and I had met only selfish men until today, or the majority of men are selfish in bed and this one is a pearl.

We, I think, all agree that sex is something we need to practice with one partner (at least), this is a moment that we share. A moment when the partners have fun together, and when everyone is benefiting. But I’m not sure that we all interpret this in the same way…

We all need to feel desired, during the act and after, when we watch again the movie of our romps in our mind. Now, I have not often had the feeling of being desired for myself. I mean a form of hierarchy settles, and I felt like my partner liked more the sex “in general” than the sex “with me for me”. Precisely, in my opinion, it’s what is the source of several more or less selfish behaviors.

Note that selfishness is not inversely proportional to the affection that your partner feels for you. He can be in total love and think only about his pleasure like he can simply be in “love with every women” and be a great lover.

I have identified some selfish (male) behaviors in bed. Of course, nothing comprehensive. In other words, here’s what not to do if you want your partner to have a good time with you.

1. The worst lovers are probably those who use women as an alternative to their usual masturbation. I mean, it’s when Madame is only there to help Monsieur to empty his balls, she has only one purpose: varying the monotony of his hand jobs. For the luckiest, Monsieur will perhaps touch you a little. It’s cliché but it exists, and it is widespread. The nice woman agree to date the man and put aside her frustration while another one would show all the same a bit of disappointment. If really Monsieur is the worst of the boors, he will finish in her hand or mouth and not fuck her. In the best case, she can still hope a future coitus will give her some sensations. It’s better than nothing. However, gentlemen, it will not surprise you if those women feel a lack of motivation and opts for the starfish position. And if she cries loudly, is that she is really very attentive and does not want to alter your pride.

2. About bad lovers, there are also those who go straight to the point, who do not really understand that they should better first make the desire of their partners raise… Like if they were magnetic and that by simply watching us we become wet. Generally, these men do not give a shit about preliminary and decide to rapid penetration. Of course they will blame us for not being enough lubricated. Hey, idiot, turn me on! Not better : there are those that put directly their hand in the string, like this, without warning. Normal. If it can sometimes be exciting, most of the time it’s just bad. The idea is like if he said to us: “your body I do not care, what I am interested in is your pussy.” It is well known, the beauty of women depends entirely on her pussy.

3. There are those who have understood the need of stimulating their partner…. but not too much, all the same! It’s the kind of guy who understands the value of foreplay, but do not want it too long. Generally, it is limited to mutual masturbation. A little blowjob if Madame is generous. Note that I have rarely met men who love cunnilingus, who go down there by themselves or who agree to do so when it’s asked. Typically, I interpret this rejection of cunnilingus as a selfishness symbol in the sense that there is no desire to give pleasure to the other one selflessly while some people find in this a real source of pleasure. Sex is like a bouquet of flowers : joy to offer, joy to receive.

4. There are also these selfish men behavior from men who are not really so selfish. I explain: these are the men a little awkward, inexperienced or not confident enough that dare because they are afraid of hurting. They are in a rather passive and disconcerting attitude. Sometimes people have understood the importance of warming their partners by promising the moon and stars… but are bad when the time comes. Beware of big mouths: chances are they are bad legs. In this category there are those who are too proud to learn and let themselves be guided by their partner (who will stay bad and selfish), and there are those who are humble and who listen to their partner (who will certainly become great lovers). Of course everything can be learned, and The awesome lover’s manual is here for you.

5. Finally, some men strictly follow a protocol, regardless of their partner. It’s enough for them. They probably think we are all alike, we love all exactly the same things and above all, in a specific order… it is wrong : the fuck parties are very similar, it bothers and gives no pleasure. Why is it selfish? Because nothing is done FOR the partner, because the desires are not listened and those men do not really show themselves interested in this female pleasure in particular : everything is anticipated, almost imposed. There is no spontaneity, no real sharing when Monsieur fucks Madame with a prepared program. The typical plan is: warming her while dressed, touching a bit as we undress, Monsieur fingers a bit, Madam kinda sucks by gratitude (or not…) and hop hop hop, come here I take you 5 minutes (missionary or doggy style, not original). These protocols are even more detestable when the partner is regular. I understand that some may feel comfortable thanks to the idea that there is a magic formula to apply… but this is the worst mistake to commit, because we are all different and we want to be treated in our singularity. The key would be to identify the desires of the other one (even verbalize it) and let things happen as a logical consequence (easy to say).

