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Online dating : the key points of the Mystery Method

In this free part of the ebook, I am a going to talk about the “Game” in a general way… then in the paying part, we will really totally focus on the online dating. Fair enough ?

 

 

A successful date aims to sleep with the girl

First of all, what is a successful date (your objective)? In my opinion, it is a date that ends with you sleeping with the girl. Not less.

Why ?

– Sex is a huge investment for a woman. Once you’ve slept with her (of course here I suppose you’re not a bad fuck but it is not the subject of this book), you’re given more room to maneuver to design the kind of relation you wish. This is why many “good” girls get drunk with their friends to muster the strength to have sex and sleep with a guy just because he was there… then they continue to see him frequently. It’s the theory of commitment and coherence. Furthermore, coming back in the bed of a guy with whom she has already slept, it’s 100 times less social pressure for her (social pressure – – -)! Poor girls, we must understand her…

– Sex allows to break the ice and thus to quickly lead the interaction towards something more intimate. I often noticed that when I slept with certain girls after 10 minutes of conversation, the ice was more broken than after 2 or 3 formal dates with others. The post-sex relationship changes dimension : you became a close friend.

– Too much unresolved sexual tension kills any sexual tension. If there is a lot of sexual tension between both of you, and during too many dates in a row (too many = more than 3), it can make things awkward (and she will think that you have a small cock). It would even be possible that she stops seeing frequently because of frustration, and thus wanting to play it gentleman will make you lose everything. I know a lot of people who say that the best part is the game of seduction… just before sleeping with the girl or kissing her. I agree, it can be funny during a moment, but one day, it will be necessary to do something more concrete (besides people often say so because they are too scared to take action). I remember a girl who wanted to play this silly game with me then I decided to don’t sleep with her before the 10th date.. to experience. I can assure you that she did not love that (nevertheless she was a classy girl: a working girl from a good family) and I’ve never been able to get a 8th date. It is regrettable but it truly shows that the politically correct has limits. Then do not take literally everything people say.

However, the more you have options (i.e. you try to chase two doggy styles rabbits at the same time), the less you care if you sleep with her during at first date or not. And you will sleep with her more often at the first date. This is a paradox… But you will notice with time and experience that : success breeds success. You have my word !

 

How to make a success of a date ?

Here are things you should do during your date:

– Stimulate her with as much different positive feelings as possible. Use your words, the tone of your voice, your body language and your environment (music, etc.) The time spent with you will so have a real impact on her and will remain burnt in her head (as well as in her small panties).

– Acting in a more and more intimate way during the date. Too many dates finish with a strange, clumsy and inopportune kiss in front of her door or in the car because of a lack of physical escalation during the date. Why is it so important ? Because it clarifies things : you do not have the slightest intention of finishing in the friendzone. It underlines as well the fact that you are sexually confident… and an active person in your search (of sex or love: in other words, of women). Remember that a woman in general does not want to feel responsible for her own seduction. Besides, they love the men who assume themselves and take what they want (alpha characteristic).

– Making so you feel comfortable like if you knew each other more than superficially. Like if you were already in a more intimate relationship. You should try to create a feeling of familiarity, intimacy and confidence : it will distinguish you from the stuck and awkward dates she often went to (90 %). And she will feel like the connection between both of you is naturally (magically ?) really good.

– Sexualize to sow the seeds of your sexual relation. By making her comfortable with the sexual subjects, you set up the frame according to which “sex is amazing, and it is the most natural thing of the world“. It is one of the most important ingredients to make a success of your date and finally sleep with her just after.

Too many guys go on dates and agree to submit themselves to the common practices that don’t pressure their girls (far too formal thus not really adapter to the intimacy we were talking about). They go to the cinema, to the restaurant or do other things like that as a first date. Sometimes even, they pay everything for them : serious mistake (if you chase several doggy hares at the same time it’s going to be expensive & by paying for a girl, you make her feel indebted to you… thing that psychologically puts people off… it is not at all your purpose) ! These guys clearly have read too many novels or seen too many movies (that are made to make teenagers dream and give a wrong vision of what a good date should be). It is too much romanticized, old man-game and inappropriate. This legend according to which “nice guys” fuck “hot girls” that is taught as morality in the Hollywood movies feeds their fantasy (being loved “for what I am without needing to make any real effort”). Life is unfortunately not moral.

The truth is that if you want to take out your pin of the game, you have to be ambitious during your dates. If “something magic” has to happen between you, it’s great… but do not wait that it happens alone, and rather give yourself the best possible odds.

 

Lousy preconceived ideas

Now, let’s talk about what is some shit (preconceived ideas and old lousy fantasies).

– The fantasy of the man who has to court the woman by singing the serenade under her window and by offering her flowers : one basically always assumes that it is the man who has to “hunt” (chase) the woman… who, she, has to play it hard to get. Even if it corresponds more or less to the laws of the evolutionary psychology (a woman looks for a man who has enough resources to take care of her children)… in the modern society, it creates lousy states of mind that do not help at all during the process of seduction. Women are in this logic seen as prizes to be won. Thus sleeping with her becomes a trophy she can give to the man who accepts the competition with the others to win her favors. It is according to this position of inferiority (hunter) that most of the guys agree to play the game. Attraction and intimacy are things difficult to obtain when you agree to communicate that you are the one who hunts the other one. To get more success, you have to change at first your state of mind on this point. You will thus attract more quality women, and you will sleep with them more quickly.

– The fantasy of the nice guy: the average man is afraid of being a man in our societies. He does not embrace his real nature of virile man who has needs… he does not act according to his deep instinct of male. It’s because of this fact that the notion of “nice guy” became so pejorative. I am not suggesting you to bang your chest by roaring out nor to drag her in the kitchen by catching her by her hair to seduce her. You are certainly a kind person, well-intentioned, who has a lot of love to be offered to a woman. Just like me. However, as previously said, the modern man lost this link with his deep nature and his sexuality :

* we are conditioned to respect the social standards, to make our needs come after those of others, to do not step out of line, to shut up in a general way about the injustices of the system;

* we are conditioned to think that the women who have fun in a sexual way are exciting whores but with whom you should not make any commitment and maybe not even sleep because they could give us a disease;

* we heard a lot about ideal models of lousy love: it’s what we can read in Fifty shades of Grey, or watch on TV (for example Briget Jones), what we lived when we were in the primary school and when we just held the hand to our lover. Ideals models that sometimes totally contradict the real world : I heard conversations between girls that were way more dirty than everything I’ve ever heard and said with my buddies.

Women in fact love men who are kind (they would be crazy otherwise), but only after they showed attractive alpha characteristics. A guy who is exciting (≈ alpha) is a guy who is in the contact with his man’s nature. The problem, it’s that “nice guys” adopt a too feminine attitude, waiting that she takes control of the relation (even sometimes for the first kiss) and put her on a pedestal. It puts too much pressure on her small feminine shoulders and place her in a male role she does not want. A normal woman likes feeling like a woman. And moreover, you too like feeling like a man and like that she is feminine, right ? Then, let’s stay in this configuration.

“Nice guys” are often poor guys neglecting themselves and seeing the love relation as an one-way road. In spite of their good intentions (pleasing people and especially women at all costs) she feels ill at ease if she is only receiving and never gives. If she has nothing to invest in the relation, the woman cannot completely touch her feminine nature. Acting like a AFC (average frustrated chump) it’s a little bit like offending her femininity… I exaggerate of course, but it is not exciting nor sexy. It is not what a well-balanced woman wants. What shows that the “nice guy” is a sucker, it’s the fact that many women admit they keep him waiting and make him pay before sleeping with him, whereas they fuck during this time with other guys (even if they know them for less time than the Nice guy and does not want to make a commitment with them).

If you are not seen as a lover (a man with whom she can explore her sexuality with impunity) you thus have the choice between :

1) falling in the friendzone;

2) Falling in the “kind-boy-perfect-as- a-husband-who-will-take-care-of-me-later” zone. What is not a bad thing for you… if want to undergo your sexual life and get married to the first girl who will agree to sleep with you.
In each of these two zones, on the sexual plan: you are fucked.

