The wingman in seduction

A good thing to improve your game is to meet other good seducers in your city. Stay humble and cool even if you are better than them because the exchange is (almost) always rewarding.

For my part, I avoid taking as wingmen people who always give lessons, mythomaniacs, half-virgin guys who think they know everything about everything because they watched the formations of Nicolas and Vincent, etc. You see the kind of guys (I can tell you that there are many weirdos in the community of seduction but fortunately there are also great guys)!

Better is someone a little less good than you but who has a good mentality, rather than a better player thank you who is a pain in the ass… but the worst is a bad player that is a pain in the ass!

Finally, I do not like going out with 45000 guys, you do not usually pick up effectively in a pack. At the limit with one or two motivated buddies, it’s OK, but it is a maximum.

What is a wingman ?

A wingman is a pick up companion who is part of the seduction community (so it’s a player). It is, in the broad sense, a buddy who accompanies you in your sessions and your delusions, and that helps you to move forward in your encounters by the energy and the good mood that he gives you (and also thanks to his little pushes like pushing you on a group when you do not decide to approach). It is a guy who helps you to achieve your goals, if necessary, including by taking care of the friends of your target.

Seducing with a wingman, it is often easier than alone because he helps you spending better time (you can make fun of mean girls together) and you are less likely to be assaulted. I’ve said it before but I repeat it because it seems important to me: If you want to seduce women with the help of a wingman, I suggest you choosing someone who helps you and allows you to appear under your best light… especially not someone who always tries to dominate you and show that he has a bigger one than you.


What is a wingman used for?

The social network is important during a phase of seduction. Your buddies will have a positive or negative impact on your pick-up according to their behavior. So, choose respectful people because the more they respect you and the more they will strengthen your social proof in the places you go. So your social proof will walk with you. When you go out with one or more wings, it is therefore important to focus your attention on developing a good internal dynamic before even focusing on the sarge itself.

In addition, with wings that suit you, you can set up routines or at least a “habit” that works. Good routines with an accomplice allow you to bounce on subjects of conversation, to bring positive energy, etc.

Finally, you will encourage each other during the pick up sessions and never pull you down.


Wingman rules

There are precise wings rules so as not to sabotage the work of the other. The most important thing to remember before, during and after interactions with other sets is this: your wing is always more important than other people. Giving more importance to a girl you know for a few minutes than to your wing (who is supposed to be a very good friend) is a serious fault, and is a sign of a lack of attention/affection, of poor social life. Your wing is “sacred.” He is more important than the rest. You must not leave him alone, making fun of him to try to shine nor ignoring him.

Rule # 1: The pilot approaches the group and invites the wingman into the conversation.

Target flight is theoretically unimaginable between two good wingmen. If both like a girl, she is for the first one who approached her because the wingmen know that playing as a team is more profitable than playing selfishly in the Game.

Rule # 2: The pilot chooses his target and there is no competition. Only if it’s lost for him, the co-pilot can attack this target.

If your target prefers your buddy, you have to help him by saying a lot of good about him and diverting the attention of anyone who could interfere (especially the jealous “good friends”). To console you, tell yourself that you will be sent back the lift a next time… pride and ego have no place in a healthy game!

Rule # 3: You make each other increase your value by saying positive things about the other. You try to neutralize the cockblock threat.

It’s always better to approach alone a girl who is alone but if she’s in a set, it’s fine if you go with your wingman.

Good luck !


Scandalous writer, Game teacher and gender relations expert. "Coach in seduction", it doesn't exist... or show me a diploma (update : but that's what it's all about really... and people google it so I gotta use this word). I do not sell any specific method, because it would amount to close other doors: I am interested in anything that works. I like to experiment and have the nerve to go for it. I also enjoy to don't take it seriously. Do not count on me to tell you what you want to hear: I prefer to say things as they are (according to my understanding) but I must warn you that sometimes truth is disturbing. In other words: I don't do politically correct to take you for idiots and take your pennies at the same time. I hope it's not a problem for you! My values ​​are: honesty, respect and sincerity. My goal is to enjoy life without headache (and I don't care about haters for need hate to get reassured - if you doubt about my skills look at the "my proofs" page. My products are meant to be complete, exhaustive and effective immediately. If you want to improve your understanding and your relationships with the opposite sex, I offer a range of various paying products and of complementary free products : if you are interested, check the "my works" menu in the right sidebar. With that, you will know everything about the Game (the science of seduction and pick up) !

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