When we put a will in it, despite a selfish partner, we always find a way to be (somewhat) satisfied. At least one adapts to the situation, at least when that’s the only thing we know. Personally, all these behaviors had something in common: no orgasm. Never. Why ? Perhaps because, psychologically, I was not willing to have any orgasm. And what can prevent a woman from being ready for this? A lot of things, I suppose. One of them is linked to the partner even unconsciously, we evaluate the guy and try to guess if yes or no our pleasure matters to him. How to let yourself go when you know the other one doesn’t give a shit about you and your pleasure in fact?

In these cases, women are not really benefiting, for sure. But I wonder if these men, too, do not miss out on something powerful.

So what ? Is it not enough to have a pretty face or a big dick to be a great leg? Sure, a handsome man will be more attractive just like one who has a healthy body. Although, tastes and colors… Fortunately there’s something for everyone. And about penis size… I do not think that’s the first thing a woman thinks about when meeting a man, so it is not very important.

Anyway, I do not think the physical appearance of a man is directly linked to his performance/knowledge/sexual experiences, although it is still important that we like him. Many other factors come into account: his personality, his intelligence, his culture, his humor, his split, his interests, his style, his attitude, what do I forget..? In short, many things that make this man attractive. For the rest, his handsome face is not going to influence his behavior in bed (maybe will he feel more confident and will take more initiatives. Maybe he had fucked more women and so has a good experience?). Similarly, what is the point in having a big cock if we do nothing with it?

But the question also arises for women: is just being beautiful enough to be a good lover? It seems nevertheless enough to have a regular sexual activity… But if they do know only the starfish position, the guys will not necessarily want to see them again. What I am saying is there is not only men that can be accused of being selfish in bed… that women are not only victims of lager (even if we are very happy to believe it). Some are passive, they expect to receive without giving back. With this difference that they do not clearly ask for things: in general, the selfish man asks for his blowjob, while the women selfishly hopes her cunnilingus (and sulk in silence if she does not get it). They should also make efforts to communicate and know the body of the other one.

In conclusion, I would say that sex is a problem of expertise, and that good sex mix this knowledge of the other with the fact of being interested in the partner (remember to listen and be heard). Well, sometimes, despite our best efforts, it’s still not awesome : nothing is always perfect, and I guess that some partners were not made to fit to meet.

I want to write an article to clarify the situation to my readers about female orgasms. What to think? What to expect ? What should you know? Not that I am God and that I know everything, but I do have some experience so I’ll tell you what I observed. Feel free to leave a comment to flesh this knowledge!

 

1/ I start with a typology of women reaching orgasm by the time they need:

A. There’s those who enjoy fast

It is a case not unusual but this is not the most common, either. I often encountered this case among virgins I had trained to enjoy. You lick three minutes or you penetrate during five and they enjoy. Chicks must know how to orgasm, be comfortable and have some knowledge of what they like and how. These (lucky) girls can have a lot of orgasms during a normal sexual intercourse, like 3 or 4 and up to 7 or 8.

Orgasms are not necessarily less powerful than for those who take longer to enjoy. It actually depends on several factors like their mood, their health, fatigue, etc. But let’s remember that in good conditions: they can have very huge orgasms quickly if enough excited! Love can help to orgasm too.

They may not enjoy at all if the guy is really bad. It was the case of Virginie with another dude than me… he a little discouraged her. The poor girl ! In short, so it does not happen to you: cf. The awesome lover’s manual

B. Those who enjoy after an average time

It is the most common case I meet. These girls need between 10 and 20 minutes of cunnilingus to come.