A guy she sees as a potential boyfriend will only see a single facet of her. And it’s often not the dirtiest. On the other hand, and sometimes at the same time as she tries to pick up a potential boyfriend, a guy she sees as a lover is doing a lot of naughty things every night with her… and it is even him who decides when they see each other or not, etc. It is the dark side of women. But you can be a boyfriend (or a husband) AND a lover: it is the complete man, the perfect man (or almost).

Thus the morality is : be at first an alpha lover, and then a “boyfriend” if you want. “Nice guys boyfriends” are fucked in 99 % of all cases. A small table to help you to find your way there (a balance between both lover/boyfriend, it’s very good)…

The lover The boyfriend
Excitement
Fantasy
Not always available
Dominance
Dangerous
Like what is prohibed
Surprising
Sexually experimented
Driven by passion
Mystery
Spontaneity
Safety (security)
Share his resources
Predictable, almost needy
Loyal
Healthy
Protection
Doesn’t want to pressure her
Family
Emotional and financial stability
Social conformity, no originality
Acceptance, submission

– The fantasy “he / she is so special”: too many guys told me “this girl is different from others” or “your techniques won’t work with her because she is not like the others”… while they know her for 1 week or less. Many guys have too many illusions and fall in love too easily. The consequences of the fact that she is so special for them (because she is interested in them thus she stands out in their opinion) can be that they are going to want to do too much, to be too classy and too gentleman, and to pay too much for her… and finally scare her off (TOO MUCH OF EVERYTHING…) Then they will be disappointed and will conclude “all woman are whores”.

It is important for a woman to see how a man behaves with the waiters, the vendors, etc. 3 dates allow her in her opinion to get a good idea of who you are and of if you correspond to what she is looking for or not… if ever she knows what she is looking for. Often, they settle this rule to ease their conscience.

The problem for women, it’s that quite a lot of guys change their behavior when they’ve slept with them. They become less reliable, patronize her, answer very slowly to her texts, and do not pay any more as much as they did before sleeping with her. This change of behavior frightens women.

No matter how many dates you went on with this girl, the balance of the relation tilts very often in favour of men after sex. Because it is an important emotional investment for a woman, we have already spoken about it! Some people think that the simple fact of bedtime with a woman creates chemical substances in her brain that make that she becomes attached to the guy just because she slept with. Many women had unpleasant surprises with men after sex, thus they established rules for their next dates.

I am not here to be your moral guide, but I chose the road of the honesty and of the frankness for my future relations. Not only it protects everybody’s feelings, but it also helps us create more powerful connections… and stronger ones. During my quest, I often noticed that my frankness was often suspect even pushed away… so ironic !

Women should never criticize you because you are an alpha virile who knows what he wants and who assumes the fact he enjoys making love. Some do it, but it is them who are to be pitied, because it shows that they are conditioned, frustrated… In other words, in practice: badly fucked.

 

The most frequent errors

If you have for habit to take women on romantic dates (like candlelit dinners, cinema, etc.) it will be difficult for you to satisfy all the following criteria. Too bad for you…

Even for those who are good at doing the talking, this kind of date sets up a bad dynamics in the interaction and reduces your chances of developing a more physical relation.

When you go to the restaurant with her before having ever fucked her:

– she unconsciously puts you in the “nice guy” category that she is used to reject (bad association);

– you have difficulties to do some physical escalation (because of the table between both of you);

– too much social pressure because of the conversation that should be intimate and of people all around (walls have ears);

– by wanting to pay and to impress her with your money, you would risk looking “try too hard”, by refusing to pay and by obliging her to divide up the bill, you would be thought of as a “skinflint”. The only acceptable compromise here it is to pay one time in two (1/2 date).

When you go to the cinema with her:

– problem with having a conversation;

– any attempt of kinaesthetic escalation will be felt much more hardly because there will be no conversation to disguise it (your conversation is supposed to calm the logical part of her brain until the emotional part gets the upper hand) ;

– the movie will maybe be more interesting than you for her;

– if the movie is a shit, you will have to save the night, but she will be in a bad emotional state of mind;

– you once again fall into the trap of dates so “clichés” ! Thus creating attraction will be compromised from the beginning because of your lack of originality.

I think that it is better to keep this kind of dates for the girls with who you already go out, or at least with whom you make out, if and only if really want to go to the restaurant or to watch a movie in good company. In phase of seduction, if ever you invite her to eat or to watch a movie at your place, it changes everything of course. In this case, it becomes a daring thus exciting date, because anything can happen. I’m not saying that she cannot shake you in the cinema into the darkness, but for a first time and according to the kind of girls you date, it will be delicate. It’s a good idea to make it easy for her, at least at the beginning.

When sexual tension is not released, it is sometimes funny over the short-term, but in the long run, it plays negatively on your relation. So, fuck her ! I sincerely think, by experience, that it is better to sleep with her too early than too late ! Because it is what she expects from you + because you will take in a way control of the relation and do what you want then. In addition, acting sexual as fast as possible accelerates the process of seduction, whereas being frustrated, thinking about sex but not assuming, hinders the development of a healthy relation. Calibration is key in this case too : according to the woman and according to the situation, timing won’t be the same.

Certain women have rules defined in their head, and even Ian Somerhalder would not make them break it. At least in theory… Every lock has a key as they say, you can thus choose to model at her convenience, to wait 3 years just to sleep with her… so putting aside your personality, your ambitions and your cojones. It is obviously not what I suggest. There is thus a sorting that must be done and you will learn in this ebook how to avoid this kind of girls who offer finally more problems and frustration than solutions and pleasures. And you will more assume your intentions!

The rule of the three dates before kissing/fucking a girl became public domain, but it is an enormous shit. You can sleep with a girl after 10 minutes !!! And no, she is a whore!!! It is rather because you did it well. And thanks to you, both of you will have fun…

When a woman uses the rule of the 3 dates (or 10) with you :

– understand why she does that (certainly a way of protecting herself… It is then interesting to understand against what she wants to protect herself) ;

– always be the exception to rules in your mind, rules are made to manage the sheeps which intelligence is limited, but you are a pioneer ;

– make her want to sleep with you, first of all thanks to the rapport created between both of you, then by making her understand that you admit that her situation is delicate when it comes to sex (social pressure, other guys who were jerks or bad in bed…) and finally turn her on a little to see how she reacts.

By clearing at once up that you are not the basic guy, you won’t any more fall into the “clichés” of the trying to pick up. What immediately makes you become somebody interesting. And by underlining the fact that she tries to pick you up too in return, you create a dynamics that works in your favor.

 

The key points of the Mystery Method

The Mystery Method provides sequences : attraction before comfort, comfort before seduction (sex). All this by physically escalading and by leading her towards an intimate place where you can feel enough at ease to sleep together. I do not generally like methods, because I reached a quite good level so I’m able to enjoy freestyle, but I have to admit that methods are very useful, all the same, to know where we are in the seduction process. They give a frame that can be useful… especially for beginners! I am thus going you to develop a little more on this reference method which is the basis of the community of the seduction…

To bring your mission to a successful conclusion, you must be good at :

– stimulating her feelings and demonstrating a high value (attraction) ;

– making so that she shows you her value… to make her understand that you appreciate her for something else than her physical appearance (qualification) ;

– creating a rapport and an intimate connection (comfort) ;

– turning her on and undressing her (seduction).

If you follow grosso-modo this progress, you will probably be able to sleep with her and start a relationship. You will optimize your chances. It should be noted that the phase of qualification is included in the comfort phase.

 

[ATTRACTION]

You have (to seem) to be someone funny, because this way you can more easily break rules. The excitement so created, or euphoria, inhibits the logical part of her brain and allows to deal with her emotional brain which is finally more free and more sincere.