There are a lot of women who say they dislike cunnilingus but when I eat them out, they enjoy in a quarter of an hour: the problem is that most guys do not know how to lick. (cf. The awesome lover’s manual)

C. Those who take a long time to enjoy

Chicks who have difficulties to enjoy often struggle with all their partners. I know you would think it’s because I’m bad in bed but I banged enough chicks and I made enjoy more or less 90% of them so I know what I’m talking about. Sometimes it’s not your fault: they are just “hard to come.”

I had to lick from 30 minutes to 1 hour and 30 minutes so they enjoy. These girls will love you for taking the trouble for them and will surely thank you with a good blowjob. Also, if you see them, they will need less and less time to “let it go.”

D. Those who are unable to let themselves go enough to exult

Sex is still good for them. But they fail to “let it go”. I do not voluntarily speak here of girls who cannot have orgasms but I’m talking about girls who could have but do not (99% of women who never orgasmed).

Among those who have never enjoyed despite an active sex life:
– A man never gave them enough pleasure;
– Or (and this is most often the case) they have a mental block or fear of the unknown (they do not know what awaits them if they stop controlling). Typically, these are women who like to be in control (not especially in bed but in their everyday life).

They are never “really” satisfied, they constantly want more. They are a little discouraged, some are wondering if they have a problem. They need YOU !!!

Helping them let it go is difficult. But do not drop the case. Find out how she likes it the most, bring her to the brink of orgasm (her limit) and talk to her, reassure her, encourage her, what do I know… I unlocked a few like that, with perseverance and understanding. Of course, I had put them before in a comfortable position, like on a bed, not on a washing machine !!! Sometimes you will have to see the girl several times before you succeeding.

E. Those who ejaculate

I have not met a lot of them. But there could be more than that there are, if women knew how to make themselves cum (there is a big unexplored potential of pleasure). These women enjoy easily and quickly, can have many orgasms in a row (like 15), and the feelings are better than in conventional orgasms. I’m not telling shit, I saw it with my own eyes. A woman who ejaculates begins to rediscover her whole sex life…

On the other hand, after 15 orgasms, they are exhausted and spend a good night!

 

2/ I continue with a typology of the orgasms they reach :

A. The orgasm that rises suddenly and orgasm rising slowly. It depends on how she is taken, and on her state of mind.

B. The light orgasm, orgasm and moderate powerful orgasm. It depends on how she is taken, and on her mindset.

C. The orgasm that fills and orgasm that makes her want to have more. We, men, have a tendency to be emptied after an orgasm but with women it’s different: some are knock-out and cannot continue sex, others are boosted and are drugged until they fall asleep (or their legs do not support them anymore). In some women the clitoris is sometimes too sensitive after orgasm or during the first stimuli: fortunately, it doesn’t last!

D. Multiple orgasms, continuous orgasms, brief orgasms: better a brief orgasm than no orgasm at all. But continuous orgasms or multiple orgasms are obviously better. For this, you must keep up and the girl must be psychologically and physiologically adapted to that too.

E. The G spot, the clitoris, the deep spot…

I read a lot of studies on the questions: vaginal or clitoral women? What I think it’s that this is more or less nonsensical: the clitoris and the G-sport correspond in fact to the same thing. They are the two ends of the same pleasure center.

Most of orgasms are actually a mixture of both. I like licking/fingering, it’s the ultimate combo. But what is most stimulating and helped her releaseing? Some are easier to enjoy by one side than by the other. Often you’ll need to do both if you do not want to spend the day there…

Apparently the feeling of the orgasms is different too. There’s not necessarily any that is better, it depends on people: just that sometimes it is more difficult to achieve at one end than with other one so it is perhaps more liberating (enjoyable) when it happens. But most girls are still clitoral even if I use the combo of the two stimuli.

As for the deep spot, I’m undecided. Sometimes when I’m fingering from behind I think that this is what I touch (and it works). Still, for me the dp and gs are attached to the vaginal orgasm and that’s all.