For that purpose :

– tease her ;

– misinterpret what she says in a player tone (first of all imply that she is attracted to you, then later, that she wants to sleep with you – it’s daring but nerve pays) ;

– play games (riddles, battles of thumbs, reading the lines of the hand, playing the mentalist with people around, etc.) ;

– show that you are not a dead man of hunger who wants to sleep with her at all costs… but rather that you are someone all the same sexual who assumes. This nuance is extremely important, she does not want to feel that any girl could be on her seat or might do as well as her for you. Roughly, it is necessary that they cannot think they are exchangeable.

 

[COMFORT]

For a serious relation, it will be necessary for you to create more comfort than if you just wanted to sleep with her. A woman must know enough about you so she has good reasons for thinking that you are the one you’re claiming you are. I’m not saying here that you’re suspected of impersonation, but she has to feel relatively safe and enough trust you to invite you at her place or to agree to come to your place.

I am not a medium but I can tell you that you’ll be tested, more or less consciously, more or less finely, during your meetings.

She will want to see if :

– you really are the attracting guy that you claim your are since the beginning;

– she will really feel comfortable with you in the bedroom in the point to get naked, what she has to win with it and how you will manage the “after sex”;

– you can enter her life, and which role you could play in it (lover, one shot, husband, etc.) Roughly, if you can be of any interest for her or if you are a coal nut more than something else (I’m kidding, it is not as dichotomous as that, but it is so that you better understand).

The rule says that, more you will create comfort, more you will make tilt the balance in favour of “potential boyfriend” and thus more you will need time and efforts to sleep with her. It is thus not necessarily good to create too much comfort.

To create comfort quickly, effectively and in good dose, a good way is to reveal your passions and your purposes in life. These things that make you wake up in the morning. When you speak about it, put some passion in your voice… not for good measure, but because if there is no passion, it is because these things do not fascinate you. This is called genuineness.

Be spiritual and enthusiastic. They like mystery and intrigue… any personality is seemingly full of it. For that purpose, let your emotional side speak. You will thus communicate on a channel that they get well.

Make her understand how you see the world. We all see the world through the prism of our own reality. This is called “faiths”. But also show that you can stand up on that. With that said, for your personal comfort, I advise you to adopt positive faiths and to see a little life through rose-colored glasses as much as possible… on one hand, because anyway it changes nothing to the facts : thus it’s always better to be happy (even if it means contenting yourself with few) and on the other hand, because few people are really positive in fact thus it is soothing and attractive (more than a killjoy or a guy who sees plots everywhere… I know some).

Fear (approach, social or sexual anxiety) can paralyze you and prevent you from doing many things in your life. But it is necessary to say to yourself that fear doesn’t remove danger. That the life is an adventure, or a game. The more you will have a vision alpha of the life, the more you will see yourself as winner and the more you will be charming. Except for the eyes of the girls who are programmed to like losers (for example the LSE – low self esteem). But it’s a different story and because I want that you aim high (the top of the basket), this problem is not supposed to happen even if there is a lot of LSE on the Internet. Something else: certain people who will read this free part will think that I am a monster and that I have probably a lot of problems to be interested in the seduction and especially to see it as a science. It is another kind of faiths… I can assure you, even with more than 5 years of experience, that my vision of things is so much, otherwise more, acceptable and constructive than the one of these people (no counter-example).

We can also create comfort in a passive way. For that purpose, you have to seize the opportunities that will offer themselves to you during the meeting. Like opening the door for her or guiding her somewhere (leader). Make so that she feels safe, for example by putting your hand at the bottom of her back when you cross the street, in a protective way.

Do guy’s things. Holding her hand in the crowd : it doesn’t only mean that you do not want that she gets lost. It also communicates that you pay attention on her while you’re having a walk on the way of life. It is subtle but women are very sensitive and emotional beings. Way more subtle than us. They are very good in sub-communication. Always wonder what you sub-communicate (and not only what you communicate with your words).

Then, you try to do so that things become sexual. The problem with the phase of comfort, it’s that you will maybe be tidied up in her “potential boyfriends” mental category. By sexualizing things, you appear more sexually concrete and you go away from the image of the future-but-hypothetical-extraordinary-boyfriend (that you will never be except if you are the prince of Monaco… but she is going to fantasize). Sow the seeds of a fast kinesthetic escalation (roughly, warm her tactilely)!

I can hear you asking me : but in this case, why getting bored creating comfort if we just want to fuck her? Because without comfort, the cold sexualization would be unlikely to work.

Soft ways of sexualizing :

“Tell me more. Why do you like XXX ? I am sincere, even if I did not want to sleep with you, I would ask you for it.”

“When you talk about that, I can feel your passion in your voice, it’s sexy. Tell me more… or rather don’t, we should speak about something else because it gives me not really Catholic ideas (sex).”

A frame, it’s the underlying and emotional context of any interaction. It exists everywhere in the society : in any communication, there is a frame. Imagine, for example, when you talk to mister Dupont, your philosophy teacher. Imagine now that this mister Dupont is a lieutenant, either a psychologist. See how with the same person, the context would be different, thus your attitude would change. The attitudes of the protagonists adapt themselves to the frame of the underlying communication.

If we apply it to pick up:

– you can choose to be a kind boy, considerate, who patiently waits that the girl decides that it’s time to let you sleep with her, and dependent of his girlfriend to be happy in life. You often send her texts or phone to her, and buy her very expensive presents. It sets up the frame according to which you are not exciting. Roughly, you can see her as a hardly accessible girl for whom it will be necessary to you to make a lot of efforts;

– otherwise you can also choose to act in a daring, exciting way, to be ambitious and unpredictable and to never say “no” to an adventure. You surprise her and so test her limits and realize her fantasies. Her emotional state when she will be with you will be totally different. There will be this special spice. You set up the frame according to which you are exciting. Here you choose to see her as a girl with whom you’re certainly going to sleep, unless she is too tight-ass to see what is her interest (sexually speaking).

If you do not set up a frame in your favor then the others will choose one for you, at their convenience, rather one easy for them and one that does not disturb them too much. You will lose very often if you are passive. Anyway, a frame of kind boy will never be favorable to a fast kinesthetic escalation as far as it would be perceived by her as something strange. A little bit like a passive-aggressive: when he gets excited, it surprises everybody and we do not understand what is happening. By quickly clearing things up, by imposing that you are a sexual man, you completely transform the dynamics between both of you. And if she is not happy with that, she leaves : bravo, you saved time and saved some energy. The cherry on the cake is that with such an attitude you will influence her psychological state, and thus improve your rate of success.

For example, if you are clear with the fact that you are not someone who judges, she will more be tempted to have fun in the bed with you. Fear and social pressure in a relation : you can limit them even delete them if you put a good frame in your interaction. She will certainly test you to be sure that you are who you claim you are, thus do not start telling that your ex is a whore because she banged 3 guys since you broke up. Be positive : rather say that “good for her if she has fun, if she has orgasms, it’s something cool taken on life anyway” and that moreover you have for principle to never leave your partner not satisfied, etc.

Your purpose is to fix frames that help you (she wants to sleep with you) rather than to let her fix what she wants (she wants to test you to see if you deserve to make out with her in a few weeks). Claim you are the prize in the interaction, and you will maybe become the prize. In any case, you will more be it than if you did nothing and passively accept your fate.

How to fix such a frame ?

– Interpret things she does as an attempt to seduce you. But do it in a relax, funny way. If you are not credible or too authoritarian or if you are not comfortable yourself when you do that, you will meet some resistance and rejection. Because they have an ego too: when somebody accuses them too extravagantly of trying to impress him, they often react by putting him back in place.

– Find things she has or does that please you, and link them with sexuality. For example, “I like the smell of your lip balm, if you continue to put it on you, I guess that I could not refrain from kissing you everywhere… everywhere…
– ah well so I will put more of it right now!”

You can do it in the form of a game or a challenge too. But funny and with second degree. Me, who am a notorious womanizer, I like saying “ah you know, many girls before you tried to take my virginity”. If she is from the beginning or was put in the good state of mind, she could answer “yes but, me, I am going to succeed“.

Sometimes, they will try to impose their frame. Something saying that you have to pay for everything to deserve possibly-maybe-one-day their sexual favors. This is all good for them, in a sense: they stay in their zone of comfort and you pay for her (sucker !). If their frame is too strong in their mind (I call this kind of girl “princesses spoiled by their parents”) it is possible that there is nothing else to do to sleep with her than complying with their requirements of neurotics (but in this case run away otherwise she will maybe be a pain in your ass during a loooooong time). Otherwise, it can be a test and you can try to reframe to see if that works… Anyway trying does not cost anything. The one who has the strongest frame will so influence the other one.

Women are programmed to like alpha attitudes such as protection, etc. Even the most feminist one. Except the neurotics sometimes. I’m talking about emotional, physical and financial protections, in an ideal world.

Try to become a man who knows what he wants, where he goes and with what kind of women. And who does not have a change of mind as a weather vane. The more you will have a strong virile presence, the more you will be an emotional protection for her. Also try to be emotionally positive. Somebody funny, informal and funny. Sometimes it’s difficult, but in this case, why not following a therapy : if really you have things that haunt you and prevent you from being happy even when you’ve just fucked a HB10 (if you feel you need to get it off your chest) ?

If you are strong, confident and a leader during dates, you will maybe break the rule of 3 the RDV(Rendez-Vous) because she will be more likely to be guided by you in a bed, without feeling guilty because she will not feel responsible for her own seduction.

Most of women are programmed to don’t assume their own seduction. This is why they settle rules. They do not want to feel as being a whore who manages the trying to pick up. In such a case, they can feel this feeling like if they were a male, if they take control, and so… feeling uncomfortable then losing their attraction. Once and for all : making them comfortable without “too much” will allow you, statistically speaking, to screw more and faster.

It is not easy for the most part of us to act as a leader. Because alpha are rare by definition and dominate the masses of the beta males : there is much more beta males than alpha males in the nature. But we can work on it, and we can improve our Game. Especially that an alpha is not necessarily alpha in all the domains (even never) and a beta is not a useless person (well, normally).

How to train to become a better leader :

– place your hand at the bottom of her back, take her hand when you cross the street either enter somewhere or cross the crowd. As a general rule, be the one who introduces the physical contact and the first one who stops it. If she feels a lack, it is BINGO.

– be emotionally positive, funny, humour in a light manner. See yourself as the master of her emotional and in particular sexual state.

– the responsibility for managing the conversation lies with you. That does not mean that you have to speak all the time and boast. On the contrary, you have to make her talk a lot. You have to manage the conversation and direct it to interesting/exciting subjects. Avoid subjects that generally do not help in seduction, in particular all that is negative and that can make you appear as a loser. You can play (to guess, to make her guess) to games or practice your cold reading. A woman wants to see, among others, if you are socially intelligent. Talk about her passions, yours, what she likes, her fantasies, hobbies, her challenges in life, her dreams… and yours !

– decide where to go and what to do. Have a backup plan in case she would not like what you had in mind. Get closer to the bed : If it starts raining, to be cold and that you are outside, or if the conversation starts to sink, change place (why not suggesting going to your place?).

A woman will test you. She will want to test your limits and estimate your strength of character. In the same way as YOU, you stare at her tits and ass to estimate her. They generally know what they look for and on what they are ready to make concessions (no one is perfect).

If you fail her tests or if you let her exceed the limits, you will meet more resistance (encounter more difficulties to have a possible sexual relation). The more you will be soft, weak and influenced, the less you she will feel attraction for you.

By showing that if she pisses you off too much, you can leave and that you will find others women you’ll screw (but that it would be too bad FOR BOTH OF YOU), you show that you are a valuable man who has other options (and that she had caught up to here your attention). That you have criteria and requirements (you are not a submitted pussy). That the first silly bitch you meet cannot suck your cock. And thus that you do not put her on a pedestal like most of the guys certainly do especially if she is a very pretty girl. This change will affect her.

The only reason why a guy would not assume to put limits on a behavior that disturbs him, it’s the fear of losing the girl (submission). It is all the more ridiculous if he hardly knows her. We say that a rare horse is expensive : that’s what is going to make your value, and that’s a good thing because you are a stud. Not only you have to remain a challenge for her, but she also has to feel an emergency, otherwise she will put you on waiting list. It’s her motivation to act (experts in marketing know that playing on the competition urges to the purchase). But so that it works, she must be attracted, interested, and recognize in you a sexual potential.

How to do so?

– If you walk together and if she goes into a shop, you can leave her a few moments and go to see something else. It communicates that you are not needy and that you are independent.

– You can move forward without waiting for her… or let her walk in front of you if something catches your attention. Don’t do that in a dark and dangerous street all the same.

– Be firm on your limits, but do not become a big idiot (too much badly placed arrogance communicates an ill-being, what is not attractive).

– Have fun wrongly breaking the rapport, “When I will know you better, I will tell you a secret“. Then, you can say any bullshit when she will have insisted a lot to know what is this fucking secret. Something like “I’ve been told I am king of the cunnilingus“. It is called push&pull (two steps forward, one step back).

– You have minimum criteria, you are demanding with women (they like that a man has standards, this is why they are demanding with themselves, generally).

– Enjoy disqualifying her in a player way, like “You and I, it will never work, because you watch “Les Reines du Shopping” (French stupid TV show for women)…………………………………..no I’m kidding, I watch it sometimes too, it’s funny“. I remember a girl I disqualified too hardly (a smocking hot 17 years old hottie when I was 24) and thus I’ve lost her. I had said something like “you are too young for me” and she took it literally then starting a relationship with a guy as old as me.

 

[SEDUCTION]

Plan little in advance if you want to fuck her at her place, at your home, or in your car. When you go on a date, always have an idea of what you could do with the girl and where, in an ideal world. Then wonder sincerely why it would be impossible. Often you will realize that it is about a glass prison. It is an audacious world map (breaking this imaginary wall) but the nerve pays ! Otherwise you can sometimes enjoy walking in the street with her then “ah ! it’s funny ! we are in front of my apartment ! what coincidence… do you wanna come over ?”

Invisible sexual tension (weird reactions, clumsiness) is present in any interaction between the people who are attracted. Do not waste it! It is normal and natural, then assume it and play with it. Feel at ease in the sexual tension (it requires some training). Start with the touch: for example when you give a kiss to her to say hello, put your hand on her shoulder or her hip. Then, escalate the interaction as I speak about it in The (inconvenient) truth about gender relations.

The feelings of women are very powerful, once they’re stimulated. It can urge them to make decisions (positive or negative – she’ll slap your face or suck you on her knees) that they would not necessarily have made without pressure. My philosophy has always been that being fixed is always better than staying in the inactivity. It’s another interesting world map that allows to move on quickly and without too many damages if the girl is not on the same wavelength as us.

By awakening her sexual desire, you stimulate her emotional side and not her logical side. You so take away her objections and the social pressure. In one second, she can be taken by a tsunami of hormones in her panties and do not be able to think anything but being fucked by the beautiful guy in front of her, and too bad if usually she does not sleep at the first date! She will just think about pleasure over the moment… and about consequences later!

You should develop your skill/talent to warm women. With your words (we will study it in this ebook), with your body language (read How to sublimate your body language). Creating sexual attraction, evolution (like a Pokemon) of the latent sexual tension, does not depend on the logic (way that us, men, are nevertheless used to think). Practicing the language of women needs knowledge and practice, but it’s more than powerful once integrated and applied. It can even become a second nature ! Of course, every woman is different, but knowing a whole arsenal of techniques to turn women on and quickly escalate tactilely will help you in any case. Even more if you play on the statistics!

The only way to make love with a lot women a lot is to lead them. It can appear as an advice at the same time obvious and doubtful for an average guy who does not practice a good type of Game… but a woman will almost never do your work of man for you.

If you follow the stages suggested in this book, you will have many dates, and you will fuck with most of them. And it is not called “cheating”. If you have a good approach, a good profile, if you prepare her on-line by telling her the good things, and then that if you confirm this attitude during an exciting date, she will want to sleep with you very quickly. You will have the impression that it happened magically, and both of you will love that!