F. Other types of orgasms

Sometimes there’s chicks who have nipples orgasms.

Sometimes some have or have had orgasms without physical stimulation. During my sleep, I even ejaculated once like that. I was an erotic dream (I was fucking an actress against a wall), I woke up I ejaculated (it was very good) and I went back to sleep. Without having to masturbate at all. Perhaps the sheets have jerked me without my knowledge?

Sometimes there are chicks that get enjoyment just by being rubbed over their clothes.

Sometimes there are people who love anal orgasms. But I’m not a specialist, I prefer the normal funny box… why should I go into the poop box?

 

3/ I finish with my opinion on female masturbation :

Whatever the politically correct people and the ignorant say, I believe the number of women that touch themselves all alone is about 4 over 5. At least 50% of young people regularly do it, like 3 or 4 times a month. About the old women, I do not know, this is not my category. But I think it decreases with family life and menopause.

Masturbating can calm them down for a time but they will need a real dick in the end. It’s like when we masturbate: it’s still ten times better when it’s someone else who does it! It is much more exciting, there is less control, etc.

Inevitably, we know our bodies so it goes straight to the point… but we are deprived of anticipation, feminine energy and all that makes the true power of pleasure and satisfaction. For women it’s the same : a sextoy is not a man.

In conclusion: is it better that they have a strong orgasm or a lot of little orgasms ? Who cares if they are satisfied, in fact, but I would say a strong one.

It’s been a while I had not talked about sex like that, so if you miss it, feel free to read The awesome lover’s manual !

We often read that you should always put condoms, if not you are a monster who has AIDS. I want to relativize everything. Once more time, I wanna carry the opposite of the single thought… (put I put condoms)

 

AIDS (HIV) : you’re unlikely to catch it…

First of all, my generation is hyper-sensitized to AIDS. But there’s not much cases in fact. I quote sidaction website:

“The most affected regions are Ile-de-France (44%) and overseas departments (8%). The PACA region is the second region of metropolitan France the most affected by the epidemic with an HIV discovery rate of 109 per million inhabitants. ”

There’s approximately 5 million people in PACA, it therefore makes 545 cases in one of the most affected regions. Not huge.

In France there are 67 million people, it means 7,300 cases. It would be really bad luck…

“Despite the finding of a trivialization of targeted prevention strategies, youth continue to be concerned: 11% of those who discovered their HIV are between 15 and 24 years. But senior citizens are more concerned, since 20% are 50 or older. “

It’s hard for the 11% … by the way, that does not make me want to bang more milf.

“Among those who discovered their HIV status:
– 56% are heterosexual (39% foreign born, mostly in sub-Saharan Africa and 17% in France);
– 42% are men who have sex with men;
– 1% are drug users. “

Finally, for prevention, rather prefer partners born in France, who do not take drugs and heterosexual.

There’s then 0.20% of transmission probability for the insertive vaginal sex. I specify for idiots that someone who does not have AIDS cannot transmit it.

I’m not saying condoms are useless, be careful, but I’m saying that’s not the AIDS you should fear the most.

 

Effective against other STDs and STIs

Do not ask me the difference between STDs and STIs, I don’t know. And I don’t give a shit.

I have had the misfortune of catching some kind of crappy stuff like papillomavirus or balanitis. And kinda quickly, after only a few unprotected sex with a girl who did not know she had it. Testing Center, they looked for hepatitis, AIDS and everything and said we could go for it with no risk… and then I caught those shit because of their negligence. After that, it was a hassle to get rid of it!

I condemn here hyper-sensitivity against AIDS but the neglect of the rest of crap lying around. Who are not serious (they did not have to cut my dick) but well. The warm piss or whatever, I do not really want to catch that kind of stuff.

My conclusion here is that it is better to seek advice from a gynecologist (for chicks) or a general docteur at least for the guys with complete analysis before saying that we have nothing.