Know that the trying to pick up and especially online dating puts a lot of pressure on the protagonists of the interaction: if you thought you had a lot the pressure, then know that she doubtless feels even more than you. Women undergo a non-natural pressure (social pressure) way more powerful than us. However, if you adopt a not judgemental approach, you can set the most intelligent women free from their glass prisons. And you will enjoy in peace together !

Come on, let’s go ! Now that we are more clear on the principles of the Game, let’s adapt all this to the Game on the Internet. What follows is a COMPLETE AND CONCRETE book (50-50% between theory and application). No matter if you are a sniper or a horse that likes bumping against them (it’s a metaphor), you will find what you are looking for in this ebook about online dating. See you…

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Online dating dangers : red alert

Digital identity involved

Users of dating sites expose themselves to a series of swindles that are moreover the object of petitions.

 

Lies about the profiles

Works were led on the truthfulness of the profiles on the dating sites. These studies found for example differences according to the genre, men lying more on their size and women on their weight.

 

Romance scam

A very wide-spread problem as regards the authenticity of the registered users is the multiple cases of Romance Scam : a shape of swindle in which groups of Africans are been thought of as businessmen and send beautiful promises of love to mature women on dating sites. They then ask them to send some money for a purely invented emergency. According to the official statement of the damages that the FBI published in 2011, the declarations of the American citizens amounted to more than 50 million dollars / year. On an international scale, the damage is every year estimated to more than 100 million euros.

 

Blackmail attempt (webcam)

Your interlocutor appears as a person being interested in you, gains your trust. By unconsciousness, you activate your webcam and are involved in a more intimate conversation. The trap closes: the swindler took advantage of it to record you and then has images susceptible to strike a blow at your private life. The blackmail begins : they threaten you to upload the video online if you do not pay an important sum of money.

 

Sites infiltrated by prostitution

Some dating sites, in particular erotic ones, are infiltrated by prostitution.

 

Hostesses of dating sites

Some dating sites rest at least partially on a quite particular economic model: They hire “hostesses” who, by the creation of fake profiles, are in charge of arousing your interest enough to make you subscribe and so that it is extended, or still that numerous calls to premium-rate numbers (or clicks towards viruses) are made. These swindles are denounced by many victims on forums.

 

Deceitful communication: lie on the number of subscribers

A lot of “members” are often old inactive profiles, to whom the site took care of not asking for the deregistration. The number of subscribers claimed by those sites is moreover betrayed by the number of visitors underlined by the independent agency that measure audiences : Alexa Internet.

 

Lie on the gender parity

Although most of dating sites claim they have as many female members as male members, but we observe that there is sometimes in fact 2/3 x more men than women. (1 woman <=> 2/3 men)

 

Deficiency regarding legal information: absent Prescribing Information Text

Some dating sites do not respect their legal obligations i.e. supplying information such as the name of the company (with the SIRET in France, SNN in the United States, NINO in the United Kingdom etc.), the mail address as well as the phone number or the e-mail.

General terms of use are not often transposed into the user’s legislation.

(It is besides recommended to go only on famous sites to avoid credit card frauds realized by phishing.)

 

A with difficulty applicable right to withdraw

The French law allows, regarding remote sale, to withdraw within seven days that follow the subscription. It is submitted to the non-use of the service, a condition difficult even impossible to satisfy for an Internet user who is redirected since his registration on the profiles of the other members.

 

Termination and tacit renewal of the subscription

The code of the consumption plans the tacit renewal of the subscription when it comes to an end. It thus belongs to the consumer to make expressly the request of termination and, besides, they have to do it two to seven days in advance according to general terms of use. The dating sites do not often warn their customers of these modalities of termination. According to 60 Millions de consommateurs (French magazine), it is necessary to deactivate the automatic renewal in the space attributed to the user account. Certain sites based abroad, like eDarling or Be2, were the object of complaints (=> European Center of consumers).

 

Your manhandled personal data: risk of permeability between dating sites and social networks

The dating sites, just like social networks such as Facebook, Twitter, Google + or LinkedIn, want to become integrated and to stand out on the Web. To do it, they develop the interoperability to create footbridges between themselves and other sites having a customer database adapted to their business development. A dating site like Badoo or Zoosk is then going to be a member of numerous requests that an Internet user can click inadvertently when he is connected on his Facebook account. This is the way a lot of people found themselves despite their willingness registered and referenced on dating sites. It was able to damage the e-reputation of some of them, like this priest who had to give up his parish. The deregistration is not easy, and even later, you’re often still referenced there. Several complaints against Badoo were lodged with the CNIL.

 

Permeability between dating sites

Canadians who had joined on love2meet.com found themselves registered on other dating sites belonging to the same company “Global Personals”. This one is not moreover necessarily a true owner of sites, but simply sells its services.

 

Personal information leaks

In 2013, the Australian editor of dating sites Cupid Media has let escape the personal data of its 42 million users.

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Online dating : the balance of power in favour of women

Women have the power in seduction, we know that for a long time at a profound level. But on the dating sites, it is the even worse than somewhere else. Us, men, are thus perfect targets for getting plucked. I led a little experiment so that you became aware of the scale of the phenomenon (sic).

 

Little experiment :

* A profile of cute woman that was created 24 hours ago on POF (not very active site in France but totally free thus pefect for my experience) has already received:
– Visits : 189
– Likes : + 99 (the site cannot be more precise)
– Messages : 124

* A profile of cute guy (I uploaded the photo of a buddy that girls generally find hot) that was created 24 hours ago on POF only received:
– Visits : 11
– Likes : 1
– Messages : 0

I visited 100 male profiles with the female profile and 100 female profiles with the male profile just to launch the project and to observe the reactions. Knowing that, although it is not comparable, we could say that the guy is hotter than the girl. That’s what gives pause for thought… But don’t worry, after having read this ebook, you will have understood why.

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Online dating : definition

A dating site is a Web site that allows people to come into contact and to communicate in order to develop a relation (sentimental, erotic or friendly type) over a more or less long period.

The access to these sites requires personal information such as the age, the genre and the geographical place.

Dating sites work in a way like a market : you can « prospect » and « sell yourself » with the aim of finding people with whom you want to try to develop a nice relation. This space allows to publish photos and to see those of theother members. The exchanges can be made with internal telecommunication services : the messages, the chat with or without audio or video exchange (webcam). A service of matchmaking (getting in touch by affinities) can also be proposed.

Many dating sites ask for a paying monthly subscription. Some are totally free. Others are “free” but propose paying additional features (freemium). I know no girl who would go wild because a guy pays $10 to offer her virtual flowers. That is called the foot in the door : don’t let yourself be manipulated ! The paying sites are sometimes paying… only for men.

A dating site can be non-specialized or specialized for a type of relation (loving, erotic, friendly) or a type of members (religious or ethnic membership, sexual orientation, age bracket).

If the dating sites known to the general public are often non-specialized sites, the other sites, in a logic of niche strategy, are specialized in the area of cougars, swingers, unfaithful, gays, Muslims, demanding single men, bears, afro-descendants…

According to a study led by the CSA (FRENCH BROADCASTING AUTHORITY), 62 % of the people registered on sites of on-line meetings are looking for one-night stands while only 35 % are looking for a serious relationship.

Which means that more than 62 % of the subscribers on dating sites is men (very few women would say that) and even the guys sometimes want to get married. According to my estimation, subscribers’ percentage across all categories is something like 20 % women / 80 % men. It’s scary !

Alexa is an independent agency that measure audiences.


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My purpose : making you save money on the Internet

This book aims to teach you how to pick up free of charge on the Internet, as classy as a PUA. Just like Dark Vador, I wish to transmit here everything I know to my padawans. I will deal with the case of the free dating sites and applications… and of the social networks (free ones). Of course, all these techniques also work on paying sites : but once you’ll see that you don’t need to pay in order to fuck seduce, you will ignore them, I’m sure.