My second conclusion here is to go seeing a docteur if we had problems with a ladle girl. The kind of girl who jumps on you to warm you then who sinks without a condom on your cock. You do not have time to react. After that, it’s hard to stop and you’re trapped and you feel guilty. One may wonder if the girl acted like that with all the guys or anything… that is frightening!

 

The condom as contraception

Sometimes girls want to fuck without condoms but do not take the pill. It’s not a good idea because they can be fertilized by the drops of pre-ejaculatory semen. Some do not even know it… in this case, I recommend the morning after pill.

If the girl does not take the pill, no unprotected sex! Except blowjobs… (sometimes society is trying to scare us by saying that we can catch AIDS through oral sex or stuff like that… but frankly I’ve always been sucked without and I’ve never had anything caught like this!) Some wanted to suck me a condom hood but I laughed in their faces: if you’re scared of everything, you will do nothing in life (when I say that our society is hyper-anxiety). And for eating you out, I put a condom on my tongue or not? And a sextoy can give AIDS ? Ahhh, she does not know what to reply now, Marisol Touraine!

 

It’s the guys who have to wear it

I think it is my role to put the condom, despite the existence of the female condom and all that stuff… because they must already suffer their periods, the pregnancy and everything. We owe them that…

Have condoms with you because it will reassure the chicks to see them. They will say to themselves that you are serious about it. You will score points !!!

 

The condom as a religion

You should not not believe that the condom is infallible. There’s stuff that pass through, it can break, etc. And it’s not worth doing an anxiety attack if ever it happens (unless you were banging a prostitute in South America – don’t laugh it happened to a friend who did not practice the game – he would not have to pay if he did).

You will not either drop dead if you fornicate unprotected with a girl who has a shit. Must not be alarmist all the time, to those who say “do not play with your life” … I answer “I am willing to make an effort but when it’s your time it’s your time.”

Finally, as always, I advise to stay realistic, going back and forth two or three times without condom in a pussy is not like three or four complete unprotected fucks in the same pussy in terms of statistical risk.

When I told my dad that I was afraid to have AIDS because I fucked a black without protection, he laughed at me, saying that in his time almost nobody put that. We are paranoid !!!

But let’s go to screening all the same : if we could eradicate this shit, it would be cool (too bad there’s not STD that will make our dicks bigger) ! And more important if we have partners we fuck without it often, we owe them that (respect) !

More informations : the awesome lover’s manual !

Sometimes it makes one feel good to feel a girl without condom.

“When should I kiss the girl?”… Have you got others shitty questions like that?

A major problem when we want to kiss a girl, but we don’t dare, is that we let our inner monologue govern us. Do not cut off from your feelings because of doubts and other questions. Our feeling should be our guide.

Our emotions are indicators of what is happening inside of us BUT ALSO are the keys to understand the person in front of us. We must let ourselves go a minimum to feel a little desire (which is contagious). And to do not get eaten by the pressure that we often put on ourselves unnecessarily.

The challenge should not take precedence over the game … The light and playful aspect of seduction should not disappear. Never a romantic date should be as dull and tight-ass as a job interview (and a job interview is not a romantic date so there’s a different behavior to be adopted).

It is better to go there with a clear idea of what you expect from the interaction : a good time with one or more pretty chicks, and don’t forget to create conditions conducive to flirt intimacy. Everything else will flow from that.

FUNDAMENTAL POINT – Once isolated with a girl: did she made you want to kiss her? It matters, that, too. You’re not so desperate that kissing any girl is a goal in itself, right? Kissing, it’s nothing seriously. If you are still counting the number of chicks you have kissed, then you are far awayyyyyyyyyyyy in your game. (Desecrate the kissclose please). Seriously, it’s good to go on a date with the idea, the objective to make out with her, but if in the meantime she shows she doesn’t deserve you it’s better to abandon the mission (if you’re sure that you’re not inventing false excuses to duck). Just as one begins his day with what pisses him off the most, you end your date with what requires the greatest effort.