It is necessary to understand the underlying principle to all the sellers of meetings: because the guys are more numerous on a dating site, it is necessary to make it free for women so that women come. Women who will make come more guys who… them… will pay. It is inequitable but it is exactly the same principle as in these clubs I hate : “free entrance for girls” or “free champagne for girls”. Where I live, the entrance in a club costs 20€, what means that one MONTH of online pickup is not more expensive than 2 nights in a club. Anyway, if we accept this system, we are suckers, money pits. And the worst thing, it is that all these people do not have any interest in the fact that we meet love because then we would not come back on their site or in their club. Do you understand the problem ? Cool.

Paying sites tend to have more money, so are able to advertise more widelty : they claim they have quality women, women who, of course, take online dating way more seriously than on any other dating site… The truth is that “no”. This whole thing is fake. On one hand, because often women can join free of charge thus they have no reason for taking it more seriously than somewhere else. Then, because there are lots of fake women on these sites, fake profiles, supposed to incite you to join… or then real profiles but women who do not connect any more for years. Finally, because, sincerely, the women who join on this kind of sites to find rich guys are more discouraged and old on average than somewhere else. You won’t sink to that all the same!

There are certainly serious paying and quality dating sites… but they are rare. It is a business above all. So statistically, you are more likely to get it in the neck. Besides, I know some guys who paid 30€ a month or more to subscribe on a site then discovered with bewilderment that in fact there was only three people in their area registered on it (if you don’t live in a big city, it is quite likely that it will to you). Statistically, that is not worth it (unless you agree to add to the price of the registration, the price of the train ticket).

There are many traps in the world of online pick up, so in a general way, avoid paying, giving the code of your credit card… and you will avoid a lot of problems.

If you decide to pay to register you somewhere, use a secure platform, like Google Play for Adoptaguy : so they will not directly have access to your personal information and cannot renew your subscription infinitely (by ignoring your e-mails of cancellation). I’ve read on some forums that it had already happened to some guys. If it is impossible and if you all the same want to join (sic) verify that the transaction will be secured (https://) in the address bar.

In France, I use my free account on Adopt. Also apps like Tinder. And Facebook (by far what made me meet most women). Obviously, the combination of several sites will considerably increase your chances for success with girls.

It seems that on the international stage, PlentyofFish and Okcupid are interesting. But in France, at least in South of French, very few women are registered on these dating sites thus their interest is limited (except maybe if you want to date foreigners).

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Online dating : warnings and reflections

The stereotype of online pick up 

Many people have unfavorable bias against online pick up. Many women (men a little bit less) have difficulty in assuming and in saying to their friend that they registered on a dating site or that the charming guy they have met… they in fact met him on the Internet!

The reason is simple: most of people (and especially women) do not want to have the impression that they need Internet to get dates. The world changes very fast but people do not follow at the same speed. It is not something new : at one time, certain people were burned because they had dared to claim that the Earth is a sphere. But if you are an intelligent opportunist of today, then not only you do not risk to finish on the stake… but in addition you have already understood that you have much to gain in learning how to use Internet in your advantage (you can make money, meet women…)

I’m not gonna lie, you will also fall on girls a little disturbed if you pick up very often on the Internet. It’s statistics. Women are sometimes afraid of falling on a psychopath who is going to rape them. But I think that if it is all that they are afraid of, they have more chances to find him in their favorite bar. Because the good news it that, on the Internet, you can detect and easily avoid negative people (and moreover, you cannot end up with some drugs in your drink).

Wonder what motivated this person to use a dating site? If she is really hot, for example, why would she pick up on the Internet while she just has to go out in a bar to get picked up ? Every girl can have her own reasons: some live at their parent’s or have a fascinating work and cannot go out anytime, others do not drink alcohol and seeing a lot of drunk people gets on their nerves, others live in Marseille (city with insecurity) and are afraid of being assaulted if they go out… Anyway, try to understand her motivations… they are maybe healthy (or she simply has the right to be a nymphomaniac, don’t judge her).

Do you see everything on the photos? If you can only see her face, wonder if she is not obese or handicapped. Some hide it shamefully… and once they have seen that the guy in front of her is not happy, they say it is a shame that he does not want to go any farther with her because of their overweight or their handicap. But maybe that the guy simply would have loved to do not be caught by surprise !

If she is ugly on certain photos, know that often girls look IRL like on the worst photo you can find on their online profile (on FB, that’s not true). Be alert anyway !

Is she “teasing” you a little bit too much ? Does she emphasizes her butt and her tits on every pictures ? Any excess is not normal. Not necessarily eliminatory, but in case of doubt, it is necessary to dig the question before meeting her.

Does she takes all her photos alone, at her place, in her bathroom? And if yes, why ? I do not want you to become paranoiac, but be wary. Internet is a jungle : what presents many advantages and some inconveniences. In other words, online dating is a game that can be dangerous if we take it lightly. You know, there are also girls who harass guys when they have their address or their phone number : guys are not the only people which can prove to be possessive starved persons. Thus, a minimum of precautions is mother of safety.

The bigger your city, as a general rule, the better your chances to find beautiful interesting women. It’s statistics (the ambient mentality comes into account too).

Finally, good seducers, generally, don’t like online pick up. As a consequence, you will have few competition on these sites if you can achieve a good level. And you will easily take out your pin of the game!

 

Picking up on the Internet, a good or a bad thing?

Before going in a party to get picked up, women are accustomed to spending 2 hours in the bathroom. All this to finally undergo awkward assaults all night long hoping that a “good guy” finally comes and approaches them.

The thing is that, often, “good guys” do not approach. Exactly, many good guys have for faith that approaching is “disturbing” and do not want to bother girls (many contend that they just go out to dance or to listen to music or to speak with her friends). Rare are the good guys without inhibitions (in a society where the morons of the reality TV are set up as models) or who know the Game (to get ready to overcome their approach anxiety). Then, those who approach are often big badly educated jerks who are sent to hell (or get kissed if the girl is discouraged). By seeing these guys who dare to approach being sent to hell 99 % of time, it gets away any envy to the well raised and a little bit shy guy to be turned into cannon fodder. Exactly, because he, he is endowed with a brain in working order.

What the hell is going on ? A general misunderstanding. Masses of girls who wait that the guys they like come talking to them, thing they could never do themselves because of approach anxiety. They think they are the only sex that can feel it ? Roughly, in a time when we speak about gender equality, the guys still have to do what women do not dare do, otherwise they are not men, I mean “real men”! Can we say that a woman who doesn’t cook has no pussy ? Because, often, I hear girls saying that the guys who do not dare to approach them have no balls. Which just goes to show that in the feminization, they really take only what arranges them…

On the Internet, women feel more at ease (no need to spend 2 hours in the bathroom) and moreover, they are a little more active in their researches (because more comfortable). Women who join dating sites are “applicant” (even if they have difficulty in assuming it, they will have difficulty in claiming that they are just here for the music), they thus already turned a corner in their head. This way, online pick up has the potential to move us (men and women) closer by allowing them to jump the stage of “approaching”… but online dating is unfortunately now in the collective unconscious associated with the clumsy womanizer. Indeed, for some : if you approach you are you a jerk who tries to pick up everything that moves so without interest… but if you don’t approach, you are a guy without balls thus without interest. Kind of traumatizing. In brief, for a lot of people, the field of the possible loving meetings limits itself to the friends of friends and to people who study or work with them : spontaneous and a priori disinterested meetings. It is limited and especially we really have no control on it.

Roughly, I think that by simplifying the equation one can find his/her way. Indeed, online dating allows those who know how to use it to reach directly the stage of the date by jumping this fucking “ice breaking” stage that raises so many problems in our society.

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The limit of online dating

Who am I ?

If seduction was something taught at the university, then online pick up would be my strong suit. If you have read my Diary of a French PUA, you know that approximately 50% of the women I’ve slept with, I have seduced them on the Internet and WITHOUT PAYING ANYTHING. You also know that it is on the Internet that I’ve found love : a cute and smart girl, and it lasts   for 1,5 year now. And you know that I’ve made outstanding experiences thanks to online pick up (like threesome, foursomes…)

After a few years of practice, I saw a plan taking shape. I discovered what kinds of messages I could send to women to draw their attention and stand out, then to obtain their FB, their number, pictures of them naked, dates or to directly make them come to my place, etc. Then, I created a technique to still improve my Game : a way of writing a profile that can make you, guys, become “the prize” so girls make the first step.