It is important to communicate with your target on an empathic mode too. Do not only communicate on the explicit mode (meaning of words) but also a lot on the implicit mode (gestures, cum facial expressions, posture, tone of voice). Why is it important too? Because you will unconsciously or consciously both send to each other nonverbal signs of invitation to carnal pleasure. I refer in particular to prolonged glances, delicious silences, touches, smiles … so focus your attention on those little things that tell so much…

Wonder for example :
Are you both in a bubble off of the world? => YES? KISSCLOSE.
Is the tone of her voice soft? Is it becoming even softer? => YES? KISSCLOSE.
How does she react to innuendo? Compliments? => OK? KISSCLOSE.
Instead, does she try to avoid proximity and why? Does she seems distracted or elsewhere? => Warning! (but it costs nothing to try anyway, but perhaps it is better calibrate and wait until later). Do not confuse speed with haste.

If you miss scoring chances, do not cut your veins. We all miss some. We all had a chance to initiate a first kiss but yet we did not. With or without having invented false excuses, either. However, let’s not kill ourselves and do not spend our time regretting the past. Let’s rather and seize the next opportune moment. Unfortunately, we remember more the negative than the positive, but if she gives a sign of disinterest interest for 10 signs it’s good nonetheless. It’s worth a try!

Do your eyes fall on the contour of her lips? Do you perceive in her a palpable disorder. A heat wave travels you. Damn: what is stopping you from taking a step toward her, moving a hand behind her neck and approaching your own lips? You are not even really listening to her now. The seconds pass, as long centuries.

If you did not kiss, you can have fun and recreate that magical moment. Or at least, the same conditions. Like “do you remember, earlier? We talked about […] and I felt […] I stopped listening to you, I do not know if you felt the same. I couldn’t take my eyes off of your bright eyes, your pretty lips and I wanted to”………………………… kissclose. Or, “earlier you maybe felt I really wanted to do that” ………………………………. kissclose.

Speak slowly and maintain her eye contact while doing that. Normally, if she wanted you 5 minutes before, she still wants. I say NORMALLY because they are people who are blocked by those guys “who did not have the balls to try”. But hey, in Top Gun, Tom Cruise purposely gets close of his target without trying to kiss her just to bring up sexual tension, and it works well, but he did it with a a playful and confident face. So never let her think you’re not in control nor confident.

BUT IF she refuses my kiss? The fear of embarrassment that would follow a refusal petrifies most men. It is the phobia to end up helpless without knowing where to hide or what to do nor say to regain capacity and credibility that often prevents men from giving it a try. The guys start by thinking about consequences, fuck who saw us? And to who will she tell it, this whore? They will laugh at me (or other paranoid delusions).

Detach yourself from it, guys. It happens to everyone… at least to those who have the balls to take action. BE PROUD BECAUSE YOU’VE TRIED YOUR LUCK (AND HERS)! It’s really more exhilarating than having tried nothing and coming back home with regrets in the pockets!

Why not just smiling at rejection, after all? Why not asking her if it had already happened to her and why? Most girls would like to kiss the first one but are scared to get rejected. So: they say that it is the role of the man to do so. So why not challenging her, “Listen if you want later, it will be your turn to try to kiss me, and maybe you’ll see how you feel when you try to kiss someone who likes it… you feel like high ! It gives you a crazy energy! ”

(Take of course the ideas but change the words, I typed it as it came.)

The reaction to the rejection is paramount. Any PUA will tell you that. I speak well about it in The inconvenient truth about gender relations : for some women, rejecting you once is a test, and they will accept later if you do not get cold feet nor insult her, don’t call her “bitch”.

I think flirting is an act of cooperation. I do not like the girls who play the “man” and like confrontation. I prefer it to be played by the two of us and that we go together until the orgasm, each one making an effort. I understand the shit-tests and tolerate them if they are not excessive but after it pisses me off and I have the impression that the girl is trying to find excuses to avoid spending a good time. I think the bitches who are waiting for me to do all the work or play it like a princess while they are not Kate Middleton do not deserve me. I love the girls who have will and strength of character.