My specialty, you certainly know it, is to sleep with girls met on Internet at the first date. Even to make them come to my place or to go to their place directly and to fuck them ten minutes later. Between you and me, I have no great powers… I just worked hard to get to this point!

The ebook you get ready to read is the crowning of more than five years of trying to pick up on the Internet, more than 100 undressed women and some couple relationships (at least one very strong). I am now ready to share with you all the secrets that allowed me to get to this point because I will not really need it anymore, I hope.

 

Limits of IRL (in real life) pick up?

What is amazing with online pick up, it’s that you can have a practice whenever, quietly. You can work on it from any location where there is some network. It is very practical.

It is easier and it pays more than “on the field” pickup for beginners (because rejection is virtual)… and these easy successes they will have with great girls will allow them to improve their confidence and to become more successful IRL. It is a virtuous circle. Online pick up is also a good complement for the good seducers who would want to deal with the subject.

It is very easy to have a date every night if we follow the rules imposed by women… less easy to fuck them all… and even less easy to don’t get plucked – in every sense of the word and especially monetarily speaking. But I think I have become really good at this game : I can now make some good girls come over, or getting invited to their home, when I want. A simple Internet connection is enough for me. I am going to explain all this stuff.

However, I do not want you to use online pick up as an excuse to stay home doing some intellectual masturbation. You can use it to bang beautiful women met online and then be enough confident to go out and do the same thing in a bar or in a street.

Just so we’re clear on that : when you will be really good, it will be no more than a complement to your Game. A new underwear string to your bow. Internet does not replace field in the sense that you need a “social intelligence” that can only be acquired on contact with real people. So, if you only work on the Internet, you’re going to do some shit in front of the girls and thus to waste most of your dates. With that said, if you just want to get married, it can be enough. As Jean-Claude Dusse says so well “with a misunderstand, everything can work“.

 

The point of this ebook ?

All the women are not interesting nor attractive on the Internet… OK, I totally agree! But in the crowd, it is possible to find some amazing women and to have loads of fun. I am going to help you to recognize them and to tempt them to do something naughty with you naked!

Thanks to the techniques of communication and to the principles of feminine psychology (adaptation of the rules of the Game to online pickup) that I am going to teach you in this book, you will have only few efforts to make to be very regularly served on a silly platter (fresh gazelles on the menu)!

I want this book to be rock-solid investment! So, this work will give you key in hand, step by step, message after message, an effective method to fuck pretty girls without much effort. It is not a dream, it’s reality ! Then, it will be up to you to start, or not, a more serious relationship with these girls.

I even decided to pass my powerful and secret technique on to you, the most powerful thing I know, it will allow you thanks to some copied-pasted to turn on girls so much on the Internet… that during the date: they will come with the impression you already know each other and with the desire of fucking you ASAP (as soon as possible). Those who read my blog, my free ebooks or even my other on-line products know that I never say bullshit and that I always keep promises. Then realize that all this stuff is not marketing claptrap (like the shit a lot of other coaches like to promise), but a possible reality that open its arms to you!

The ball is now very clearly in your court : I know that you’re going to enjoy this book and that it will largely help you to have the success you deserve with women ! It is called the universe of the possible. You can continue your reading and your Game will be improved forever or you can close this file and continue with your usual Game just as it is.

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Answers to my detractors and why I am right

What follows is the translation of an article which I cannot regrettably translate in its entirety because it is full of French reference. In brief, a guy has liked my site and showed it to his girl who began to offend me. The fellow suddenly changed opinion. And then, they made a false profile on Internet to try to trap me and make me go to a fake date. I unmasked them before fortunately. What that reveals on them, acting like that? Impotence and evil-being.

You can read the article in French here.

Why the poor men lick the bottom of their girl by losing self-esteem? Some claim that they are in love and they think that that justifies everything. But in fact, few are really in love, many convince themselves that they are by ease. To make efforts, to go pick up, not it is so easier to empty me testicles in this girl even if she is not totally rather convenient for me than to find one I really like. Bit by bit they meet themselves booby-trapped because they get fat or other, and there it is the end of beans. In brief, this kind of attitude reveals well a lack of personality and self-confidence.

Why the women (and the experience showed me that it is especially those who do not trust their power of seduction) want couples and make the guys feel guilty as well as the other girls who have fun? Already to be sure hold the guys in leash, then that allows them to say “He loves my personality not my ass, he is a good guy”. Effectively, it is a sucker who fucks a fat and soft idiot by ease… Know that we are all governed by the instinct and the rules of the evolution, then I laugh slowly when people who ever read nothing on these subjects think that I base my argumentations on things which are not proved.

There are too much of those guys who say to women “oh no I am not an asshole like him, I don’t want to fuck that doesn’t interest me… well now that I said that, can we fuck ?”

My goal isn’t to be a pain in the ass. But rather to make them happy and wishes only the happiness of my fellow man : It is for that that I created a blog of personal development which will help those who will indeed want to accept the certain truths. It is when we feel ill at ease and not filled in life that we look for the shit : instead of trying to get out upward, most of people try to pull the others downward. It is sad, do not fall in this trap.

I do not manipulate any girl. I do not even try to sleep with a lot of girls, I am too old now… I experience, I enjoy myself, I take some pleasure and especially I give pleasure. I am for the natural game, that is to say the cash game. There are no fucking games with me, just initiatives. That hurts me in fact, seeing people driven by their ideology and totally out of the reality criticizing me while they read of fault what I write.

Most of the right-minded people are simply people who have never taken a single slap in the mouth. It is for that that I criticize so much the overprotected society in fact. Most of people really know nothing about life, they do not know the price, they defend useless ideals and piss off the world for bullshit instead of savoring the luck they have. We should restore at least the military service instead of authorizing them to look at so much fucking series which make them weak and idiot. Diplomas mean nothing anymore in Fance now then everybody considers intelligent and thinks of being right.

Misogynist? H’m not. Macho man? Neither. Consider women as objects? On the contrary. I am feminist because I defend the sexual freedom of the women. No judgment of my part, I try to make change the mentalities of the other men. The thing it’s that idiot girls judge those who gave fun because they have not enough personality to set themselves free.

Follow my advices, you will go farther than by reading all these stupid blogs held by sub-shit as it teems with it on Web. I’m fed up that some people think that what I write are opinions… No, they are facts based on studies and experiments. And yes, I studied the evolutionist theories, the communication, and I have several years of experience now. Stop taking me for an idiot huh, I have a good degree and a QI of 142.

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10 tricks to stand out on the sites of online dating

I have been a little bit negative in my last article about online dating. I have to admit that awesome girls can be met online. Moreover, it would be very hypocritical crying out the opposite because I see frequently at the moment several kinky girls met online. But to achieve such a outcome instead of being plucked as a pigeon, it is necessary to know how to take advantage of online dating (or being lucky what I wish for you). Here are thus 10 tricks which will help you to improve your game online.

#1 it is marketing, you have to sell a product, and this product it’s you:

– the nickname : choose something which draws attention, something funny or which allows her to start a conversation. For example, a buddy has chosen “click-here”. So catchy! My “Bio Product” works well enough too because it allows me to tell girls that I am a man as a sex object who they can eat without getting fat. On the other hand, forget the things like “sex god”, “big dick”, etc.
– The choice of photos: The main photo is determining then forget pictures taken topless in the mirror or your bathroom on which we can see your pubic hairs. Selfies with duckfaces also, so cheap. On the contrary, the girl has to think “hmm this guy looks interesting I am gonna click on him”. It is the packaging of your product : it is necessary to attract the eye. If you d not look like Ian Somerhalder, do take pictures like if you were a model… Choose funny or intriguing photos who allows girl to start a conversation thanks to the staging.
– The description : I advise you to put so much text as you can and to write without spelling mistakes. Your text has to contain punchlines. No ideas? You can be inspired by advertisements which knew the success or you can visit some profiles of girls and to use their techniques against them. Finally, as in a job interview, make so that your claimed defects are in fact qualities.