In a nutshell: let’s not forget to be present in the moment in order to pay attention to the little signs that reveal an invitation. Then, only remains to pick the ripe fruit (I speak of course of her apricot).

Let’s trust ourselves. Let’s abandon ourselves to our feelings rather than construct disaster-scenarios. I like kissing chicks anytime too, even when they expect it the least. I find it funny (game rather than issue). And there are people who cannot show their interest or are too shy/tight-ass to do so. I would say: the best time to kiss a girl is when you feel like it.

A good kiss with sexual tension can even make you hard. Especially if you fiddle her in the same time. If you’re hard, it’s okay, I think she will be flattered! I talk about how to kiss in the manual of the good lover, and in this article too.

Go now, and do not forget to tease her: that tough love.

XXX.

In my view, we can divide all cunnilinguists into two categories, but first, let’s have a look at the issue of cunnilingus!

Cunnilingus is an oral sex act performed by a person on a female’s genitalia (the clitoris, other parts of the vulva or the vagina). The clitoris is the most sexually sensitive part of the human female genitalia, and its stimulation may result in female sexual arousal or orgasm.

Cunnilingus can be sexually arousing for participants, and may be performed by a sexual partner as foreplay to incite sexual arousal before other sexual activities (such as vaginal or anal intercourse), or as an erotic and physically intimate act on its own. Like most forms of sexual activity, oral sex can be a risk for contracting sexually transmitted infections (STIs/STDs). However, the transmission risk for oral sex, especially HIV transmission, is significantly lower than for vaginal or anal sex.

Oral sex is often regarded as taboo, but most countries do not have laws which ban the practice. Commonly, heterosexual couples do not regard cunnilingus as affecting the virginity of either partner, while lesbian couples commonly do regard it as a form of virginity loss. People may also have negative feelings or sexual inhibitions about giving or receiving cunnilingus, or may refuse to engage in it.

“Eating pussy” redirects here. If you’re not Chienese, you know what it means…

The term cunnilingus is derived from the Neo-Latin words for the vulva (cunnus) and tongue (lingua). Additionally, there are numerous slang terms for cunnilingus, including drinking from the furry cup, carpet munching, and muff-diving. Several common slang terms used are giving lip, lip service, or tipping the velvet; the latter is an expression that novelist Sarah Waters argues that she “plucked from the relative obscurity of Victorian porn”. A person who performs cunnilingus may be referred to as a cunnilinguist.

The women would rather guide her partner in terms of movements, pressures and pace they prefer.

According to a 2006 study (CSF survey), 85% of men and women have already experienced cunnilingus.

 

Cunnilinguist categories:

Those who like it and those who do not like it.

Those who know where the clitoris is and those who do not know.

Those who lick the clit and those who lick around.

Those who dismiss the skin that protects the clitoris and those who let it there.

Those listening to the reactions of the girl and those who eat it always the same way.

Those who put fingers while they lick and those who do not put fingers inside.

Those who always lick lying on the bed and those who experiment different positions (standing, front, back).

Those who do not care that there are hairs and those it blocks.

Those that smell bothers and those who know how to position their nose.

Those who eat the girl out after intercourse if the woman did not orgasm and those who don’t give a shit as long as they ejaculated.

Those who have experienced female ejaculation and those who have never make a woman squirt.

Those who know when the woman is faking orgasm because is bored and those who don’t.

Those who recognize the symptoms of the orgasm and those who don’t.

Those who stop when the girl says “stop” and those who continue to make her orgasm.

Those who stop when she came and those who continue, irritating her.

Those who stop just before she comes so the pleasure is greater and those who don’t know this trick.

Those who catch cramps: tongue, jaw, etc. and those who are well-trained.

 

For more information about the oral sex and how to make chicks orgasm like crazy bitches, read my ebook on the subject.

Sincerely,