#2 you do not take Online Dating too seriously :

in the women’s minds, even if they are on the site, only losers need Internet to pick up girls. Thus, and it can seem paradoxical, you have to adopt an attitude which conveys the fact that you do not need it.

#3 suggest the fact that you are good with women :

don’t put any photos on which you seem to like very much a girl… Rather photos on which girls seem to desire you. Also mattering : don’t kiss any girls on your photos: The jealousy is a good thing only if it is mixed with the uncertainty.

#4 do not brag and do not look weird :

avoid the things like “handsome sexy guy with six pack”… I mean, girls can see if you are sexy, no need to write it “Womanizer wants to play with your smlittle string” bragging communicates a lack of confidence (even if it is not your case case in fact), in the mind of the girls it is like the guy who compensates for a small cock with a big car. Furthermore, on the Internet, the girls will eliminate you at the first detail which will seem “weird” to them because it is well-known that there is a lot of strange guys and psychopaths online. But if you are too “normal”, you are insipid thus not interesting either. A middle ground has to be found.

#5 do not answer to every question in your description to make women send the first message :

if the girl has the impression that she chose you and that she came talking to you… Then the frame of the discussion will be that she tries to pick you up you and you will thus be from a position of strength. Then, your work will not any more consist in differentiating you of the mass, simply in not wasting everything. For example, do not lose your virility by becoming needy just because a girl is interested in you (I think of these guys who send 15 messages when she does not answer or who harass her by the telephone)… That would inform her that you are a loser because the other girls are not interested in you.

#6 sort out :

statistics are your friends. Some guys think that quickly by sexualizing the conversation, they lose girls because quite a lot of girls stop answering. The truth is they do not lose girl but they win time. These girls who look shocked when we start talking about sex are in fact pains in the ass, frustrated, girls who look for suckers to exploit, etc. I mean, you would not have fucked them anyway, then it is better to know it rather sooner than later, no?

#7 copy and paste the first messages but do not get caught :

the idea it is to be able to send messages of 10, 20 or 30 lines in 30 seconds. Why? First of all, because writing so much sets you apart (many losers send “hi hw r u” ? ” or “u know ur cute baby”). Then, because the girls who answer are obliged to write everything they thus invest with time for you… More than you for them in any case. And, this invested time, they will probably want to make it profitable. Do not forget to personalize your text a minimum all the same.

#8 contact the women who visited your profile even if they did not send you a message:

Many girls have no courage to approach you IRL but do not have it either to approach you on the Internet. They are also submerged by messages from needy guys, etc. Those who visit your profile are generally attracted at least a little : they are most of the time OK for talking with you. It is an indicator of interest.

#9 to really see what the girls look like, ask for other photos or for their Facebook :

in any case, be careful, because a girl is not a photo. The least good photo is generally the one they look like the most IRL . Certain minors lie on their age also, etc. In brief, it is better to cross-check several social networks before meeting.

#10 meet only when the plan seems solid to you, really concrete :

to avoid being stood up and other flakes, I meet a girl only when I feel that she is really motivated and when we have already talked a lot about sex. I plan dates only when I have nothing else to do and when that does not oblige me to travel specially. So, during the last 2 years, I made love to 90 % of the girls whom I met on the Internet. And I met on average 2 a month with a free thus limited account. Well, you know everything now. It’s your turn to enjoy life !

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10 reasons why one must guard against online dating

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At the moment, I see a lot of ads which invite me to join dating sites… Some make dream (I like the grandmother who flirts with the handsome beard guy) ! But, I also know exactly what is hidden behind this golden facade. I lost enough time on this kind of sites, I took enough slaps in my face and I met enough women to feel obliged to warn you against the dark side of the online dating.

Warning #1 : the couples which praise the virtues of the site on the homepage are not real. They are free of copyright photos and testimonies written by experts in marketing. This kind of site is only very rarely a miracle place where you shall meet love (an improved (sex)friendship is yet more possible).

Warning #2 : girls’ profiles do not always belong to girls. There are people who are paid by the site to discuss with you. There are also teasing profiles made to exchange your money against naughty shows via webcam. Finally, certain guys create girl’s profile to make fun of the other guys or to obtain compromising photos of them with the aim of blackmailing them.

Warning #3 : the real women who go on these sites do not always do it for good reasons (especially on the free sites). Many come only to feel reassured on their power of seduction but do not want to meet guys. There are also quite a lot of hypocrites who do not assume to have joined a dating site nor to need and desire to make love… they warn you « no sexfriend I have everything I need (look  for the mistake) » or « just here for friendship » ; « a friend made my profile », « just here to see » etc. Their bad faith is without limit. Finally, some girls have fun playing the haughty silly bitch (they patronize you and make the malignant while they would close their mouth in face-to-face).

Warning #4 : even the girls who came on the site for the good reasons can quickly go nuts. Indeed, as soon as a girl creates her profile, she is immediately submerged by proposals (no courage needed for approaching a girl on the Internet). Hundreds of guys contact them, then they make gourmet and forget the elementary rules of politeness. They think that they are going to be able to select dozens virile, sexy, intelligent, rich and funny at the same time guys to put them in competition to buy them glasses in bars and bottles in clubs.

Warning #5 : when they went nuts, their case is hopeless : they think they are princesses. They think that they just have to wait to be picked up without supplying any effort. That they are authorized to make you wait 3 hours before answering, to throw tantrums for nothing, etc.. They will oblige you ceaselessly to come back talking to them, will answer your pavements with a single word, will promise dates then will cancel at the last moment. They will sometimes leave the site without warning, in the middle of a discussion.

Warning #6 : it is easy for women to have a date with a different hot guy every night but they undergo the social pressure. You, on your side, have to agree to pay and to nevertheless give them the power of the sexual choice. However, they are so much afraid of being labeled as « easy » that they do not use this power even if they really want to… The problem is there are too many frustrated idiots who would point them.

Warning #7 : competition compromises you. Indeed, the guys are the same there that in the street and the clubs (stupid, needy, in lack of affection, liars with complexes, poets who copy-send the same text to everybody, shy dudes who feel exhilarated thanks to the virtual but will not succeed in articulating 3 words in face-to-face, etc.). Thanks to the principle of association, you too will be labeled « loser ». This is why you should clearly make the difference in your profile.

Warning #8 : the great majority of the women (and men) are imbecile. The dating sites became places of human consumption where the individuals scroll the photos one after the other and try to collect the most beautiful specimens (you are nothing as long as the girl did not see you in person). Something else: since when a woman who says looking for seriousness, really looks for a serious relationship ? Since when a woman who says looking for a kind, faithful guy… really looks for this kind of man? Another effect of the social pressure. The truth is that if most of the girls connect… it’s because their love life is meaningless. They have nothing to do, then they look for somebody who will make her feel important, they want to live an appearance of story by proxy. It is a side effect of our overprotected society.

Warning #9 : there are techniques to sleep with almost all the girls whom you meet (the idea is to make a good sorting upstream so you meet only the motivated women). However, most of people speak generally about neutral subjects for weeks (body languages representing 90 % of the communication: it is impossible to know if the current is going to flow with a person before having seen her as large as life.) Or then, because of the sexual tension, they do not act in the same way that on the Internet. Or then, they go on 4 or 5 dates, go to the restaurant, then sleep together and it is bad… Then they never call back. Expect numerous disappointments if you respect the rules.

Warning #10 : be ready to assume. It is not excluded that you bump into people whom you know (people you work with or neighbors, etc.) I do not advise you to try to pick them up online: if they are interested, they will come… otherwise, it’s their loss.

The bottom line is : if you are a guy and if you respect the rules… so you are a sucker. If you are a girl, know that you serve only to attract those suckers. It is the same principle as in clubs but without the alcohol and the music. With that said, there are all the same rare pearls on the dating sites (I made dozens of great meetings with girls who did not too much complicate things …) and I thus could easily write an article about how to use the dating sites in a constructive way.